GreatKazu

Yes. I am going to eat all I want on Easter Sunday and I am going to be on a clear diet the day after to prepare me for the colonoscopy on Tuesday morning. I actually have to start my clear diet at 10 a.m. on Monday morning and drink that stuff that will purge everything out of me. Thank you for your concern. :-)

Especially when Tyler already proclaimed to his mom that having a 9-5 job was not enticing.

When the hell is Amber going to fix her damn ear lobe? Jesus Christ that shit looks nasty as hell. Did that happen when she pulled off her earrings and then grabbed the Vaseline prior to punching Matt?

What is it that Baby Huey has in his hands that has the words "America" and "Latino" on it?

Briana didn't say if it was a boyfriend or a random. Makes me think it was a random guy.

I hope you are doing well from your surgery! Good point about nursing school and her thinking she can drag her kids to class again. OMG can you imagine? She'd be booted out of there quicker than being booted out of some dude's bed after sex. I will give credit to "Lincoln Not Lincoln But Marshall" for the puta reference. lol I love that kid. He calls it as he sees it. PUTA PUTA PUTA! I need that on a gif.

Right. I am not reading that Cole is as much as fault for the home being a mess. It is his home as well. Being a full-time worker outside of the house doesn't preclude him from helping around or picking up. Maybe he does help around the house. I have never gotten the impression that he views it as Chelsea's job and she should be maintaining a clean home. I have mentioned before on Leah's thread how she is a SAHM and it is her job to maintain a home. I pointed that out because she doesn't have her kids with her full-time the way Chelsea does. Leah is the one who was ratted out as maintaining the dirtiest home on the show by a camera person. A SAHP doesn't have the luxury of punching a time card at 5 p.m. and say their day is done.

Ain't this the truth. For her to not be talking about Ryan after years of her talking non-stop about him. She goes from demanding drug tests and not sending Bentley over to Jen's for visitation to suddenly letting Bentley go over there without a mention of her worries of Ryan and bringing up a story about a miscarriage that seems to change depending on who she is talking to about it.

I have a friend who is friends with a person like that. She confided in me that this woman friend of hers has confided in her how her husband is pushing her into having threesomes, he is verbally abusive to her and he monitors her social media pages. He tells her who to vote for in elections, and has some prejudices. That friend of hers posts lovey-dovey posts on Facebook and gushes about her husband. Since he monitors her social media page, I assume she does that because he expects her to. Now, as for Cate, I think she piles on the love and mushy posts about Tyler for two reasons - she does it to guilt him - she does it to get him to respond to her the same way so the world will continue to harp on them as the best couple ever The thing is, she doesn't get the respond she is expecting. Tyler pats himself on the back and is boastful. And she is too dumb to realize that.

Agree. Chelsea didn't ask for much other than to have a family. It was what she said numerous times over the course of the seasons. I think another thing about Chelsea is that she is grateful and appreciative of what she has in her life. She went from an abusive relationship with Adumb to Cole, who is a loving and respectful man. There were guys in between, but we didn't get to see them and evaluate them. Speaking of those other guys, she didn't have them move in with her which is a major plus. Unlike Leah who had a guy move in and she acted as if the relationship didn't exist and she tried to pull one over on the viewers and even blatantly lied to Cory on the reunion. As much as I loathed Chelsea having had sex again with Adumb after they had broken up, to me, she opened up and was honest about it rather than throwing it out there in a way that Kail or Amber might reveal information such as, "So what? Yeah I screwed around with fuckboy. Big deal." Hers was an admittance without the sarcasm and rudeness. I appreciated her honesty and candor. It showed us how she was still vulnerable to Adumb's manipulation which was verbally and emotionally abusive. I am happy for her and that she was able to transition herself away from his abusive behavior. I am still sad because Aubree will one day have to make that decision for herself when she is older, but she has Cole in her life and that is a big plus. It does appear Chelsea did come upon Cole and did hit the lottery. But it also says a lot about her and what she had to offer. We are always commenting how water seeks its own level when we talk about Slug Amber, Kanal, and Swamp Thing Jenelle. They will never find a guy who will treat them respectfully and dignity because their attitudes and their slew of issues only attract a certain kind of guy. If Chelsea hadn't grown up, matured, and changed her attitude about what she wanted and expected from a partner, she could have easily ended up with another Adumb or someone who wasn't even close to what kind of person Cole is to her. Chelsea's priority is raising her children. She wants to have a big family. I give any person props for being able to afford the kind of life she leads because I sure wish I could have been a SAHM years ago. I missed out on a lot. I can't get those years back. I view Chelsea's world as the world I wish I could have had, but I also was about having a career. My mind was that I was meant to do more in life. I have a friend whose youngest is 13 years old. She entered college a year ago and is on her way to becoming a radiologist. She put her career on hold so she could raise her children. She could afford to do it because her husband has his own business. Chelsea may choose to do something later on in life as far as work is concerned. I think of @Maharincess who has shared her life with her first husband with us on numerous occasions. She had it extremely rough and it was dangerous. She then finds a new man who has treated her the way she should be treated and respected. I know that after all she went through, she finds that life at home and being in a loving and healthy relationship and being a wonderful mom to her kids is all that she could ever ask for and is truly content and appreciative. It matters to her to have a wonderful and loving family after all she went through and her energy is put into raising her kids and spending time with them. She takes her role as a parent seriously. Not saying no else here doesn't, but I know Maharincess from our PM discussions over the years. Once you have had it bad, you appreciate the good and that is how I view Chelsea. I really doubt if Chelsea were to clean up her home to other people's satisfaction, it would somehow change the attitude towards her. If she is disliked, so be it. It doesn't change anything. I just asked how is it she is seen as lazy. The way I see it, if one puts more effort into raising children, spending time with them, educating them, and being a hands on parent, that is in itself a lot of work and it requires daily motivation and a lot of stamina. Her children are clean, they look well-dressed, they don't appear neglected. I didn't realize she posts videos of her home-cooking online. That is another thing that takes motivation. I sure as heck am not motivated to cook a meal every day. I know she has been shown cooking at home on the show, but with less scenes of her, I guess MTV is not filming those scenes or they are editing them out.

lol Good ol' Mack. Oh, I am sorry about the experience. I hope something works out for you.

Thank goodness my spouse rarely texts and when he does, it is to his friends, not me. He will call me. He is not cell phone saavy. He has to use the Samsung version of Alexa, or whatever that bitch's name is who one talks to on their phone. @CaliforniaLove That would be perfect if La-Z-Boy (perfect brand name, btw) would sponsor them. Another thought is, Cate would only be in a march if she could ride a horse. Anything that requires real effort such as walking, it isn't going to happen. lol OMG yes!

Cate would only participate in a march if she can be sitting on a couch while someone pushes that couch.

Chelsea is a full-time parent to two children. She will soon have a third. What is it that she is doing, or not doing, that makes her lacking in motivation and makes her lazy? Having at least one small child in the home with you all day is enough to keep you on your toes and keeps one quite busy.

Yes. Not THAT Jeff. lol

Why doesn't Cate just get a bunch of hashtag tattoos? #MentalHealth #SuicideAwareness #realmen #greasylife #keepsucking #noshowers #rollsandfolds

I can't like your post because there is no heart. So, I am quoting you and telling you I like it. ETA: Now the heart is there. Crazy boards.

What is this bitch up to now? Kanal can't donate her eggs because she said herself she was dried up. Or is she magically fertile myrtle again like Maci? *slam dunk* @ Simon Saran for his tweet to Kanal. Javi is living in their first home they bought together. Kanal is living in their marital home. After the divorce, she had to refinance it and get it in her name. Another slam dunk!! lol

How did things go?

I know, right? It must be nice to NOT have to pay for rehab.

Thanks. :-) I enjoyed the gif for that one about Amber. lol

Wow. That is just bizarre. Thanks @druzy. I usually chat with my spouse to his face because, you know, I need him to look at me when I speak so that he can see my expressions, feel my thoughts, and maybe get some feedback directly from him. So, going by what C&T have posted lately, their views are: - there are not a lot of real men in the world. Tyler is a rare specimen - business owners are not hands-on. Tyler learned this from his months working at Casa Crunch Wrap on the shitty floor - if you don't mention Cate's suicide when you are tweeting positive (or negative) words her way, she will remind you

More fake storylines for Maci including forcing Bentley to recite a script. Tyler and his drug addict sister, Crystal, have an emotional reunion with their dad Butch when they visit him in rehab. Mackenzie is officially white trash who hit the lotto. She is pregnant. Amber offers no advice to her cousin Krystal because she knows absolutely nothing about co-parenting, parenting, or what it entails to care for a child. Pets included.

You are spot on with this post. C&T make it sound like they have opened the doors to mental health care as if all of this time it has been swept under the rug. They act as if they are leading the campaign similar to the Parkland students who are going around the country speaking out on gun control. Man, it burns me up how Cate just throws suicide out there haphazardly and as a shield. It is similar to how she, Kail, Jenelle, and Amber use their mental disorders as excuses for their behavior or lack thereof. This is why I am of the belief that she uses it against Tyler now and then when the need arises. The way she throws out suicide and mental illness, what is stopping her from using a miscarriage, or faking one? rotflmao! Moldy folds...hahaha I never take a bath anymore. And we have a bathtub. I am a shower girl. @druzy that text where C&T are communicating about real men, where did that come from? Did they post that on Twitter?

I am so sorry for what you are going through and how you are feeling. I am definitely not the right person to respond to your question because I couldn't wait to have my tubes tied after my last child. But for a short while, I did feel a bit sad because I knew what I was doing was permanent and there would be no more babies coming out of me. Any chance you would consider adoption? @ghoulina I remember when we purchased a phone for our kid when he was in high school. We kept getting messages about our data at 75% or 90%. It was barely a two weeks into the month when I'd get those notifications. I'd call our service provider and they were a big help since I was not at all tech saavy at the time about cell phones. I was told to turn off his notifications for his various apps (Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram, email etc.) since they continue to run and use date in the background when he wasn't around Wi-Fi. Also, he would tell me how sometimes he would get kicked off Wi-Fi which can also use up data since he was accessing his apps. I kept freaking out because on two occasions he went over data and it cost us an additional $15 for the bill. Over time, he learned to make sure he was using Wi-Fi, but it was still a bitch worrying about that stupid notification and looking at that data pie. Eventually, when we upgraded we also acquired a bit more data which helped the situation. Now, if he passes data, we don't pay more. It just slows down when we aren't around Wi-Fi and that continues until the next billing cycle and things go back to normal. So, basically just have your husband make sure his email and all other apps are not running in the background. Once he taps on any app to access it, it will synch itself. It reads like you were told that already up above, but just wanted to chime in and let you know our experience. Okay, I had a CT scan the day before yesterday. Something was mentioned about density appearing on the scan, but the specialist today told me it was more like a shadow. Whatever that means. He then set me up for a colonoscopy on Tuesday. That means I am going to eat up real good on Easter Sunday and then purge it all out on Monday. lol I had one two years ago, but with this pain, he wants to see if there is anything going on there. I also have an appointment with a general surgeon next week. I may have to have laparoscopic surgery. Thank you all for your concern and advice! @DudeLeaveMeAlone That is awesome. What a wonderful thing you would be doing for someone.