Not from where I sit.
Insecurity - again for me - is born out of thinking everything is about you. What people say, what they do, a look they may throw your way....all about you. What they said, probably had nothing to do with you - but you think it did. What they do, probably had nothing to do with you - but you think it did. The look, probably not meant for you - but you think it was.
And then you get sad and weepy and suddenly everyone is asking you why. Satisfying your need for....making it all about you. You never asked if what they said or did had to do with you...you j