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Just finally getting to this episode. Leah, really? The very worst thing somebody could do to another person is to ignore them? I think there are a lot of worse things someone could do. Ramona bugs me, but she was the host of the event, and was trying to greet all of her guests. Leah, you should have been a big girl and went and found something else to do instead of assume that you needed to be entertained personally by the host. Ramona was disgusting? Is that really the word? Selfish or narcissistic maybe, but I would not choose "disgusting" . You grinding with your dress up around your waist as a choice you made without any alcohol, and on your meds, maybe would have been seen as some sort of an expressive act at some sort of art show or dance club or something or maybe even in your own house. But this was not the arena to behave like that. You're acting like this is you, and you are being shamed for being yourself, and I don't think that's true. I don't think you consciously made that decision, soberly. All of this trying to deflect the shame back to someone else? Is keeping you from being held accountable for your actions. If I drink on my meds, the same ones you're most likely on, I barely know what I did the night before and I spend the entire next day apologizing! Grow up.

Here is what I think happened: The ladies found out Denise got a million-dollar contract, or whatever it was. They found out she makes more than them. So that is number one; they were irked/jealous. Then number two: They didn't think she "earned it"-- not dressing up, not getting glam, not really caring or attending events or getting involved in the way they were (not that this is true.) I think they were on edge for these reasons. They perceived her as not "living up to" the million-dollar contract, that they feel THEY should be getting, because they gave blood,sweat and tears to the show.

I just got through watching the Jeffrey Epstein documentary on Netflix, and he was doing the exact same thing while being deposed. He was pretending he didn't hear the very clear lawyer, or that he didn't understand very clear language. It has to be a trait of a...whatever they are!

I think she is pissed because Kristen did this to HER with Jax, and she forgave Kristen...and now she sees that Kristen never did change (in her eyes) and she is trying to justify her feelings toward Kristen (She is a "bad person").

I think Kyle was pissed off that they all had to wake up at 5 a.m. and it was a pain in the ass and it was probably three and a half hours to get there from LA. She was annoyed that Doritos did not also wake up at 5 a.m. and did her own thing. Kyle probably wanted to do the same thing, but production told her she had to go early. Denise, the reason everybody ignored you is because they are filming The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills... and when they film dinners like this? They're trying to be shocking and entertaining to make for "Good TV".

You know he was LOVING being at that dinner! He was Kyle's "Ladysitter" back in the day (babysitter for her girls), which I am sure helped when he wanted a job at E! My main issue with Sutton (unless she did this on purpose to create drama-- which, in that case, was perfect) is that she walked in the door apologizing for wearing Ready-to-Wear" rather than Couture...knowing that ALL of them are in Ready-to-Wear! She blasted every single one of them, straight out of the gate (there was a possibility Erika was in some couture, but still...a dinner party at someone's home? Is it time to bust out red carpet gowns?)...I think that was the rudest thing yet, nothing a well-bred woman would have said. Denise, you were in pain and you STILL WORE HEELS--- should have done flats, as non-sexy as they would have been.... Sutton had clip-on bangs that were attached to that bun-- I have seen them for sale! They were just a tad too long, and made it look like she had a lazy eye on one side! I think she had it on crooked. YES to whoever pointed out that being gracious is number one! You don't walk around crowing about 'mistakes' you see at other people's events! (No place cards?! No, bitch. No place cards.) Producers: Hey Rinna, please start this game at the table... As much as Sutton WAS rude in 1000 other ways, I did agree with her on Teddi being offensive. "I really don't care if you come" IS RUDE...She needed to re-word that, in one of the ways all of you have pointed out. Saw Sutton on a podcast (Heather ...what's her name again? Heather with the Barbies? Juicy Scoop?-- Oh, McDonald!) and she said she: Met her ex-husband in eighth grade. She was a debutante. They used to live in NYC. (I didn't finish listening, but I should.) She said of COURSE she watched the show beforehand! Kyle's dinner party looked straight out of a Dynasty set! Those colors, the flowers, Kyle's hair-- the whole thing!

Yep, and Air Supply, Toto, Doobie Brothers, Hall & Oates...

I am convinced this was Danica giving herself some extra money. Some tables don't look at their bill, and servers add on to them, and get to take the money home that night (they have a total, they take out credit card totals, and part of the cash, and then leave that night with whatever is left over in cash. I know I explained that terribly.) I also saw this a lot in the nightclubs I worked for in L.A.== as soon as a table got loud and drunk, servers would add extra drinks onto the bill, and take home way more money in tips.

Danica is doing what I used to do when I was a horrible person back in the 90s. She's purposely overcharging tables who aren't paying attention, and pocketing the cash for herself to buy outfits.

Randall: "Jax, I brought some coke, do you want to go to the bathroom and do a few lines?" Jax: " Free coke? Why yes, yes I do! Also, would you like to be my groomsman?" I believe Ariana is absolutely suffering from depression.. what I cannot understand, is why she continues to be filmed for a reality show. She seems smart enough to know that this would exasperate her condition immensely. I can't imagine she thinks this is a good idea in her heart.

Meaning, that there are zero reasons to vote Democrat, and that she is a Republican. Okay, my thoughts... I'm sure Amanda is a good person inside, but she looks like a 70s porn actress. I'm getting sick of hearing Chloe's lisp: "Thiesta Key" Come on people, none of us believed that Kelsey was actually in to Jared in the first place. I I feel like Juliet needs to be on mood stabilizers, or decrease her birth control pills / estrogen intake or something. She seems too emotional, however, I'm pretty sure I was the same way at that age. Juliette is also looking a little raggedy in those lashes and the extensions, she's naturally pretty and should scrape off all the rest. Robby is scary, trying to stare straight into Amanda's eyes to prove he's not a liar. If anyone is a sociopath, it is definitely this dude. Giving her a waterproof phone case? Bitch, you need to be bringing me a brand new phone. Garretts vocal fry is almost comedic. It's over the top.

"I want to model because.... I want to go deep"? "So many people stay in the shallow end?"... No offense to models, but is that the deepest profession?

So funny how Cara is making fun of everyone for not graduating high school, yet Alex is reminding her that she cheated throughout college. Love that Juliet was wearing a white tube top and a tiny skirt /( shorts?) for first day on the job. I was nervous Amanda's bikini top was going to unravel. This show is so trying to be Laguna Beach circa 2004, and it's just not working. They do have the super bleached hair, and the slo-mo of the beach, but it's just so staged. Kelsey and JJ? Come on now. BG and Amanda? That also seems fake. And now this wonky Chase character shows up in a boat to create a fake love triangle triangle.

Lala and Scheana's "commercial"....I am so embarrassed for them 🤣. Peter is both buff and fat. Max looks like Gavin Rossdale. Carter looks like a homeless meth addict. There are so many people shoved into the frame for the show title shot, it looks like my first grade class picture on the bleachers!

I think Olivia Colman looks like an older Vanessa Kirby. And it bothers me that the eye color of both women went from light blue to dark brown.

Matt is as gay as a French horn, and I have nothing against gay men---but they really shouldn't come on Bachelor in Paradise as straight men😆. I am cringing at Blake and his falsehood. She was 'in front of you this whole time'? Bitch please! You are such a liar. I can feel his lies through my TV screen. The producers are letting him dig the deepest grave of all time; they're not letting him off the hook and it is pretty glorious. As for Kristina, she has so much rage and anger permeating off her (with good reason, I do remember her past), but she's just too negative. She's definitely beautiful, but the tone of her voice always sounds angry. She just does not seem very pleasant to be around.

I could not stand him and I completely agree to every single word you just said! My issue with this show is the editing: We do not need to hear each cast member repeat who the couples are, or who just showed up on the beach, ad infinitum. When something happens, we don't need a cast member to parrot it back to us after the commercial break, and then three more times. Yeah, WE GET IT. Also, editors: as viewers, this is what it sounds like to us when you edit the show in such a way: Clay: It is difficult for me to see my ex on this beach. (Different camera angle) Clay: You know, my ex is here and it's hard for me to see her because I still care for her. It's difficult. *****Commercial break for some ridiculous cop show starring Cobie Smulders********** Clay:(this time with even less feeling in his voice) Angela is here on this beach and it's very difficult for me. We were just in a relationship only months ago. (Mike comes to "chat" with Clay just in case the audience needs another reminder of what's going on) Mike: How do you feel about seeing Angela here? Clay: (still monotone) it is very difficult for me to see Angela because we were just in a relationship only months ago. It is just very difficult for me. Editors....please... This isn't fun. I've heard this person repeat the same line 6 , 7, 8 times now!

I think we think he chose her, because she will do anal...

Maybe Lexi is the personality, and the twin is just the person who parrots everything-- so getting her alone might just result in silence

I am always horrified to hear these stories, and I am horrified that Bravo would actually name the first episode "Choo Choo Train" or whatever it was. Not funny, Bravo. Too low and too vulgar.

Shane is terrible and I agree with everything all of you have mentioned...but, devil's advocate: Maybe this guy doesn't want his wife grinding around in lingerie on public television-- especially as a Mormon. Maybe it would've been different in private. Even if she looked perfect (not that she doesn't) or they had a perfect marriage-- maybe he is regretting all of this being filmed, and this is something he realizes he doesn't want people watching. Maybe this went further than he thought it would and he no longer wants Emily to film, but she is insisting, and his mother is all for it-- she likes the glitz/glamour, as does the sister. Maybe Shane is the odd man out and realizes he wants privacy-- but it is too late. We forget that spouses are not always game-- they get embarrassed, they get pissed, they might think "What has my spouse signed us up for!? This is beyond my limit!" I can't believe I just defended Shane, I truly think he is a cretin.

I hate that I know the reference-- but it would be "running" a train. The things you pick up from rap music (hangs head in shame).

Is Dean wearing a cardigan.from the Lisa Rinna collection? I thought he was wearing a duster at the rose ceremony. Sydney and Mike look great together. With all due respect, I did not need to hear Katie repeat herself 27 times throughout this episode. We get it. We are following. With that being said: Peace out Jen!

I live in L.A. and the older Persian women dress as such--might be a cultural thing? Here is my take: Shane is gay. Very gay. His mother wanted him to marry/have kids, and he did, to please his crazy-ass mother. So now, he has dumped his wife off on his mother like, "here, you wanted this, here you go." All parties are moving forward without him.

I have a friend who lived in Coto, who went looking for such a place without "riff raff"....and lo and behold, behind both sets of gates, her neighbor is a pretty well-known rap artist-- one that is considered dirty/street (but who has enough money to live there). Along with said rapper, is said rappers "hood" friends, and God knows what else, next door to my friends young kids. Not sure if it was disclosed, or how such things work, but there you go. This also happens a lot behind the gates in Calabasas and other CA places. Lots of rap stars, or other Riff Raff with money. Aside from that-- it doesn't mean there isn't crime and drugs either. The crime is just white collar, and the drugs are just Rxs.