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It's so hard to infer tone and I don't want to assume, I wasn't trying to imply in my post (which you responded to) that Mo should be held responsible for repaying that, I guess I do feel all he wanted was the green card but beyond that, now what's clear to me is how awful he is (please do not feel I am saying Danielle is a saint), he is incredibly abusive, manipulative, vindictive. Where do we draw lines of his behaviors being a reaction, a defense, rather than part of him, a reflection of who he is? My mind just boggles, I mean wow. I think it's one thing to find a person who is likely to go to desperate measures, the type of person (excuse me and I mean no insult) you may see on Tunisian Love Rats, the type of person prone to bring a man to their country at all costs, and quite another to see the depths on BOTH ends we've seen here. I don't even know how to explain what I'm thinking, I feel so lost for words..I feel so inadequate at conveying the multiple sides of the already unique "love rat" scenario, let alone the depths of the Dani/Mo situation, just wow. I think loads of psychology could be written about their individual dynamics, let alone their combined. I just can't even. She isn't excusable in any way, still, he is beyond any pale.

Okay, I have MANY annoyances with Danielle, however, WHY is Mo: Galavanting around Miami like a late 80's Tunisian wannbe broke Zack Morris? WHY isn't he trying to work and support the family he became a part of? WHY did he convince Danielle to drop the annulment to remain "friends"? WHATtheEverLovinHeck? I mean, now she should just be "okay" with, just "accept" that he wants to be her "friend" and give up all hopes at a marriage? I get there is so much here, but WHAT? WHY should Danielle have to concede to this? *sigh* Danielle is manipulator, she had zero business bringing him here in the first place, given the financial struggles she was already having and the increased burden this would mean for her (and more importantly, her children!), not to mention, the attention this would take away from her girls, however, Mohammed is an absolute inexcusable berating manipulator, emotional abuser, and power player. I can't even. I'm not trying to justify one for the other, none of it is okay, still, to get Danielle to concede to that on the agreement of "I'll be your friend", WHAT?! SMH By the way, I do not feel Mo should just be deported, I don't know why, I don't like him and I don't like the things he does, I don't know why or how he's just aimlessly walking around, I assume the kindness of others, but I feel it's cruel to just send him back.

So. since so much else was coming out and questions and accusations were being thrown (some I knew about a long time ago, because I spent a couple of months wrapped up in this drama last year, anywho...)...am I the only person that was hoping..when the host was asking Mo about kissing Luisa..someone would mention his lip "mishap" and her tongue "misfortune" as "proof"? I know it may not be proof, but how many of us were thinking it?! So, do you think Mo got that lip travesty from his US escapades, perhaps Luisa? Or is it just a cold sore irony, given his wanderings and Luisa's disgusting tongue? (that's been previously posted here) I may be in the minority, but I was happy with the hostess, simply because she sure asked more daring things than last year's "tell all". I know, we're talking comparisons, but still, she did! I learned about this "pee" incident last year and my understanding is this occurred before they were married, when she went to visit him abroad.

Well, thanks for that ear worm! LOL :D

And yet barely meets the requirement of, "You must be this tall to ride this ride." Luckily for him, he looks tall on TV because Danielle is barely taller than a person from Munchkin Land or an Oompa Loompa. Or not luckily for him. Because in some shots, he's good-looking, it'd be dang disappointing to be "one of those women" who dial him up, only to discover IRL, he's not tall at all, he's pocket-sized. (And I'm a shortie, for reference, only 5'2.5", but I can't even with a guy that's 5'6", which I was stunned to discover about him) Dang, that's generous of you. Add in his personality, those cold sores, and his Willy Wonka shortness and he's batting a 1, or below. Wasn't Sadusky where Tommy Boy took place?! I could so easily Google that, now I will.

Nothing seems off-limits for Danielle or Mo in terms of the selfish ends they'll go to in order to have what they want, Dani sacrificing her children's everyday security by using money to "get" Mo instead of for even putting a roof over their heads, let alone paying for electricity, water, or food. She is deplorable. He is also disgustingly selfish. The whole issue makes me irate.

#wordsIwishwoulddie

Thank you! They were using the site to find a co-sponsor?! In addition to gleaning info? Why am I surprised at all any more.

The actor playing the husband is grating, I've never liked him. His face, voice, and mannerisms make me irrationally angry. He makes me feel like punching something, just detest him!

Lowo's face and smile inspire ridiculous amounts of rage in me, I just want to knock that smile off his nasty, lying face. WHY aren't we getting more questions answered, like, "HOW is he studying anything in Vietnam and why?!" Language barriers at all, no? It just defies logic. I know not all are scammers, but any country like Nigeria, Cameroon, Tunisia, etc, would be a huge RED FLAG for me if a guy from there was showing avid interest and pursuing me. Sorry, read about too many scams. I am Googling to find Ikea's (thanks to the poster who came up with that LOL) friend's appearance on 'Catfish', gotta see this!

What is VJ? Thank you! :-)

PS- there was something so off about the way Graham looked. What box # of L'Oreal Feria does he use? Or is he a Garnier guy? That hair style, ugh. He had a very punchable face, even if she was a Stage 11 clinger that needs some help.

I deal with "women" like Katherine every day, only they are usually older (often A LOT older), take things far more overboard, and fall completely apart when they realize that yet again, they made a connection more than it was (and totally blame the a-hole guy) because they have attachment issues that are epic. "OMG! I saw this guy when I was walking into a store. He was 90 yards away in a parking lot, but he smiled at me! When are we going to meet again? When are we going to date? When will we get married? How long before he loves me? Is he still thinking about me?" I don't even kid. This is why I DON'T drink, because if I did, I'd drink multiple boxes of wine...daily.

SHARILEWIS2.0! I mean, what more could we ask for this season? DANI, the prequel. HilaryBanks2.0 This is the show that keeps on giving.

I think he looks defeated and resigned, sometimes embarrassingly so, he looks to me like he feels trapped and without an easy or good way out. He doesn't want to admit he under-estimated her level of demands and lack of affection, which seem to be too great even for the part of him that may like financial domination and some humiliation; he doesn't want to send her back, it feels heartless and also like a failure, but he also feels that he can't move forward. I have empathy for him, I see a lot of hurt and I'm sorry he's experiencing that. I'm back and forth on Anfisa. Sometimes her no shame game is....entertaining? to watch? Often, it's just uncomfortable. I only give her props that she sure isn't in the business of scamming, at least she is totally upfront about her reason(s) for being there. His hope that things would change/not be as extreme as they seemed is no reflection of that, simply of his greater hopes and desires for the relationship.

Because though this case is "high profile" to us and on our radars, it may not be on the radar of people that have that power/capacity? Even if it is, they may look at it as a fiasco and drama fest, but not worthy of deporting Mo? I have to admit, though I don' t like Mo, I'm not exactly jumping on the "send him back!" train, it feels so heartless. Tunisia has been financially devastated rather recently and they weren't a super-rich country to live in to start with (hence lots of "love rats" looking for their out), I feel awful about sending someone back to that.

Are you talking about how she acted before he came to the states? Mo worked that job in Tunisia. I think the most he worked here was around three weeks, and I didn't think it was for DHL, which he worked in Tunisia.

If I recall correctly, past charges related to this are why she can't officially work in some capacities in her given field and may make a criminal background check difficult to pass if she were to work, say, in one-on-one at home elderly care. There was so much tea spilled on past FB forums that it's hard to keep track and re-remembering some of it is like finding it for the first time! That's because there's more opportunities in a hovel in the US than in one in Tunisia. Mo has almost no chance of upward or probably even lateral mobility back at his home base (and I'm not saying I fault him for that, the way he goes about it is another thing entirely).

I also want to know if River's hair got its own contract. Should have paid it to LEAVE. Chia pet catastrophe. I can't even with HilaryBanks2.0, she is annoying and I'm surprised she has any friends. I'm feeling really witchy tonight, my apologies.

I almost want to believe that N & L are TLC's lowest attempt at insulting their viewers, surely this can NOT be real? If you look up "s- eating grin" and "Nigerian scams", HIS is THE picture you will see, no written definition needed. Also, I wish I would fund a man coming to this country who has NO plans or reasonable skills to find good-paying work. Children, please, take a seat, take several!

Something I made up LOL Just playing on the whole ridiculousness of these online engagements. There's already "FB married", where you're just "married" as a status on FB, maybe next people will be having babies via SnapChat. Also, more poking fun at and marveling at how he fathered a child with someone in Alabama. It came across poorly, and this explanation isn't helping much, I apologize!

Dani/Mo are the train wreck that keeps on giving!

I'm sitting here now, being quite lazy, while I have a kitchen in severe need of cleaning. Guilted myself into finally deciding to get up off of my butt and do something about, just as soon as I post this. These couples are TOO much..and though Devar's sisters cackling was rude, it was also hilarious. I'm probably headed straight for hell due to all of the spiteful things I've thought, typed, and said about some of these people.

I'm not sure if that's related to why she borrowed her brother's car and I had forgotten she got his car impounded! WOW! She makes heaps of downward spiraling mistakes!

THANK YOU! So did he con a woman into taking an International trip and that's the result? Was the woman visiting/living abroad and met him and that's how this happened? OMG! Inquiring minds! Sperm by mail?! Snapchat baby?! WTF?!