That's what made it so stupid. Then again, remember: "OH we are old and we want traditional weddings, I don't care if there is a pandemic and we are in that minority group that is catching it. GET A DAMN BIG WEDDING BECAUSE!" Yeah, so stupid, then again, from what we know about Winston's family, they seem to have a very controlling background. As for Maggie's "dad" this is like what his, third appearance and Krista wants to bring back that subplot from her mom dying saying: "Your father was very controlling and for the first time in years, I felt I could breathe."