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Farmfam

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  1. Farmfam

    Jenelle: Birther Of 3, Mother To None

    I’m the original poster who brought up the bedroom for Jace. When Jenelle first wheeled her house into position on her land she stated that each child had their own room. Later it was revealed that the upstairs hadn’t been completed, Jaces room being one of them. Is this the biggest deal, no. Is it required that each child has their own room? No. But after 2 years of being promised a bedroom and it’s still not completed it should be addressed. Especially if Jace brings it up. Lets look at the facts. This was all prioritized over her sons (promised) bedroom in her home- pool she-shed large storage barn countless animals, their food, their pens countless trips for work and pleasure Davids weapons ...I’m sure there is more. The point is that Jenelle and David prioritized themselves, not the kids once again. Therefore it should be noted and a judge may or may not have some thoughts on it. Also, for those familiar with family court, do J&D know which GAL is for each child?
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    Kailyn: Kail Smash!

    Well gee, if this really did “fall through” MTV should have been filming....that I would have loved to see!
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    Jenelle: Birther Of 3, Mother To None

    I bet they are at Lowe’s buying supplies to finish Jaces room. He told that he hasn’t had a bedroom since they moved to the Land. Maybe the judge ordered they finish that? **correct me If it’s known they already finished it.
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    Except Chelsea (and Cole)

    I’ve been married for 6 years and dated 3 years before that...I still adore my husband. Is he perfect? No, but is is absolutely perfect for me...I don’t have a social media presence, but if I did, I wouldn’t hide that from the world. My life with two small children can be Boring and routine so there wouldn’t be much to post anyway. Some people’s “love language” are “words of affirmation” maybe Chelsea or Cole need that to feel loved, and it isn’t about flaunting or rubbing it in people’s faces. One of my 4 best friends ended up marrying a guy that was emotionally abusive. We knew this and tried telling her before they got married. Stood beside her as they divorced and she rebuilt her life. I’m sorry that happened to her, but I shouldn’t hide my happiness because of it.
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    S09.E11: Peace Gathering

    I also enjoy the comments here, while disagreeing, each have valid points on both sides. My opinion? Chelsea could talk until she is blue in the face, but it’s not until the Linds actually own who their son has become that they will truly listen. It’s best she goes through the courts. If they valued their time with Aubree, they would speak to their adult son and explain that right now he can’t be around. Encourage him to attend the visitation center and/ or enter rehab, and slowly his parental right can be discussed.
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    Catelynn (and Tyler)

    Hmm...interesting. I certainly hope nothing is wrong, but I couldn’t help but notice.
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    Catelynn (and Tyler)

    I don’t usually comment on babies, but her lips look blueish/ grey. I hope nothing is wrong.
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    The Duggalos: Jinger and the Holy Goalie

    Thank you! I was aware that giving away “gear” wasn’t generally accepted, and I do understand. Not their job to keep up with recalls and such! I was hoping to give away only clothing and swaddles. I found one young mother through a friend that can use some of it, some was given to a local women’s shelter, and the rest to our community aid store. I was hoping churches would have been more receptive...maybe I’ll keep trying as my daughter keeps growing out of sizes!
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    Josiah and Lauren: He Has To Marry Somebody

    This is off google when I found out I was pregnant for the first time, but the home pregnancy tests are getting better and rarely produce a false positive. Also, both times I found out I was pregnant, I never saw my OB/GYN until 10-11 weeks, even they went off a home pregnancy test.
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    The Duggalos: Jinger and the Holy Goalie

    🤦🏻‍♀️Forgot about FB Marketplace! Thanks! Tried our local ones...they would rather money. I was even hopeful they would have taken my stuff and distributed it to those they felt needed it, but nope. They don’t have the storage for it, or that’s what I was told.
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    The Duggalos: Jinger and the Holy Goalie

    No, but this sounds perfect! Thank you so much! Yes, the Moms houses are for women coming out of domestic violence situations with or without children. I have no real problem giving to goodwill, community aid, etc but since a lot of our baby items were gifts or hand me downs it doesn’t sit well with me to ask for someone else to pay for it, especially someone genuinely in need. I have asked a few of my friends, and I’ve even intentionally chose different denominations than mine! Thank you!
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    The Duggalos: Jinger and the Holy Goalie

    This made me think of something. I’ve stated before that I’m a Christian, and I’m actively involved in our church. Anyway, I’ve recently had our last child and I cannot give away our stuff...our church doesn’t know of any needy family?! Our local school district social worker has nobody in need? And the local moms homes that I’ve tried don’t want used, they want money for new items. If someone is in deseperate need of baby items where would they go?
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    The Duggalos: Jinger and the Holy Goalie

    You know, that is so interesting...I’m of the Christian faith (not fundie). I have an older child with special needs (Down Syndrome) and recently had my second. The second child as a newborn was HARD! She was so very fussy, trouble breastfeeding, only liked to be held, and didn’t take a pacifier. The looks I got from other mothers when they asked “is she a good baby” I would honestly respond “no”...it doesn’t mean I loved her less, or I regretted having her, but it was honestly a really hard adjustment at first. I was tired, frustrated, and emotional. When people ask how it’s going, I really think people assume most will say “it’s great!” And this is why we have women with PPD and the feeling of nowhere to turn for help. I couldn’t imagine being around people that I couldn’t be honest with. Or gotten help, if it came to that.
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    Jill & Derick Dullard: Counting On (Donations)

    Sounds like I’ve been doing life in the wrong state all these years! Although, your climate is generally warmer which I would appreciate!
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    Jill & Derick Dullard: Counting On (Donations)

    I agree with a lot of your post. The only thing I’m say, no matter if they choose to have 2 children or 20 children, they need to be cared for. Even if Jill would get a job while Derick goes to school, childcare would break them. If Jill hates being a SAHM (I agree, she doesn’t like it) going to work part time wouldn’t provide an income, the money would go to childcare. If Jill was allowed to ever get a job, it would be self-fulfilling, not for money. Many people I know kept their jobs after children and bring practically nothing home financially but leaving their job creates other challenges. For example, I left my job as a teacher to be at home and my husband is self employed. (I’d be bringing home less than $7,000 a year after childcare, gas, commuting, clothes, etc if I kept working) I’ve been home now 5 years, haven’t done anything to continue my credits I need to maintain my teaching credentials, I’m so out of the loop that going back would be very difficult. I’m basiacally an undesirable candidate anymore. This is a job that pays well and I was well qualified for! I had a girlfriend keep her job, again bringing nothing home financially, but said that in 5-7 years she has so much growth potential at her job that leaving would jeopardize climbing the corporate ladder. Then helping to provide a nice life for their family. The worst part is that neither Jill or Derick have any goals or aspirations. Sure, Derick is in school now, but I doubt he will ever actually use a degree, if he gets it. It’s disgusting if his mom is providing for them at all even if Jill worked.
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