I think one has to actually know a person to have such a strong emotion....we are only reacting to someone we do not have a personal relationship with. I don't "connect" on such a personal level with Bravo housewives.
I don't either.....so far we have not seen Shannon behave in such a manner in any scene. IMO, Heather perhaps was "projecting" her own "scary" reaction on to Shannon. Heather just doesn't strike me as a very psychologically healthy woman.
I don't have a problem with Bethenny aspiring to make as much money as possible....it is her IMO, very abrasive personality that I can't stand. She seems to have no insight whatsoever into her psychological problems, and I think she has many.