iarwain October 25 Share October 25 9 hours ago, Yeah No said: I love Will Sasso and think he's probably the best new character, but turning him into the stereotyped weak, henpecked husband is falling somewhat flat for me, at least the way they're handling it. And Mandy's mother is even more insufferable than Mary. I realize they need some conflict and some characters to stir the drama, but I think they made a mistake making her so annoying and unlikable. Doesn't make for pleasant viewing. You know, I had never really considered that Mary was supposed to be an insufferable character. I had always seen her as a sympathetic character, with some quirks. 6 Link to comment
Dimity October 25 Share October 25 14 minutes ago, iarwain said: You know, I had never really considered that Mary was supposed to be an insufferable character. I had always seen her as a sympathetic character, with some quirks. Absolutely agree. What I hated on YS was the way they threw the character of Mary under the bus in order to rehabilitate George - in that they didn't want to portray him on YS the way he had been talked of on BBT. Fair enough. But even with the quasi canonizing of George they did manage to make Mary a sympathetic character to me. 4 Link to comment
Yeah No October 27 Share October 27 On 10/25/2024 at 1:14 PM, iarwain said: You know, I had never really considered that Mary was supposed to be an insufferable character. I had always seen her as a sympathetic character, with some quirks. Google sums up how I feel about this far better than I can, lol: "Yes, many viewers consider Sheldon's mother, Mary Cooper, to be "insufferable" on "Young Sheldon" due to her overly strict, religious, and often critical nature, which frequently leads to tense interactions with Sheldon and the rest of the family; her character is often portrayed as overly controlling and sometimes even manipulative. Key points about Mary's character that contribute to this perception: Strict religious beliefs: Mary's strong religious views often influence her decisions and interactions with Sheldon, leading to conflicts when he questions or deviates from her beliefs. High expectations: She sets extremely high standards for Sheldon, often criticizing him for not meeting her expectations, even when they are unrealistic for his age. Overprotective nature: Mary can be overly protective of Sheldon, which sometimes hinders his development and independence. Lack of emotional flexibility: She often struggles to show empathy or understanding towards Sheldon's unique personality and needs." I'll add to this that she did all of the above with her husband, mother, and other children as well. 1 Link to comment
iarwain October 27 Author Share October 27 30 minutes ago, Yeah No said: "Yes, many viewers consider Sheldon's mother, Mary Cooper, to be "insufferable" on "Young Sheldon" due to her overly strict, religious, and often critical nature, which frequently leads to tense interactions with Sheldon and the rest of the family; her character is often portrayed as overly controlling and sometimes even manipulative. Being Christian myself, I may be more inclined to be sympathetic toward her, although she doesn't always express it in the best way, and her character is certainly flawed. I don't think she is meant to be portrayed as a villain though, not to the same extent Mandy's mother is. Mary was probably more of a heroic figure in The Big Bang Theory. She could usually solve Sheldon's problems pretty quickly and easily. 2 1 Link to comment
Yeah No October 27 Share October 27 (edited) 6 hours ago, iarwain said: Being Christian myself, I may be more inclined to be sympathetic toward her, although she doesn't always express it in the best way, and her character is certainly flawed. I don't think she is meant to be portrayed as a villain though, not to the same extent Mandy's mother is. No, she's not a villain, at least I never said she was. And I'm a Christian too, just not fond of overly judgmental ones, which I think she can be at times. Also, this was my quote about Mary in its entirety: On 10/25/2024 at 3:32 AM, Yeah No said: And Mandy's mother is even more insufferable than Mary. At least we sort-of care about Mary despite her ways but with this woman there's just nothing to want on my screen. Edited October 27 by Yeah No 1 1 Link to comment
Dimity October 27 Share October 27 (edited) 12 hours ago, Yeah No said: High expectations: She sets extremely high standards for Sheldon, often criticizing him for not meeting her expectations, even when they are unrealistic for his age. I have to disagree with google on this one. I don't think her standards are unrealistically high, for Sheldon or for the other two for that matter. Or even for George when it comes to that! I think a lot of people come to shows set in an earlier time and expect the characters to act the way they would act (theoretically) in 2024. I have some issues with the way Mary, in particular, was portrayed on YS but where her parenting was concerned I thought she was shown to be a good mother who was out of her depth with Sheldon. Edited October 27 by Dimity 4 Link to comment
possibilities October 27 Share October 27 (edited) I like Mary. I'm not even a Christian, but I thought her uptightness and judgments were tempered by the fact that even if you crossed her values line, she would still love you and treat you well. I think that she was often exasperated because she was not getting the support she needed, and people were never appreciating her enough for what she did for the family. She worked outside the home and did the house stuff and people took her for granted. George could sit down when he came home from work, and Mary never got to rest at all. I also thought she was sometimes too lenient with Sheldon, other times too over-protective, but that is pretty common when it comes to parents, who have a tough job and make mistakes. She had a difficult assignment, and again-- no support. Most people rolled their eyes at Sheldon or pranked him, hardly anyone knew what to do with him, so for her not to sometimes make mistakes is a lot to ask of her, in my opinion. Edited October 28 by possibilities fix typo 4 Link to comment
JayDub1987 October 27 Share October 27 My biggest knock on Mary was that outside of a couple instances, she only acknowledged her other two kids when they were doing something she didn’t like. Sheldon was golden in her eyes and the other two were either nonexistent or problematic. 4 Link to comment
chitowngirl October 27 Share October 27 (edited) A thread to discuss and analyze characters and plots from Young Sheldon vs Georgie and Mandy. I’m open to suggestions for the title thread. I just edited the one that was in Young Sheldon. Edited October 27 by chitowngirl 2 1 Link to comment
Daff October 27 Share October 27 11 hours ago, Yeah No said: No, she's not a villain, at least I never said she was. And I'm a Christian too, just not fond of overly judgmental ones, which I think she can be at times. Also, this was my quote about Mary in its entirety: You’re right, she was judgmental at times, but never to the extent that the tables were turned on HER by the community when G and M refused to marry. She never went out and chastised the “sinner” in the public square, as was done to her (and it wasn’t even her own transgression!) She even lost her job for C sake. 2 Link to comment
Yeah No October 27 Share October 27 (edited) 3 hours ago, possibilities said: I like Mary. I'm not even a Christian, but I thought her uptightness and judgments were tempered by the fact that even if you crossed her values line, she would still love you and treat you well. I think that she was often exasperated because she was not getting the support she needed, and people were never appreciating her enough for what she did for the family. She worked outside the home and did the house stuff and people took her for granted. George could sit down when he came home from work, and Mary never got to rest at all. I also thought she was sometimes too lenient with Sheldon, other times too over-protective, but that is pretty common when it comes to parents, who have a tough job and make mistakes. She had a difficult assignment, and again-- no support. Most people rolled their eyes at Sheldon or pranked him, hardly anyone knew what to do with him, so for her to sometimes make mistakes is a lot to ask of her, in my opinion. No doubt any parent would have had a difficult assignment with Sheldon and I suppose she could have done far worse. Some of it for me with Mary is a cultural and values difference that rubs me the wrong way. My mother was born 100 years ago but she was light years more sophisticated, progressive and less rigid than Mary. And yet she had very high standards for me and led by example. And Sheldon aside, because he marches to the drum of his own special planet (and to some degree Georgie too), but Missy wouldn't be acting out so much in adolescence if Mary was such a great parent. She and her mother should be closer, but it's just not possible to have that kind of connection with Mary. She's very highly strung and every little thing makes her overthink and over-parent. Most of the time her style was overly dictatorial. My mother would have said she had "too many preconceived ideas" about everything. As much as the internet calls BBT Mary a "villain", I see her as a much more evolved individual and one I would much rather have had as a mother than this earlier Mary. In general of course. YMMV. Edited October 27 by Yeah No 1 Link to comment
shapeshifter October 27 Share October 27 (edited) Posted in response to thread starter's (@chitowngirl?) question (which I can't see anymore) about this thread's title: I'm not sure that I'll be active on this board, but maybe include TBBT too since adult Georgie appears there a couple of times, as does Missy, and Mary more often. If you want to keep it short but still include all 3 shows, maybe something like: From TBBT to YS to G's & M's 1st Wedding: Anomalies and More Or maybe that's too many abbreviations. ETA: or maybe: Compare and Contrast “Georgie & Mandy” with TBBT and YS Edited October 28 by shapeshifter Link to comment
Dimity October 27 Share October 27 If we include BBT there are just so many things that got referenced there that don't add up in the YS universe or the G&M universe. The biggest being, of course, that in the gospel according to Big Bang the first grandchild was Missy's. But I've let that go...mostly :). 1 Link to comment
SoMuchTV October 28 Share October 28 4 hours ago, shapeshifter said: I'm not sure that I'll be active on this board, but maybe include TBBT too since adult Georgie appears there a couple of times, as does Missy, and Mary more often. If you want to keep it short but still include all 3 shows, maybe something like: From TBBT to YS to G's & M's 1st Wedding: Anomalies and More Or maybe that's too many abbreviations. 3 hours ago, Dimity said: If we include BBT there are just so many things that got referenced there that don't add up in the YS universe or the G&M universe. The biggest being, of course, that in the gospel according to Big Bang the first grandchild was Missy's. But I've let that go...mostly :). @chitowngirl I wouldn’t object to including TBBT in this thread. A lot of that was hashed out already but if someone new wants to bring it up here I don’t see it being a major derailment. Speaking of, maybe we need a Small Talk thread as well. I’m not starting any new threads tonight but I’ll try to remember to come back later and see about it. 1 Link to comment
Daff October 28 Share October 28 Over the summer, I watched all of Young Sheldon from the beginning, straight through the final season. I’ve never seen one episode of TBBT, although I saw ad clips and read comments about it in the YS thread. When I finished, I came to the conclusion that most of the inconsistencies could easily be chalked up to Sheldon’s misperceptions he has of his own childhood. There were many, especially around adult social interactions. I watched, mostly because of Annie Potts and the cute kid who played Sheldon. I didn’t dislike George, but saw him as a typical breadwinner resigned to the fact he was not in control of his lot in life after his marriage-destined to lay low and avoid rocking the boat unless absolutely necessary. 2 Link to comment
shapeshifter October 28 Share October 28 6 hours ago, SoMuchTV said: @chitowngirl I wouldn’t object to including TBBT in this thread. A lot of that was hashed out already but if someone new wants to bring it up here I don’t see it being a major derailment. Speaking of, maybe we need a Small Talk thread as well. I’m not starting any new threads tonight but I’ll try to remember to come back later and see about it. I could start a Small Talk thread if you want. Right now @chitowngirl's screen name is making me homesick for Ferrentino's deep dish pizza, which is totally a Small Talk topic since I doubt they have deep dish in Texas either (I'm in Western NY now). 1 Link to comment
Tom Holmberg October 28 Share October 28 I was watching TBBT the other day and Sheldon said Georgie was 19 when he first married. On 10/25/2024 at 12:14 PM, iarwain said: I realize they need some conflict and some characters to stir the drama, but I think they made a mistake making her so annoying and unlikable. It's a sitcom (comedy), it doesn't necessarily need drama. 1 1 Link to comment
Dimity October 28 Share October 28 (edited) 8 hours ago, Daff said: I’ve never seen one episode of TBBT, although I saw ad clips and read comments about it in the YS thread. When I finished, I came to the conclusion that most of the inconsistencies could easily be chalked up to Sheldon’s misperceptions he has of his own childhood. If you watched TBBT - especially if you've watched it as it loops endlessly in reruns - you might feel a bit differently. On TBBT there were very specific memories that Sheldon shared that really were not open to misperception. The Cooper family and Sheldon's childhood were different on TBBT and were changed when YS came on the air. And very understandably. George in particular was a very different person on TBBT as opposed to the George Cooper we all grew to love on YS. All the characters differed somewhat but George definitely was the one who benefited the most when they decided to ignore a lot of what had been established on TBBT. Edited October 28 by Dimity 3 Link to comment
OlderThanDirt October 28 Share October 28 Missy is floundering because she lost her father who really saw and understood her (their scenes were the best thing in YS), and her twin who was her mirror image and the point to her counterpoint. Georgie could take up some of George's role in her life. Mary's relationship with Missy is colored by Mary's own wild teenage years before she got pregnant and then married, and Missy's newborn health crisis which drove Mary to her church. I liked how the writers and Zoe made Mary a multi dimensional character. No perfect Father KnowsBest or Leave it to Beaver mom here. I'd like her to grow into the Mary of the first season of TBBT rather than the religious fanatic Sheldon thought she was. 2 Link to comment
Daff October 29 Share October 29 17 hours ago, Dimity said: specific memories that Sheldon shared that really were not open to misperception. By definition, “memories” and “NOT OPEN to misperception” are mutually exclusive. Everyone’s memories are viewed through their own percepts at the time they are experienced. Time and again, Sheldon blew events way out of proportion and went into panic mode. 2 1 Link to comment
shapeshifter October 29 Share October 29 On 10/28/2024 at 4:50 AM, shapeshifter said: On 10/27/2024 at 10:39 PM, SoMuchTV said: maybe we need a Small Talk thread as well. I’m not starting any new threads tonight but I’ll try to remember to come back later and see about it. I could start a Small Talk thread if you want. Your like is my command. Have at the small talkin': 2 Link to comment
Dimity October 29 Share October 29 (edited) 3 hours ago, Daff said: By definition, “memories” and “NOT OPEN to misperception” are mutually exclusive. Everyone’s memories are viewed through their own percepts at the time they are experienced. When BBT was first on the air the show Young Sheldon was not even a gleam in Chuck Lorre's eye. With few exceptions none of the families or childhoods of the main characters are depicted well and none more so than Sheldon's. There are references through the years of events that could not have been misperceptions or Sheldon remembering things and making himself the star and ignoring what was really happening. Almost from the beginning George was presented in a very negative light by both Sheldon and by Mary. There are numerous incidents that Sheldon recounts that are not cases of him misremembering, misperceiving or out and out lying about his father. When they decided to do Young Sheldon they very much threw BBT Mary and Sheldon under the bus in order to redeem the character of George. Which, to be honest, made the show what is was. Had they gone with the George of BBT it would have been a very different, and much darker show. Edited October 29 by Dimity 5 Link to comment
Wanda Sunday at 10:03 PM Share Sunday at 10:03 PM On 10/29/2024 at 10:33 AM, Dimity said: When BBT was first on the air the show Young Sheldon was not even a gleam in Chuck Lorre's eye. With few exceptions none of the families or childhoods of the main characters are depicted well and none more so than Sheldon's. There are references through the years of events that could not have been misperceptions or Sheldon remembering things and making himself the star and ignoring what was really happening. Almost from the beginning George was presented in a very negative light by both Sheldon and by Mary. There are numerous incidents that Sheldon recounts that are not cases of him misremembering, misperceiving or out and out lying about his father. When they decided to do Young Sheldon they very much threw BBT Mary and Sheldon under the bus in order to redeem the character of George. Which, to be honest, made the show what is was. Had they gone with the George of BBT it would have been a very different, and much darker show. Mary’s comments and feelings towards George on TBBT could be explained away by her anger at him dying. Perhaps she never got over those feelings expressed at the funeral and it was easier for her to focus on the negatives (and amplify them) than to deal with her loss. and Sheldon had convinced himself that his father cheated on his mother with a blonde (which turned out to be Mary in a wig she got in Germany) and that, along with his guilt that he didn’t say a proper goodbye to his father (see his reactions in Funeral) colored his memories. Yes he has an eidetic memory, but he also has difficulty changing his viewpoints even if he remembers everything. Memories aren’t created without context. 1 2 1 Link to comment
Dimity Sunday at 10:08 PM Share Sunday at 10:08 PM 2 minutes ago, Wanda said: Mary’s comments and feelings towards George on TBBT could be explained away by her anger at him dying. Perhaps she never got over those feelings expressed at the funeral and it was easier for her to focus on the negatives (and amplify them) than to deal with her loss. Again, I don't want to take anything away from fans of YS - I am a fan too - but the Big Bang Theory exists in the same universe but the Cooper family we 'meet' on BBT bear only a passing resemblance to the family on YS. There are numerous incidents recounted on BBT that are not Sheldon remembering things wrong. They are writers making jokes or explaining things about Sheldon long before YS was ever created. 1 Link to comment
Wanda Sunday at 11:47 PM Share Sunday at 11:47 PM 1 hour ago, Dimity said: Again, I don't want to take anything away from fans of YS - I am a fan too - but the Big Bang Theory exists in the same universe but the Cooper family we 'meet' on BBT bear only a passing resemblance to the family on YS. There are numerous incidents recounted on BBT that are not Sheldon remembering things wrong. They are writers making jokes or explaining things about Sheldon long before YS was ever created. But what YS did was “explain” many of the things we were told on TBBT. A big one being the blonde he caught his father cheating with. One of the last episodes of YS showed that what Sheldon always thought was actually incorrect. That it had been his mother in a blonde wig all along. That leads to the conclusion that other inconsistencies were likely due to similar reasons…that Sheldon didn’t see the whole picture, or misread a situation. And those colored his memories of his father, who wasn’t there to correct him as he grew up. I think that we are to believe YS is canon for Cooper family history rather than TBBT stories as one showed us, while the other was hearsay. 1 1 Link to comment
Yeah No 20 hours ago Share 20 hours ago i just wanted to say that we have had these arguments before on the YS threads over the years. I have made similar points to all of you at different times. In certain ways I agree with @Dimity that at least some of the negative stuff about his father that Sheldon recalled on BBT long before YS came out likely did not fall into the category of misperception or lying. I think Sheldon DID misperceive his father having sex with a blonde woman but he didn't misperceive his father in other ways that weren't flattering to George's character but those things were later whitewashed by YS in order to redeem George's character. Sheldon was always inconsistent in his perceptions of things. Sometimes his memory was spot on in its perceptions and in other ways it was skewed by his assumptions. I agree with someone above in general that everyone sees things through their own particular lens and that is often not consistent with a completely unbiased view but I say that doesn't mean we don't sometimes get it pretty close to right too. And even Sheldon did at times, even just based on what I witnessed of him on BBT. Link to comment
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