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Kate has the most irritating voice of anyone I’ve ever heard and they show her a lotttt .

But even in the pod episodes , zenab wreaked of insecurities . She even said at one point that she’s a flight attendant and no one ever hits on her and she said several things that made it clear that she has deep insecurities . Cole did not break her self esteem . He just didn’t help her self esteem . She has a lot of work to do on herself before trying to commit to someone .

I think Zanab’s personality is too harsh and she has a snobby way about her . I thought Cole was terrible to her in the beginning with the Colleen stuff and I get why that made her more cold toward him as time went on . That being said , I think he’s been much better to her as time went on and I think she’s been the one who’s ruining the relationship at this point . She needs to lighten up and if she can’t because that’s just not her personality , then this guy isn’t for you .

The Bartisse not being attracted to Nancy seemed to come out of nowhere , as he did keep mentioning being sooo attracted to Raven but he also said Nancy was beautiful too from what I remember . They were having sex but now he doesn’t want to go near her because the attraction isn’t there ? Did they cut a scene ? These girls really need to pick their low self- esteem up off the floor as it’s embarrassing to watch women who have known these men for a week or 2 , so scared to speak up and say how big of an asshole the guy is acting and just get up and leave the relationship . Particularly Zenab and Nancy . They just nod their heads when their guys say how hot the other women are . I am genuinely confused by Bartise constantly talking about looks and how the physical is extremely important , yet Nancy didn’t respond ..” hey if you feel that way , why did you go on a show called love is blind ?”

I am so confused by Cole and Zenabs thoughts that Colleen is drop dead gorgeous and so much prettier than Zenab . In fact , off the bat I thought Zenab was the prettiest girl by far out of all of them . Maybe I’m blind because I don’t see Colleen as beautiful . She’s average looking at best . And In the talking head, Zenabs like “ I’ll never look like Colleen , I’ll never be as tiny as her .” In my eyes , Zenab is tinier than Colleen . I think Z has body dysmorphia because she is so insecure about her looks for no reason . Even in the pods she said guys never hit on her . She’s so insecure and being with a guy like Cole who thinks being honest is the same thing as being rude is just not a good match .

Both of these girls were so obsessed with getting engaged and wouldn’t accept any less , yet look at them now . There’s something to be said about the people on this show NOT getting engaged and actually just dating after the show and letting a relationship build . It’s such a joke already

What do Cole and Bartise think they are accomplishing by constantly telling the women they’re with that they find another girl extremely hot ? I think everyone in the world knows that there will always be someone else you’re attracted to , but that doesn’t mean you have to say it .. and they keep digging themselves deeper in a hole because they keep bringing it up . I’m just mind blown that any person at any age would think that would make their partner happy to hear . Matt was really over the top but after seeing Zenab and Nancy just let the men sit there and talk about other women being so gorgeous and rating the other women higher than the ones they are with .. it was kinda nice that he told her that wasn’t ok . But yeah again he was way over the top and is 100 % a red flag . i have to say , I find Zenab so much prettier than Colleen so I’m kinda surprised Cole thinks Colleen is so gorgeous . I’m not seeing it . I do think Zenab is kind of a wet blanket though . She’s one of those girls who is too scared to ruin her makeup to get in a pool and I think Cole is too care free to be with someone like that . I was cringing when Cole said that everyone would be interested in other people unless you are Kim kardashian , but you look like her so you’re close . Does this guy have any actual brains in that head ?

Unpopular from what I see , but I like Kevin as a host ! And I don’t say that often . He is real .. says what’s on everyone’s minds and asks them hard questions . I especially liked when Binh was like , “ I have to heal my inner child “ and Kevin was like what is up with you West Coast people and these terms ? Lol . I was thinking the same . I don’t buy what Binh is selling . He brings up his childhood and not feeling like he was accepted in Asian culture as an excuse to why he’s not ready to be married now . Maybe the real reason is a sexuality thing , maybe it’s something else .. but I doubt his reason is the actual reason .

I like that Krysten is sticking up for herself unlike past women on the show who were walking doormats ( Kate , Mindy , etc .) But she is making it seem like every man in the world would be attracted to her , which is not only untrue for her .. but it’s not possible for anyone. Even Jessica Biel might not be someone’s cup of tea . Looks and attraction is very subjective . If everyone had the same taste , we’d all be screwed . I do think Mitch got in his head a lot and I do think he’d pick apart anyone he got matched with but I also think he just has a different type that he’s attracted to . For example , I’ve heard my entire life how attractive Brad Pitt is .. but when I look at him I’m just like , eh . Does nothing for me . Krysten seems to reject the fact that people can have different types .

It seems more than obvious to me that Michael and Danielle were together before the show started and agreed to get a paid vacation and pretend they never met before . Eliza was acting ridiculous but my guess is she’s just not into Rodney so she’s making it like it’s his fault for not doing enough just so she doesn’t feel guilty . Listen , if someone asks you on a date and YOU say yes , that’s on you , not the other person . He can say he’s not happy with the decision but it’s not his decision to make . He left Lace for her so that’s him showing her that she is who he’s interested in . The girls this season just seem very immature and needy .

I really didn’t see much chemistry between Lucy and Stephen . I felt far more between Diana and Stephen though Diana was way too good for him . The actress that plays Lucy looks so much like Shailene Woodley that I keep thinking it’s her . Even their voices sound the same .

Was sad to see Evan sleep with Lucy and it kinda was out of character but I guess he had somewhat of a crush on her before he became involved with Bree ? That part wasn’t clear to me because he did say “ I like you “ and maybe I’m slow but I couldn’t tell if he meant it in a romantic way or just that he liked her as a person . Because he never flirted with her otherwise . Were pippa and Wrigley still together at that point of the wedding ? I guess she never came out by that point . It’s interesting watching a show about 18 year olds because you know when you were 18, you made such dumb choices which is completely normal but watching 18 year olds making dumb choices is very annoying . Lucy was very pathetic when it came to Stephen so I was somewhat happy about her comeuppance but then I realize how young she was and I try to sympathize more lol . i legit have no memory of Lydia , but why was Stephens hair so bad and why did everyone of them look exactly the same years later ?

Genevieve needs to cut her hair .. well , take out the extensions . She needs a shorter Bob . Its clear Aaron has his issues too but I genuinely think she’s nuts . She’s always running around angry , has a constant scowl on her face , is still going on about Justin who did nothing to her ( if anything , she was much worse to him than he was to her .) I don’t see her lasting with anyone in the real world unless she learns to overcome getting angry over every little thing .

Omg her age is so distracting . She looks 45 to me .

I just find Lindy's voice to be super annoying. It has such a whiny tone to it. But other than that, I think she acts reasonably. Miguel's personality during the getaway was scary and I would've said no just based on that alone. She literally just went under his health insurance so I doubt she was ever going to choose divorce that quickly after. Agree about the deserving more comment. It was like Alyssa of last season constantly saying she was a good person. People who are good people don't need to say it and justify it 100 x a day. They just know they are. I like Krysten. I think she's sweet and would be a good friend. But leaving the door open didn't make sense. The man is 41? years old. It's not like he's a 25 year old that just needs time to mature. He matured as much as he's ever going to. He also spent 8 weeks with you which should have been the honeymoon stage but it wasn't . Just move on, close all doors and find someone you have more in common with and a better connection to.

I thought the others were unnecessarily attacking Mitch. He was right. He never said he was leaving the door ajar. (lol who speaks like that?) Krysten did. He said that they weren't right for each other as husband and wife and she kept saying the door is open for her. I thought he was actually being very kind in the way he spoke to and about her on decision day and I thought it was obvious that he had complete respect for her as a person and they were amiable but his romantic feelings for her just weren't there and that was the problem. I think Krysten would have said yes had Mitch said yes first and i'm surprised they didn't have her go first. The thing that confuses me with this show is when one person says yes and one says no. Like, isn't this something you would discuss with each other off camera? Why would anyone not talk about what their decisions will be , that way no one is left hanging or embarrassed.

Yeah, I really don't feel bad for them lol. They are all getting paid nicely daily and all have the same opportunities . If it was just new girls that came and no new guys came, I would agree with you. They do the same thing on Love Island and the girls leave their villa too for a few days. I don't know why they always have the girls leave but I do notice that the girls on both shows are always much more miserable than the guys. I understand if you like someone and miss them, but you don't have to be so sad and stay to yourself. Have fun with the situation. Though I guess having no phone, books, TV, music etc can make for a very boring day if you have nothing to entertain you.

Look, under normal circumstances I'd say you're right.. but Natalie doesn't ask things, she demands it. It's not "are you interested in having more kids in the future whether it's me or with anyone? It's " I want child. Are you going to give me child?" Her picker is also off. Josh straight up tells her his life is super busy and he doesn't have time for kids, doesn't have time to even see her really. He's not hiding this information. If she chooses to still see him just because she thinks he's hot, that's on her. But it's also obvious to anyone that he's not that into her. I assume his motive is to be on tv and to grow whatever business he has because I know for damn sure he's not still seeing her because he actually likes her personality.

I don't think the girls were treated like extras. They had the same opportunities the guys did and were in an air- conditioned location which is the biggest win. They had 5 new guys to choose from. They chose to sulk and be miserable the entire time while the guys chose to have fun, even if it wasn't with the intent of being with the new women. Jill chose to leave, no one made her. Shanae was into Tyler, he just wasn't into her. If your " relationship" can't stand 2 days apart, it ain't gonna be workin out in the long run. Logan seems like a woman hopper in general so anyone's better off not being involved with him. Genevieve never smiles. She has a constant scowl on her face and seems like she'd be such a bitch in the real world.

I actually count Arie and Lauren more than the rest of them because they actually got married and have a family. She wasn't his pick at the final rose ceremony but he did choose her at the after the final rose. Erich and Gabby are still together by The bachelorette contract standards (aka for 2-6 months) but I doubt they will be together long term. Usually they stay together until a little bit after Dancing With the Stars ends. BIP does have better outcomes than the Bachelor/ette because there's a lot more people to choose from. On the bachelor, it's 30 people competing for 1 person whereas on BIP, the number of women and men are relatively equal and there's always new people who come in. In addition to that, they can actually hang out all day together whereas on the regular show, they see each other (mostly in groups) and maybe 3-4 times if they make it to the very end. I guess Johnny just wasn't into Gabby. He said he wasn't ready to propose, but I guess he just meant he wasn't ready to propose to her.

I hate Kate's voice so much! And it does not match the way she looks. I find her to be kind of pretty but then I look again and she is wayyy too botoxed and has such a bitchy looking face. She just comes across as very phony. I think Andrew is adorable and really has a great smile. Victoria is another way too botoxed girl. Her face doesn't move and her eyes bulge because of the lack of movement.

He'd be so good looking if he cut his hair again and trimmed the stache down. I just can't get into his look.

My favorite line from Victoria: "I miss just doing life with Johnny." For ALL OF 2-3 DAYS?!! She is attractive but she has little personality to her. And I don't believe she is a "one guy- girl." She is known to not be.

Weren't Johnny and Victoria engaged at the end of this season.. have they already broken up? I'd be much more surprised if they actually stayed together for a few months.

What always makes me confused with the participants on this show is that every single one of them that sign up are willing to make this huge commitment of marrying a stranger, but so many of them are so hesitant and adamant on not saying they love the person even if they do because it's "too soon." Soo you're willing to legally marry a person you don't know but saying a few words is scaring you? Makes no sense to me. It's up there with the participants not loving their partners looks and being checked out on day 1 even though they knew that was a very strong possibility since they knew they weren't going to meet their spouse before the alter.