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Jed’s girlfriend knew he was going on the show and agreed to it.

If it wasn’t meant to be an attack then why did all the other mean girls get so excited about it as if the shit was about to hit the fan? It’s not the worst I’ve seen but if Hannah felt blindsided, it could have felt to her as if she needed to be on the defensive. I don’t think Hannah meant that she was being brutally victimized. I think her feelings were valid because if I were Tayshia my approach to “my friend” would have been, “I wish you would have told me that he went to see you because then I wouldn’t have stepped on your toes by accepting a date if you liked him and he liked you. I hope it’s all good between us.” To which friend would reply, “No worries, gal. That’s the name of the game. Date who you want.” But of course Tayshia made it about her and only her. All of these people are allowed to be interested in more than one person until they find “the one”. That’s the point of the show. All this bickering and bitching and territorial behavior is very annoying. There was no reason to have a bitchy talk with Hannah. There’s no reason for any of them to have a bitchy talk unless somebody actually says they are in a relationship. That hasn’t happened yet so game on. Hannah seems to be the only one who understood that coming in.

She could have handled it better by not handling it at all. It was a non-issue. If Blake decided he liked Tayshia better, Hannah would have focused on Dylan, without sabotaging the Tayshia/Blake dynamic. I’m honestly not sure what “situation” Tayshia is in since she decided she didn’t like Blake as soon as Caelynn and Kristina started in with their bullshit and she still accepted a rose that she may not have gotten if she didn’t go on that date with Blake. Maybe Caelynn should have talked to Tayshia before her date since she was the one with the major problem with Blake. Still not sure how that’s Hannah’s problem. Tayshia should be happy she’s still there and forget about it. These chicks are losing their minds over Blake and I can’t figure out why.

I’m just saying that unless I was super serious about a guy I may not even tell my best friend that I’ve known since middle school. And if we were both going to be on a dating show together, I wouldn’t cock block her for the guy. I don’t think Tayshia and Hannah are that good of friends. They were probably talking about living together on the show, but now I’d like to find out if that’s what they were referring to. Tayshia definitely wasn’t talking to Hannah like they were good friends. She approached her like competition.

Van life has become so popular. I recently sold my house and bought a camper. I was sick of HOA and property taxes and everything that comes with home ownership. My kids all left home and I was left wondering what I was doing all this for. I feel so free now. I made money off of my house and now I have no bills and no junk. I would have loved van life but I couldn’t see myself living without a shower, so I couldn’t go that far. But I have respect for people who do. My partner caught the Arnold tattoo. Thanks for confirming. I kind of agree with Hannah on this one. So Blake flew out for a date and Hannah didn’t feel it was something that had to be shared because she’s not attached to Blake. So, while she was disappointed that he chose Taysha for his first date and not her, she shrugged it off because she doesn’t OWN Blake. Why fuck up Tayshia’s chances of making a connection by making a big deal out of one date and one kiss? If Hannah would have joined in on the Blake gossip and told everyone that he went to see her too (as two single people who have every right to date each other, casually or otherwise), she would have been called petty and we would have said it was unnecessary. Tayshia is showing her true colors and I do think it was a mean girl move, especially with Nicole getting all excited saying “it’s about to go down”. It seems like the coven of witches were planning an attack on Hannah because she’s not conforming to the Blake hatred and she’s not committing to who THEY want her to commit to, ie Dylan. They’re pissed at Hannah because Blake likes her and not them. Full stop. The girl didn’t do anything wrong and doesn’t owe anyone anything on this show. You don’t have to be pretty to win a pageant. It’s all smoke and mirrors.

Kady from Love Island UK season two looks likes a 12-year-old and she’s really popular with the men as well. I don’t know why they like the child-like look. Hannah B would have been a hot mess on BIP. They always edit the Bachelorette lead to look good and they tell them what to say. If he rejects Hannah, she’ll suddenly be in love with him. I think they’re setting up for Bukowski potentially. Mike fucked Cam over by lying and saying he was trying to get a pity rose and then Hannah never let him actually tell her that his serious illness is causing problems in relationships. So Mike can S my D. Cam is kind of nutty but he didn’t deserve that treatment. He’s probably the only guy on the show who actually wants a relationship for real life.

Blake! Why are you such a dick? First, you dare to have sex with the cool girls as a single man. But then, what’s with Will’s blond tips?? I freaking know you were in on that! And those eyebrows on the spicy taco girl? That has Blake written all over it. And furthermore, Cam is having enough trouble finding love, without Blake making the waves crash up between his legs to make him look like he pissed himself. How dare you, sir!! By the way, Blake, if you don’t want to hurt your toe, maybe you should think about not placing giant rocks on a beach? Just a thought, BLAKE! And that mustache on Dean should never have been grown by Blake. Not a good look, BLAKE!! Last thing I need to say SO FAR, if anyone has 6 toes on one foot, it’s very obvious that Blake produced that being.

She’s so woke.

White women can’t even cry anymore without it being called privilege. That’s kind of weird.

I loved this article but I can’t get with the broad statements concerning white women. “What is happening this week with white women getting into business that isn’t theirs?” Newsflash: the black women were also on the Blake hating train and the two white women who approached Blake were doing so because of their own personal experience. I guess Annalise and her “weaponized white woman’s tears”, is representative of all white women everywhere on the planet and means that all the white women on the show were getting into business that wasn’t theirs? From what I saw, only Annalise was in someone else’s business. The rest of the women, black, white, Asian, Hispanic, were ALL gossiping about how disgusting Blake is without knowing the full story. I liked the article and agree with it for the most part. I didn’t agree with the stereotyping.

There was more than one suicide? I’m kind of pissed that we have to see Hannah B on BIP. I’ve had enough of her.

There was a meme going around Facebook that said “99% of men want a big woman and the other 1% are gay.” I am a small woman and I think some of what is being said about us is just cruel. I’ve never made fun of a big girl and I would appreciate the same respect. If the media has made big women feel bad about themselves, tell it to the media, not other women. We’re supposed to stick together.

I still think he’s gay. If he’s still closeted, it makes a lot of sense for him to latch onto the one who looks like a Barbie. She’s less icky to kiss according to him. Much easier to pretend to enjoy it with a gal that’s very pretty to a majority of people. Basically if I had to go on a lesbian dating show as a straight woman, I’d pretend I was head over heels for the chick I could most tolerate so that I wouldn’t have to explore any other women. And best believe it would be the finest bitch in the house. Dylan just seems a little extra with Hannah. Something doesn’t seem right.

Great point! Hannah sleeps with men back to back and it’s fine. Blake does it and he’s evil. Luke is a terrible person for expecting Hannah to choose only one to be intimate with (himself lol), but Caelynn is a victim because a single man slept with another gal the night before. Wow. Women need to figure out what empowerment is. And if they’re saying this is feminism, I’ve got news. Feminism is about equality. They can’t say Hannah is right but Blake is wrong or . Caelynn is right but Luke is wrong. Choose a fucking direction and stick with it. This is highly disappointing. I’m sure there’s more to the story but my guess is that Caelynn wanted some revenge because Blake lost interest. And what the hell was up with Kristina? Blake confessed to her about Caelynn a week before BIP (according to her), but she still decides to make herself a victim by confronting him on a date? The poor guy seemed truly baffled and I’m glad he shut her down. These two girls are obviously doing this for attention now that Hannah is the face of women’s empowerment and all. It’s quite despicable.

He gives me a Jim from The Office vibe. Why in the hell are we all being put through Demi’s audition to host a Tell All? For the love of Pete, we don’t need another Jamie Otis. All of her talking heads were very long. Her interactions with the others seemed more like interviews. Wells had to tell her to shut her trap. I believe that the producers invited her and her girlfriend on the show to ensure that she’ll make it to the end and be some champion for lesbians everywhere. Guys, we’re all supposed to just adore her now so she can get good ratings for her spinoff. I swear to god 🙄kill me.

I suggest you watch Love Island UK on Hulu. It’s like BIP but without manufactured drama. If you’re not British, turn on captions.

It’s weird because there’s not a lot of drama to get worked up about like American shows. I agree with you about Zoe. She’s also my favorite gal but I also like Hannah a lot. I think when Hannah and Jon got the power couple move, they should have gotten rid of Omar and Jess. I’m not quite to the end of the season. Max just came in and he seems cool. Can’t stand the new girl hating on Jess. Zoe explained her well when she said she’s a flirt and she kind of puts her foot in her mouth a lot. It made me feel sorry for her.

Plus, even if Mark was the nicest guy in the world and they gave him a bad edit, he still married a child by his own choice. TLC didn’t force him to do that.

Honestly, I couldn’t believe it when I read spoilers and found out Hannah picked Jed. I really thought it was a mistake because not only was he the least attractive but he lacked personality and Hannah didn’t seem to pay much attention to him. He was so under the radar, I didn’t even know he was there until Reality Steve wrote that he was F1. I called it for Peter. 🤷‍♀️ My partner called it for Luke. We do a fantasy league and we’ve made up a point system.

Much of Luke’s unattractiveness has to do with his extreme beliefs and his apparent low intelligence. If he got the Tyler edit, people may see his outer beauty more than they do. If I was standing next to him, possibly, but I couldn’t tell his height on TV. My partner is 5’9. My ex is 6’2. I wouldn’t go back to that for the height. Just strictly talking about Luke’s face. How tall is he?

I didn’t say I found him appealing for myself nor did I say you were crazy. I’m just pointing out traditional standards of beauty in men and facial symmetry. You may not like Luke’s face but if your friend introduced him as her new boyfriend, you wouldn’t think to yourself how ugly he is and how your friend could do so much better. You’d probably think like the rest of the world, if you’re being honest, and think he’s handsome enough for your friend to reproduce with. He’s not Sloth from The Goonies. I don’t even think Jed is ugly, just not as traditionally handsome as the rest. So, there’s no reason to twist words and get all offended.

To say Luke is unattractive or ugly is just crazy talk. We don’t have to like his personality to recognize facial symmetry, clear skin, nice jawline, well proportioned features, etc. Jed has a giant forehead and skinny jaw that he’s trying to make bigger with facial hair. He’s not ugly but he’s not exactly super handsome either. I like Tyler’s looks more than Luke’s but of the four, just by looks alone, it goes Tyler, Luke, Peter, and then Jed as the weird looking stepchild. I think Jed and Hannah or more of a match, based on looks alone.

Well since I’m a Tyler fan and I can’t stand Hannah, I’m going to disagree lol. I hope the brother was calling him “bro” because young men call each other bro all the time and it doesn’t mean anything except “friend”. Is it possible that there are no hard feelings and that Hannah and Tyler are just friends? Maybe he was in the grocery store in LA because he needed a few things from the store. Big deal. Tyler is a model and LA is a great place to be for modeling, especially after he has become so popular. I’m sure there are agencies after him. He could have been staying with anyone in LA for any number of reasons. It doesn’t have to be for Hannah’s basic ass. I also don’t think we can draw any conclusions based on who follows who on social media. All of these people know each other now and there’s no reason for them to have hard feelings, so why wouldn’t the families follow Tyler or Hannah? It doesn’t have to mean shit. I’ll say, if Tyler is dating Hannah now, it won’t last, and I predict that he will eventually get a Bachelor lead as soon as he is single. I think it’s his for the taking and if not now, he’ll be like Nick, Arie, or any other who got the gig several seasons after they first appeared on the show.

I’d say she’s used to dating her equal in the looks department and she got the rare opportunity to date way above her league by being the bachelorette. Imagine her without the personal stylist, makeup artist, and hair dresser. I don’t mean to be shallow either but there’s no way she’d snag a Tyler in the real world. He got rejected by her and had a couple of months to think about how he wasn’t her first pick. Now he knows how popular he is. He’d be settling for Hannah and he knows it. Unless they fake it for money. Even Jed winced when she said she loved him at the final rose ceremony. In his mind he was like, “fuuuuuckk....” and Jed was the least attractive and probably more her speed, looks wise. However, I do think Hannah is way prettier than that last Bachelorette. That girl had man features.

That song I quoted was just one song of many by different female “artists”. Nicki Minaj is the most popular. It’s all about having sex with multiple men and it’s applauded. Check out the lyrics to some of them. It’s not a good thing to teach young women, but it’s passed off as feminism. If a male lead did the same thing as Hannah and bragged about it, they would have had his head. It’s not okay to use men for sex just like it’s not okay to use women for sex unless both parties are in on the deal. Peter thought he was her F1, as did the others. We can say that’s hypothetical, but since the beginning of this show, nobody talked about the fantasy suites like Hannah did. It was kept private if they had sex (until Kaitlin) so that the others wouldn’t be disrespected. In the end, if Jed didn’t turn out to be a douche, how would he have felt knowing that the whole world knows that his fiancé gave it up to everyone she took to the fantasy suites to another guy? Even when Kaitlin had sex with Nick, she was apologetic and everyone still hated her for it. It’s about basic respect for who you finally choose at the end. Hannah did not show any respect to the other guys. If you’re going to fuck other dudes, the least you can do is not brag about it and wear it as a badge of honor.