S12.E09: Calamity Jayne

[hoodooznoodooz]

4 hours ago, MamaGee said:

I am WAY behind on this season but who the actual eff does Kyle think she is??? Calling into question whether Sutton has had miscarriages, then putting her hands on Sutton and forcefully turning Sutton to have Sutton face Kyle. WTF?

Kyle came up with all sorts of lame excuses on WWHL. She said that she was very drunk. She was not proud of her behavior. She’s very physical with everybody, often. She said that Sutton already had that bruise before Kyle started aggressively grabbing her. 
The worst part was her implying that Sutton was lying about her two miscarriages. You can be friends with someone for a long time and choose to never discuss your miscarriage. 

[ZettaK]

5 hours ago, hoodooznoodooz said:

Kyle came up with all sorts of lame excuses on WWHL. She said that she was very drunk. She was not proud of her behavior. She’s very physical with everybody, often. She said that Sutton already had that bruise before Kyle started aggressively grabbing her. 
The worst part was her implying that Sutton was lying about her two miscarriages. You can be friends with someone for a long time and choose to never discuss your miscarriage. 

I don't think that Kyle and Sutton are such good friends anyway.

Edited September 22, 2022 by ZettaK

[RealHousewife]

13 hours ago, hoodooznoodooz said:

Kyle came up with all sorts of lame excuses on WWHL. She said that she was very drunk. She was not proud of her behavior. She’s very physical with everybody, often. She said that Sutton already had that bruise before Kyle started aggressively grabbing her. 
The worst part was her implying that Sutton was lying about her two miscarriages. You can be friends with someone for a long time and choose to never discuss your miscarriage. 

What I found nuts is when Diana said Sutton "hid" her miscarriages from everyone. Do you join a group of essentially coworkers and bring up every painful moment of your life? No, people do oftentimes open up if the subject comes up, which it did on the show. These women are nuts. I haven't had a miscarriage, but I understand it's sensitive. If I had one, I don't think I'd go around announcing it to everyone. I'd keep it to myself or share with a friend if I felt comfortable in the moment. 

[RoseAllDay]

8 minutes ago, RealHousewife said:

What I found nuts is when Diana said Sutton "hid" her miscarriages from everyone. Do you join a group of essentially coworkers and bring up every painful moment of your life? No, people do oftentimes open up if the subject comes up, which it did on the show. These women are nuts. I haven't had a miscarriage, but I understand it's sensitive. If I had one, I don't think I'd go around announcing it to everyone. I'd keep it to myself or share with a friend if I felt comfortable in the moment. 

You do keep a miscarriage to yourself, because a lot of people simply don’t know how to react — even those who would be really supportive in other bad situations. When I went through mine (about 20 years ago), there weren’t even many support groups. I hope that’s changed because you do need to grieve and work through the process just like with any other death. (I still have some lingering PTSD from them, TBH.)

I have always had a huge problem with Diana using her miscarriage as: 1) a cudgel; and 2) a way to call attention to herself. I’ve always been suspicious of her description, too. If you are still bleeding from it weeks later, that is a medical emergency, not something to brag about.