So finished it and am back to say that, IMO, they are COMPETELY off base about Anthony.
I think it stems from a couple of things. First, how happy the parents were is a core aspect of the entire OG series. In the books he had no doubt that true love existed because of his parents (and the fact that he witnesses them together the most since he is oldest) He doesn't want to love his wife, in part, because of how devastated his mother was when his father died young.
Second, while he feels the pressure of being the head of the family he would never do anything - like "date" publi