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Exactly!! Bethenny, divorced. Ramona, divorced. Tinsley, divorced. LuAnn, twice divorced. Carole, widowed and lost two best friends at the same time. Dorinda, divorced and widowed. This placating Sonja of having "been through so much" is such bullshit. Bitch got left. It happens. Divorce is a loss for sure, but it's not like death. Divorce is being betrayed by your spouse. Death of a spouse is like being betrayed by LIFE. I'm sure it's easier to imagine dead the spouse who left you, but that's not really the same as the spouse you love dying. There is a finality to death that is just not comparable to divorce.
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S10.E01: Gouls Just Wanna Have Fun
shoegal replied to OnceSane's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
Amen. At the end of the day, Bethenny, for better or for worse, lives her life in the public eye. She puts it all out there, flaws and all, so I don't see why she can't highlight the good! What she did was truly inspiring IMO and I don't understand why she has to be quiet about it. I mean, she was pretty factual about what happened and kind of her awe at how big it got. She didn't take all the credit and she didn't demure and shy away from stating what she actually got accomplished. She has every right to B Proud. (yeah, I did it! lol) -
S10.E01: Gouls Just Wanna Have Fun
shoegal replied to OnceSane's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
I thought Bethenny was pretty factual about the pretty awesome shit that she did, she accomplished a lot and should be proud IMO! Sing it from the rooftops, B, bitches getting shit done! Maybe she should run for President screaming "I alone can fix it!!"...she has the relevant reality show experience... -
S10.E01: Gouls Just Wanna Have Fun
shoegal replied to OnceSane's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
Actually, it's not self serving to detail your work. As someone who actually works in "charity", raising awareness is a HUGE part of the work. Bethenny did this work in conjunction with her own initiative B Strong and partnered with other organizations like the one shown last night Delivering Good (which was no doubt happy about the publicity!)....if you want people/companies/organizations to give you money, supplies or contributions, they want to know that it is going to the people it's intended to help, so you absolutely want to detail your work. If fact, here is a really good detail of their work, and you can donate! https://www.delivering-good.org/bstrong I think the key here is WORK. What Bethenny did was a shit ton of WORK. She should be proud of it and can sing it from the rooftops IMO. She earned the right! -
Bethenny Frankel: Skinny Girl
shoegal replied to Lisin's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
I wonder how Bryn and daddy take their morning coffee? -
Bethenny Frankel: Skinny Girl
shoegal replied to Lisin's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
...and if little Bryn wanted to taste daddy's beer or one of his jalapeño poppers, well, she was curious! No one can say no! -
Bethenny Frankel: Skinny Girl
shoegal replied to Lisin's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
How convenient that it never happened while he and Bethenny were married! -
Bethenny Frankel: Skinny Girl
shoegal replied to Lisin's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
Well, since Jason did not become a vegetarian during the first two years of Bryn's life, he was not feeding Bryn meat off of his plate per the diet that he and Bethenny were feeding Bryn. Gee, I wonder why that suddenly changed!? -
Bethenny Frankel: Skinny Girl
shoegal replied to Lisin's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
Most kids I know don't eat what everyone else around them is eating. Diets for toddlers are often different than adults. So no, I don't think it's likely that 3 year old Bryn told daddy she wanted to eat some bacon. -
Bethenny Frankel: Skinny Girl
shoegal replied to Lisin's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
Yeah, and my point is that the parents control what the child is served. Jason did it intentionally. -
Bethenny Frankel: Skinny Girl
shoegal replied to Lisin's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
No one is saying Bryn didn't want to eat the the food once it was prepared for her, but a 3 year old eats what you put in front of them, they aren't cooking their own food or asking to try new foods they don't even know exist. Jason prepared the food for her. -
Bethenny Frankel: Skinny Girl
shoegal replied to Lisin's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
Wait, what?? Those are not the only two options. The third option is Jason cooks Bryn a hot dog and puts it on her plate, and she eats it. -
S09.E14: A Slippery Slope
shoegal replied to OnceSane's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
It did not, in the last shot, there were four bluberries and what looked like a few remaining strawberries (or it could have been the tomatoes out of the eggs), the avacado was gone and a single slice of bread remained with what looked like some egg remnants. Did she clean her plate? No. Did she eat food? Yes. Perhaps it was more slowly than the others, but it was at least half eaten by the end. -
Bethenny Frankel: Skinny Girl
shoegal replied to Lisin's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
No, it doesn't. Cook and cut up a hot dog, put it on the kids plate and let them eat it. -
Bethenny Frankel: Skinny Girl
shoegal replied to Lisin's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
Not really. http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/nationworld/science/ct-hot-dogs-nitrites-20170630-story.html Bethenny said she would be fine with Bryn making her own choices when she was older, not a 3 year old. Clearly a toddler can ask for a lot of things, and an older child is to be treated differently. -
S09.E14: A Slippery Slope
shoegal replied to OnceSane's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
I just watched the scene, it was half eaten, there was food left on the plate but it was not a full, untouched plate. Carole ate, she just didn't clean her plate. That bitch didn't eat all of her crackers!!! LOL -
Bethenny Frankel: Skinny Girl
shoegal replied to Lisin's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
They aren't, they just aren't irrelevant, which is the way Jason treated them on this issue. Oh, you don't want your kid to eat meat? Here, have a hot dog. How do you like me now?? Forced meat down Bryn's throat against her will? No. Grilled her up a hot dog and served it to her with a internal middle finger to B? Yes. ...and geez, forcing meat down Bryn's throat....and B is the great exaggerator?? -
Bethenny Frankel: Skinny Girl
shoegal replied to Lisin's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
Well first I would say that holding a child in your lap at the table is probably not the most efficient way to eat, LOL. I would recommend they put Bryn in a high chair. As far as the food, yes, Jason has a right to feed his kid what he wants, just as Bethenny does. My point is that Jason knows exactly how Bethenny feels about eating animal protein, especially those loaded with nitrates and highly processed like bacon and hot dogs. There is some evidence that this is actually harmful to our bodies and some people feel very strongly about these kinds of issues. Obviously Bethenny has some opinions about the matter, which Jason was aware of, and he did it anyway knowing it was against her wishes. I guarantee he did it on purpose to spite Bethenny. No doubt in my mind. Clearly, you see the issue being control by Bethenny. I believe it's actually a power move by Jason. -
Bethenny Frankel: Skinny Girl
shoegal replied to Lisin's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
This was when they first separated, when the details were still being worked out, it's the time to actually co parent so that the child has some consistency. Jason was agreeing or going along with the diet when they were together, to suddenly change without talking to Bethenny about it and knowing exactly how she feels about it, is being spiteful. It was a big FU to Bethenny and her wishes. -
S09.E14: A Slippery Slope
shoegal replied to OnceSane's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
It was a half eaten plate, with some fruit (literally like 4 bluberries and a few raspberries?) and slice of bread and a little bit of the eggs left....perhaps she put too much food on her plate and got full faster than she anticipated? I don't find it odd that she didn't clean her plate....but I wasn't raised in a clean plate house (hubby was!). Wow. -
Bethenny Frankel: Skinny Girl
shoegal replied to Lisin's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
But she is a co parent, and doing things that you know she would disagree with behind her back without even so much as a discussion is not being a co parent, it's being a dick. -
Bethenny Frankel: Skinny Girl
shoegal replied to Lisin's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
Three year olds eat what is prepared for them. I'm doubting that Bryn woke up and was like 'daddy, I would love to try some bacon!'. -
Bethenny Frankel: Skinny Girl
shoegal replied to Lisin's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
I don't think anyone said Jason doesn't have the right to feed Bryn what he wants, clearly he does, but knowingly feeding your child something that you know goes against the wishes of the other parent is an asshole thing to do. -
Bethenny Frankel: Skinny Girl
shoegal replied to Lisin's topic in The Real Housewives Of New York City
Bethenny and Jason were married and parenting together, yes Bethenny decided and Jason knew that was the plan. It was not changed on him. I have found no evidence that Bethenny claimed in court that it was Bryn's idea not to eat meat, it's not mentioned in any of the multiple articles I've read and since the court documents are sealed, I don't buy that assertion. It doesn't seem that Bethenny is changing the narrative to fit anything. I don't believe that Jason forced Bryn to eat anything, but Jason controls the food that Bryn is allowed to eat. She's not buying her own hot dogs.