No wonder Tenley is single. OMG, her ability to read people! (Although at least with multiple guys after her, she's not desperate Tenley from last week which was just plain sad)
As for Joe, yes there's a game aspect, but he just relishes manipulating everyone and putting them down. I always wonder what kind of blowback IRL there is when someone acts like that.
As for Jade, as an earlier poster said, shut up Jade.