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S01.E14: Listen to Your Ladybugs


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7 hours ago, Harvey said:

I had this experience this before, doctors get so frustrated when you looked up your symptoms so you know what is going on and because of this you notice when they misdiagnose you. Like excuse me for caring about my health.

I understood his frustration.  Google and WebMD can be very useful tools in helping a layman find out more about potential symptoms and treatments, but they aren't a substitute for a medical degree or training.  I'd have to think doctors hear so much garbage from patients who have done their own research that it gets old quick, even if the patient might be right about a particular diagnosis.

    

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I thought this was a good episode.  It was nice to see the nurses rally around Joyce as she dealt with her medical issue.  

Bruce always cracks me up.  He got so focused on the first line of the poem, but then he read the whole thing, and rather than having some kind of epiphany, he thought it was a load of crap!  Typical Bruce!  It was funny that he had to call his mom for reassurance.  He seems to be a highly competent surgeon, but emotionally he tends to be a mess!  

Doctor's egos are a delicate thing!  I think it's good that we can research our symptoms & have a general idea of what we think might be wrong, but Ron's patient seemed to be dictating his care before ever letting Ron check him and then he had the other doctor on his computer, and that's a sure way to make a physician mad! The patient was getting a second opinion before getting the first one!  He needed to let Ron examine him before questioning his every move. 

In the dental world, it's usually an issue with the misinformation a person reads from social media or some M.D. on TV who gives dental advice without ever having studied dentistry.  I can't count the number of times I've heard "but Dr. Oz said....."   Ugh!  Sometimes we're fighting a losing battle on educating people about their dental health because they think that what they read on the internet trumps all of the years of schooling & experience by dentists, hygienists & assistants.  

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5 hours ago, txhorns79 said:

I understood his frustration.  Google and WebMD can be very useful tools in helping a layman find out more about potential symptoms and treatments, but they aren't a substitute for a medical degree or training.  I'd have to think doctors hear so much garbage from patients who have done their own research that it gets old quick, even if the patient might be right about a particular diagnosis.

    

It is understandable, but not reasonable. The most common illnesses are easy to diagnose precisely because they are so commonplace. Innocent people shouldn't suffer just to protect the sensitive doctor's feelings who wants to play god.

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43 minutes ago, HyeChaps said:

Joyce is an oncologist.  She knows better.

True, but she was probably scared and didn't want to face the results (if they were bad).  Being an oncologist, she's seen the worst-case scenarios and that's scary for her (and anybody in that situation.)  At least she had the mammogram. 

There are people whose fear of what could be keeps them from getting routine tests or seeing a doctor whenever they have something suspicious come up.  I've seen it in the dental office.  Some don't want any x-rays for fear that we're going to find something wrong.   There's a lot of fear out there in the medical & dental field.  

 

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I'm lucky to have doctors who enjoy working with an informed and proactive patient. If you're not a defensive ego-maniac with a God complex, it's not hard to respond to an informed patient.

When they tell you what they think, you can ask them why they think that [maybe they will report a symptom you wouldn't otherwise hear about] and say something like "sounds like you've been looking into it, but let me also do an exam to confirm" or "The treatment I recommend is XYZ, which I think will be more effective than the ABC you suggested".

The patient is free to take your advice or not, and that's their problem. You can tell them why you recommend what you recommend, and why you think their info is wrong, and it's ultimately their life for better or worse. It's not about your ego. Obviously a patient came to you for help. So you offer the help. You don't have to feel threatened by their attempt to be involved and informed about their care.

Sometimes I think doctors are so busy being on a power trip that they can't actually relate to patients like functioning human beings.

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5 hours ago, Harvey said:

It is understandable, but not reasonable. The most common illnesses are easy to diagnose precisely because they are so commonplace. Innocent people shouldn't suffer just to protect the sensitive doctor's feelings who wants to play god.

I don't know about anyone suffering.  It's one thing to say "I think I may have "X" diagnosis" to your treating physician during your exam.  It's another to order them around regarding getting you specific treatments, or have a doctor at the ready online to check their work.  There are certainly bad doctors out there with poor bedside manners who don't treat their patients in a respectful manner.  On the other hand, we currently are seeing how dangerous it can be when people without the appropriate medical training or background take health care into their own hands.     

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On 3/12/2025 at 10:22 PM, possibilities said:

Sometimes I think doctors are so busy being on a power trip that they can't actually relate to patients like functioning human beings.

Luckily, I haven't had that particular issue.  The main issue I see is medical offices that are really busy, so you don't have much time with the doctor.  You've got to voice any concerns in a concise manner.   

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On 3/12/2025 at 8:22 PM, possibilities said:

I'm lucky to have doctors who enjoy working with an informed and proactive patient. If you're not a defensive ego-maniac with a God complex, it's not hard to respond to an informed patient.

I agree. A lot of doctors hide the ball, they don't think patients need or want to know details, how they reached a conclusion, or why they're recommending something. But I do. I'm coming in informed, and I'm going to ask questions until I'm comfortable with whatever's happening. It's my body, health, life, so I don't give two figs about a doctor's ego. Grow up. Of course Dr. Ron and his patient were both obnoxious and exaggerated for the laughs. But I'm on the patient's side.

On 3/11/2025 at 5:25 PM, AnimeMania said:

Anoop Desai as Ben Harris

I can't believe that was American Idol Anoop!

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Bugging/pestering/nagging people about private health screenings is a HUGE pet peeve of mine (a local hospital had a #AskHer mammogram campaign, which I thought was invasive and awful). 

The, in my experience, inaccurate mammogram "gag" of Joyce's "ouchie! this hurts!" reaction is one of the reasons women skip this screening, so the show did women a disservice with the lame joke. It would have been funnier if she had a line like, "See? Easy and gentle as usual!" then turned and bumped her head hard on an open cabinet, causing the robe to fly open again.

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7 minutes ago, ASpring1900 said:

It would have been funnier if she had a line like, "See? Easy and gentle as usual!" then turned and bumped her head hard on an open cabinet, causing the robe to fly open again.

I normally privately roll my eyes when random people on message boards post to say how a show would have been better if it had done some idea the poster came up with, but I gotta say, I can’t disagree with you there!

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On 3/12/2025 at 1:03 PM, txhorns79 said:

I understood his frustration.  Google and WebMD can be very useful tools in helping a layman find out more about potential symptoms and treatments, but they aren't a substitute for a medical degree or training.  I'd have to think doctors hear so much garbage from patients who have done their own research that it gets old quick, even if the patient might be right about a particular diagnosis.

    

Well, if you’re like many of us, who have been getting the runaround for years nay,  decades about mysterious symptoms or you are diagnosed with something but then getting no aftercare instructions or any follow ups then using Google correctly is a godsend. 

WHAT does Joyce see in Sanderson? She really is too smart to be stuck with this useless boyfriend.

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