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Heather isn't criticized for her wealth and houses. She's criticized for her pretentious attitude, her snobbery, her view of anyone else as "less than". Say what we want about the Kyle's and Lisa Vanderpumps of the world, they appear to be kind people who treat others with respect. Heather is this braggy-braggy snob who "must" show all her different ice cube types and frozen window embryos and Champs button. It's the way she says it, not what she says. Even imprints a phrase on gifts to her "friends" about how lucky they are that they don't have to shovel sh*t, that there are "other people" who will do that for them. Pretentious, insufferable woman. Lisa Vanderpump keeps swans swimming near her front door, yet we all thought that was endearing. Because she's funny, she has a true love for these swans, and she treats people with respect.

I've just picked back up on my knitting, and I realize how much I missed it. Charity did better her first time than I did, picking it back up after a few years off, but knowing how to do it! I was impressed. The home movies of Dotun & Charity as kids was done on Rachel/Gabby's season, with Rachel and Zach. It was cute then, but ultimately, Rachel sent Zach home, and he obviously became the next bachelor. Wonder if they're setting up that scenario for Dotun, should he get sent home. He'd be a great bachelor. We shall see all these guys again on BIP, especially doorknocker-earring wearing Brayden. Who, I wonder, might be the mystery guy that shows up next week?

This makes me so sad. Because I'm out. I just cancelled all future recordings. I so badly wanted this to be my new show, my new guilty pleasure. But these vapid women are insufferable and bring nothing. I'm sad.

Oh yes! She did! Friend of mine just did that. Upper arms, mid-section, hips, tummy. Had to wear the garment Emily spoke of, but from mid-thigh to upper body, and arms. Extremely tight, 24 hours a day, with 3-times a week lymphatic massage that Emily spoke of. Friend said the lymphatic massage is not relaxing at all. They poke and pull at your areas to make sure the lymphatic system is draining properly. In my friend's case, she had hired a personal trainer and was told to watch her eating & drinking. After a few weeks, she was like....nah, I'll just get the lipo. The biggest problem with lipo is that, since they literally suck out the fat cells, if you gain weight, it shows up somewhere else. I saw a woman once where this happened. Extremely thin legs, thin arms, super skinny hips. But she had this huge roll of fat over her jeans, as that's where it ended up.

Emily was on WWHL this week. She's now Ozempic-skinny. Yes, she said she used it. She did say she's religiously working out (7 days/week) and watching her food. Said she only used it for a few weeks to "jump start", but whatever. She's now aiming to look like all the other plumped, plucked, and stretched HW's. I think she was more beautiful before.

This whole new show is just so meh to me. Caviar? I've had it. Meh as well. And yes, served with chips. $200 for chips with tiny fish eggs. This was at a Napa famous-chef's restaurant. My friends were like, ooooh, we must get the caviar. Meh! I just ate at a new restaurant for lunch in my not-New York city. A lunch appetizer for $168 of caviar. Pass. I just don't love any of these women. There's no one to root for, no one who shows vulnerabilities, they are all screen shows. They all remind me of early "Countess Luann", who was humbled by the end. I'll wait till the new casts start having divorces, because they are eminent.

If Jenn wants to continue with Ryan, knowing full well that he cheated on her, then that's her business. Sometimes we have to sit by our friends and just observe, rather than judge or offer opinions for which we were not asked. I have a situation with a friend right now where I think she's in the most ridiculous situation ever. But she's happy, and it's not my place to judge. So hard to keep my mouth shut when she talks about how wonderful he is, but whatever. Similar situation: my friend knows all the stuff, nothing is being hidden from her, and she chooses to continue. C'est la vie. Tamra is holding onto her half-peeled orange for dear life, trying to interject herself in Jenn's relationship, and now, Shannon's relationship, as well as Shannon's friendship with Heather. Tamra just has to be in the middle of something to feel relevant.

OMG, that's it! She does her mmm hmmm's while they're in mid-sentence, which makes it more noticeable, and makes you feel like she's seriously not only not listening, but just waiting for their sentence to be finished so she can talk. It is odd. Thank you for pointing this out. I couldn't put my finger on just what was so off-putting, but this is it.

Wow. Sounds like Miles was all charm on camera, but once he wanted out, he wanted out. I agree about the experts. They've never swiped on an app, never been ghosted 5 minutes before a date, never seen their ex on social media with a new love. These things are all part of today's dating scene. I regularly read a relationship message board, and this one poster met her husband online about 20 years ago, at the start of online dating. She gives these long, drawn-out advice responses to daters today, that have so little to do with what they are going through, but she defends it by saying "but I dated online". Um, honey, when you could take a shower waiting for your AOL dialup to connect to the hardwired computer that was practically bolted to the desk downstairs. The show needs younger experts.

Brad Pitt wannabe Sean can lose me with his Pompadour/Mullet combo. He's a yappy little chihuahua who can't stop talking. Speaking of talking and interjecting, does Charity ever let anyone get a full sentence in? Mmmm Hmmm. Uhhh huh. Head nods. Head bobs. Mmmm hmmmm. Soooo annoying.

I think a producer texted Terry a headline and told him to send it to Heather, STAT. Now if Heather was truly as well mannered and classy as she purports to be, she wouldn't have her cell phone on the table. Who needs engraved chopsticks? While also engraving, on a candle (wrapper?), that we are thankful we don't have to shovel sh*t. A tone deaf and pretentious person, that's who.

I'm in Gerry's age range (61), and trust me, the women in this age range are no different than the 20 and early 30-somethings we normally see. They just spend more time getting injections in their faces. And yes, men at this age still want a super fit, bubbly gal, and agree with @hyacinth: He will pick the cutest, fittest woman, regardless of what sport she plays. It's become astonishing to me how many friends of mine are regressing in their style and dress, wearing skin-tight, low-cut, thigh-high clothes while getting extensions and plastic surgery so often they get frequent customer discounts (I'm literally not exaggerating). Women in their mid 60's and beyond. And the insecurities and lifetime hurts I see on these women will no doubt appear on this show. Husbands left them for another woman, or spent their lives catering to others and are now "finding" themselves, or the sad sob widow stories we will hear. If you watch any of the Real Housewives shows: Think Luann, Ramona, Bethenny, Erika Jayne, Kyle Richards. The normal ones, the ones who have their lives together, despite all the bad stuff they've been through (think Garcelle Beauvais), well we won't see many of those. One little funny thing that almost all my friends do: They dye their hair blonde as they age, and it gets blonder, the older they are. I asked one friend why she does it, as she's now almost white-blonde. She said it hides the grays better as they come in. So I suspect we will see a lot of that. Pickleball? Sheesh. Such a fad sport, that is keeping ER centers busy.

Re: People in restaurants, nail salons, etc., while filming. They have all signed a contract that they not only know there will be cameras, a crew, and filming, but that they agree to appear on film. They sign this when they walk in the door for their reservation, so they are free to walk out if they don't want to stay. The reason I know this is because I was once approached at a restaurant with a contract, exact same scenario. The waitress came over before we ordered, filled us in on the details, and we decided to stay, so we signed the contracts. The camera crew hadn't arrived by the time we left, so we never even found out what they were filming, as the waitress said she couldn't tell us. But that once filming started, the restaurant is closed, and only those who have signed, are staying.

That was actually the most annoying part of the episode. Doton was opening up, telling her about the lottery in coming to America, and how happy he was that his path to where he is now, opened up like that. Charity: Mmm Hmm. Mmm Hmm. Yeah. Uh huh. OK, now about me: I had a boyfriend who cheated on me. My family loves me. Me me me me. Not one word to Doton about his experience, his life. How is she supposed to make a choice with these guys, if all she does is talk about herself?

She is so freaking full of herself. Posting a super posed picture, with a caption offering a tour of her "fabulous" new penthouse. And she wonders why she has no real friends. Insufferable.

Well, you know the old saying....at that age, men are looking for a nurse or a purse. 😅😅😅

I applied to be a contestant. They only wanted women 60+, and I was 59 at the time. This was 2 years ago, as they've been dragging this thing out for so long. So when it said 60+ for the women, I had a feeling the guy would be 70+. Which, frankly, he looks old. Sure, he looks good "for his age", but the dude looks old to me. He's not my type, at all. I find him kind of ick, and we are in the same age range. Something about him I don't like. I did the whole application, the pictures, the essays, etc. Never heard a word. FWIW, I'm in decent shape (I'm no model), no baggage, but also no "sob story", which I'm sure we'll hear a lot of. But they never responded to me, so....c'est la vie.

Um, yeah Heather, of course you're being excluded from friend groups. Spend years treating people in a condescending manner, use a patronizing tone, as though everyone is beneath you, and voilà....no mas friendships. Friendships of giggling girls on beds, talking about life, curling each other's hair, where you feel like you're the odd one out? Yeah, that's a tough feeling. Which is typically the result of treating those friends like they are beneath you. Heather is watching her days go by, as her kids move off, her IMDB is IMDBoring, and she's not even getting auditions for 3rd rate Oklahoma productions (no disrespect to OK; if you've never been there, awesome state, great childhood vacation family memories). For some odd reason, sold her embryo-windowed dream house, moving to some nondescript glass box, with a husband who, similar to our friend Kyle Richard's, has rumored to have had multiple affairs and pay-offs in business. Even poor little Gina Casita is tired of you and your tone. And BTW, Gina is looking 1000% better than you these days, so there's also that. And Travis seems to have put all of your opinions to rest, as he does seem like he's there for her, in the way Terry Dubrow is not, for you.

@ZettaK Ryan sent the pics to 2 of his kids??? Oh. My. Even if that was a mistake, it's such a bad one. The first mistake is to send D pics. No, actually, the first mistake is to TAKE D pics. Popcorn popping as I watch this train wreck unfold....

Looks like they're trying to dump what's left. Click "New". Spoiler: It's empty.

I found this episode really boring. Was it supposed to be "Ladies from OC" go to "Simple Life"? Or, just throw a bunch of women together, booze 'em up, and see what happens. Did they ever even eat that dinner? Gina, if one person's infidelity bothers you this much, then you better just lock yourself in a cage, 'cause honey, it's everywhere. No, that doesn't justify anything, but sheesh. Enough already. And this Jenn, who is she fooling. At least we have time to make our popcorn for the next season or so, until this whole thing implodes. By then, I hope her ex-husband is happily married to someone nice, and she becomes yet another OC divorcee who force-holds herself together with injections, extensions, and Spin. All while aging rapidly as the 20-somethings move in.

That statement is just PR damage control. We all know what's coming: an uncomfortable announcement of finality to their marriage. I do feel bad for their girls, as divorce is never easy, no matter how much money there is. Mauricio has definitely changed over the years, or rather, I suspect, he's letting his true personality come out, as he just doesn't give a rip anymore. Filming completely stoned is one thing. Filming while stoned repeatedly once you see the footage of yourself completely stoned tells the world you just could not care less.

It will be similar to RHOC now, with Shannon & John. Right now on the show, Shannon and John are still together. They didn’t break up until the season with already finished filming.

This situation reminds me of Chrishelle Stause ("Selling Sunset") and G-Flip (non-binary). Chrishelle was married to Justin Hartley ("This is Us"), and after they divorced, she dated her real estate manager for a while, but fell in love with G-Flip, and they recently got married. Chrishelle and G-Flip seemed an odd couple at first, as Chrishelle is much like Kyle: very girly, frilly hair, perfect makeup. G-Flip is a tattooed, non-binary rapper. But watching them together, it fits, and they appear very happy. So yeah, maybe it's true that it's Kyle and Morgan Wade, rather than Mauricio and another woman. Now, there have been Mauricio cheating rumors for years, and in the Chrishelle/Justin marriage, his cheating led to their divorce. Wouldn't surprise me if Mauricio's constant cheating finally got Kyle fed up. Allegedly, lol. Kyle's recent transformation, especially the weight loss, was a tell.

LOL, and in the previous episode, Heather said "breakfastes", not understanding the correct method to pluralize the word.