I was gonna say - Oliver gets called out here for being a dumbass all the time. From going to family dinner with Sara at Laurel's house in S2 (and whatever other dumb shit he did back then I can't remember). His idiocy in S3 working with Malcolm and how shitty it was to make his friends think they were all dying and he was responsible. His idiot lying in S4, his idiot relationship with a reporter who was investigating him in S5 and his insistence that she wouldn't expose them despite her telling his dumb face that she would. His going to jail without telling Felicity about it in S 6/7. There's probably more stuff too - if Oliver's woobified and his idiocy and bad behavior is excused, it certainly isn't on this board, LOL.