They wholly believe that it's the wife's responsibility to keep herself attractive and "joyfully available" for her husband. So yes, in their eyes it's Anna's fault that Smuggar joined Ashley Madison and downloaded/viewed CSA.
The Dillards' statement regarding the cancellation of Counting On.
https://www.dillardfamily.com/2021/07/statement-on-counting-on-cancellation-better-late-than-never/
Nathan and David were steeped in Gothardism after the deflections of Daniel, Rebekah, and Size. He likely agrees with Jill and just tolerates those siblings who left the fold.
I'm afraid that TLC isn't completely done with the Duggars. TLC's statement basically said they were giving the Duggars space or time or something like that. A Jana wedding would be a ratings bonanza, and TLC knows it.
Yeah, let's see if the Wissmanns hang in there. Inviting Duggars to Nebraska at this point seems to indicate they're sticking around for the time being.
Now, if there's a conviction, that may all change.
Remember, Nurie is the one that called American women "sluttish" (according to Jill, of course). This was because these women dared to wear pants, while the women in Botswana (I think that's where she and DBD went) dressed modestly in skirts. 🙄