whydoievencare

Raquel, while watching Scheana break down, has an absolutely vacant look on her face. I guess it matches the vacant space where a brain ought to be.

Like, watching two inarticulate people speak, like, inarticulately to each other is, like, so fuckin hard to watch Man. 🤣

She's a Miami HW.

Alexia is someone to be dodged too! 🤣

Sandoval has the shiftiest eyes.

I have realized who Louie reminds me of - Martini (Danny DeVito) in One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest. Also, The Joker.

I don't blame Lindsey at all for her demeanour when she and Danielle finally spoke in the kitchen. She was cool, calm and collected and if that bugged Danielle, then so much the better. I would have been beyond pissed with how Danielle has behaved all summer - shitting on Lindsey's and Carl's relationship. Shitting on their engagement. Making it all about her. Making Carl feel bad at his engagement party. Yes, Danielle and Lindsey have been close but if Danielle had been somewhat reasonable, they could have remained friends, but Danielle totally lost her mind. And to collapse on the floor? And those stupid "girls in the house" collecting around Danielle - they could have been providing a reality check for her instead of egging her on. For someone to feel so entitled that they question my relationship with my partner - as if they have equal status - would not end well. Things do change with friends to some extent when you find your life partner. The people in the house don't seem to feel that way at all. Danielle's behaviour is beyond creepy. Also, notice how Danielle never has responded logically to anything that either Carl or Lindsey has said - it's so weird. She's so weird.

They must - it's always the same bullshit outta their mouths.

You may be correct but I don't think any of that is why Danielle is acting so absolutely unhinged. I agree with you that Danielle's behaviour is totally abnormal. But she's never been able to express why she feels they are moving "so fast" or why she has such strong negative feelings about every aspect of their (Carl's and Lindsay's) relationship. I find Danielle to be totally repellant with her whining TO EVERYONE about only being informed about the engagement "an hour ago". When I got engaged to my husband, it was no one's business but ours. There were no third parties that felt any ownership about our situation. Danielle is such a fucking weirdo.

I find it to be kind of ironic that all the complaints Tom Sandoval had about Ariana are so similar to the complaints Katie had about Tom Schwartz. And Tom Schwartz is being totally supportive of the other Tom. The Toms are just two fucking idiots.

Danielle is upset about being demoted in her friendship with Lindsey - and couldn't be more childish about it. Every time it's discussed it devolves to the fact that Lindsey doesn't check in with her enough because Danielle has stuff going on in her life too! Lindsey's diatribe with Carl is totally nuts and is totally classic unhinged Lindsey. According to Lindsey Carl shouldn't be okay with Danielle because she isn't. Actually both Danielle and Lindsey have the emotional maturity of 13 year old girls.

Sure Sheana, you would have been happy being married in the alley behind SUR during Pride Week. If I was a guest I would have been pissed to find out that I was dragged to this resort for days and days of Wedding related activities for Scheana's and Brock's wedding WHEN THEY'VE ALREADY BEEN MARRIED FOR A YEAR FFS!!!!! How fucking selfish of them! I also have to roll my eyes very, very hard when Katie talks about the rules for her and Schwartz post divorce ie. don't date in their friend pool. But really, I just think she should fuck off about that. Not nice, I'm sure, but really, none of her business. Plus they have such a toxic relationship, why would they pretend to try to be friends - they never really were.

Oh wow! I knew he'd cheated once, but twice? Can you elaborate?

Except she could have gotten her money back and not had to travel to a destination wedding/resort that she might not have chosen to go to otherwise. Personally, I would have been relieved to just get my money back!

I am absolutely unable to understand how Lala has so much confidence in herself despite all facts pointing to what a totally useless person she actually is. When she had a secret relationship with "my man", apparently he was the best thing ever. She was merely adjacent to a quasi successful pudgy cheating Hollywood yutz. But his money made her successful? She's an expert on everything, takes no accountability for anything. While Raquel has turned out to be a shitty little girl, I hate how dismissive Lala is regarding everything that Raquel says that has actual merit. Lala lives in her own reality where she's the Boss Bitch.

So, four episodes in. I know it takes a few episodes to set everything/everyone up. But I really dislike Alexandra Daddario as Rowan. There's something about both her and her voice that just doesn't work for me in this role. And I'm disappointed in how they are portraying Lasher. I really liked Jack Huston in Boardwalk Empire, but (unkindly of me) was Lasher kind of chubby? And the hairdo - it's not becoming at all. I think TPTB could have done much better.

It really seems to have become the OGs vs the women who are "trying to get on the show" (to quote Meredith). And Jen is an OG - are they just protecting their own? They don't want new people in their club? Otherwise I can't figure out why Meredith is so dismissive of Angie K being unhappy than Jen poured champagne on her head. Or why they are still supporting Jen.

Robyn's tag line should have been: "I didn't just want the sister wives, I wanted all their money too!"

I would think, no matter what their intentions were going into polygamy (one big family - not separate ones) that's it is always a competition amongst the wives and kids. And I've wondered if that was something that Kody promoted, to some degree. After all, if you aren't quite sure of your place in the family , aren't you going to try extra hard? I read somewhere about Robyn's mother - the wives lived separately. And Robyn's mother ended up being the favourite - isn't that just what Robyn has accomplished? I can imagine her mother teaching her that her husband should be her best customer! And for the past several years, Kody has certainly promoted favouritism - ie "if you want my favour - this is what you have to do. See how Robyn and her kids behave?" He's used them as a measuring stick for the rest of his family. That's like saying to one of your kids - "why can't you be like your sibling?" I've also been truly aghast how he thinks and speaks "creatively" - meaning he just outright lies. What a model to everyone, right? I think everyone in the family grew up - except Kody.

I'm thinking he doesn't have their numbers... But they certainly have his!!!

Kody's sad little boy voice "it's funny that they get to pick and choose who they want to spend time with, but I can't". But in fact Kody did pick and choose who he spent his time with and that was Robyn and her children. Kody made it very clear for the past two years. But it's all Janelle's fault their children aren't happy with him. Sure Jan.

OMG - I can't believe that preview where Jenelle walks off because she doesn't want to sit there and be yelled at by Kody and Kody is telling her "it's a really bad idea for you to walk off on this one". Is Jenelle supposed to submit to Kody having a temper tantrum directed at her? Does he ever consider his responsibility to everyone else in his whole family other than Robyn's? (Obviously we don't think he does.) People on the forum are wondering if there is something terribly wrong with him - he is showing the absolute worst side of himself in the scenes with everyone else and also in his THs. Normal people might try to conceal the worst sides of themselves - especially if it's being filmed for others to see, but he doesn't. AT ALL. I would say he has problems with almost all of the older children - as they grow up they can see for themselves what he's like based on how he's treated them and their mothers and form judgements of their own. If those judgements are negative, then he blames the mothers for that - not the fact that he has not behaved in an exemplary way. The two youngest children don't know any better, and Robyn's daughters have been groomed by Robyn to suck up to Kody.

Yes, that's what she said - she was discussing her relationships with both Meri and Robyn.

Kody talks about how "brokenhearted" he is but he has so much rage too. And actually, it's only the rage that I see. I think he's just pissed off that the decision to split was Christine's only. He had effectively distanced himself from her and her kids in reality. Like constructive dismissal. He keeps questioning why Christine couldn't just stay and then maybe the girls would have stayed, but of course can't understand why that wouldn't have been good for Christine. The two older girls would have left for school anyway and she would have been there with Truly and a "husband" who didn't want to provide for her emotionally. He accused Christine of not having relationships with her Sister Wives but that wasn't true. She was close to Janelle, had as much of a relationship that anyone could have with "walls up" Meri and seemed to have a cordial relationship with Robyn. They have all been distanced from each other. I doubt Janelle is any closer to Robyn than Christine is. Kody seems to think that he was just a stellar husband and has no awareness how much he has let Christine AND Janelle and their kids down. At the final farewell, I thought Robyn's older girls were just such sullen little fucks - all down to their mother's attitude no doubt. And trust Robyn to twist Christine's words to her - Christine said she just needed some time away - she did not say she never wanted to see her and her children again.