A couple of lines from StarSira lead me to believe she was catfished. Just a hunch.
"During the past year I fell victim to a social media predator, where I allowed myself to become a victim of broken promises and grandeur of illusions, stupid me, but I'm sure I'm not the first, and definitely won't be the last, granted, this stupid act, on my behalf, and the deviant scheme, of another, has left me homeless, completely with nothing, including my relationship of 18 years, and my two cats, whom I had so long and adored."