chitowngirl September 7, 2016 Share September 7, 2016 (edited) Note: This topic was started by @auntjess. No clue why moved replies from the other forum went AHEAD of her post below! This first came onto my radar from an episode of The Gilmore Girls where they are watching this. Just sad and fascinating. Hoarding at its best!. And the movie with Jessica Lange and Drew Berrymore really captured the Edies well. Edited September 8, 2016 by WendyCR72 Clearing up post confusion! 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/
Maizie131 September 7, 2016 Share September 7, 2016 One of my favorite scenes was when Big Edie sees one of the cats taking a shit behind a large portrait that was leaning against a wall, and says, "Well at least somebody's having fun." OMG! ROFL & disgusted both at the same time! This documentary really got me to thinking about the genes in the Bouvier family. Just wow. Auntjess - thanks for starting this forum! Hope lotsa people give their input. As chitowngirl said above, it's both sad and fascinating and, in my opinion, riveting. I may check out the movie version. 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-2548124
auntjess September 7, 2016 Share September 7, 2016 (Moved from specials and one-offs) I'm making this for the documentary Grey Gardens, made in 1975 on Jackie Onassis' crazy aunt and cousin It was on this past weekend, and will be on again in November.http://www.tcm.com/this-month/article/145426|0/Grey-Gardens.html It's also on youtube.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lRsHhuE7laA Hope some others want to talk about these "bat-shit crazy" ladies. Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-2548278
auntjess September 8, 2016 Share September 8, 2016 (edited) Ok, we're settled in the right place now, and thanks ModWendy for seeing if we can move posts. If not I'll just copy and paste. Now, first order of business, some links. Sandy Passage, a Documentary Now! on GG. It's often on IFC, but on youtube. This is a bit of it, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zk6awDQouXw . It's on Documentary Now! on IFC, at 11AM ET Saturday, and other times too. And this page tells a lot about the characters, etc.http://greygardensonline.com/ Edited September 8, 2016 by auntjess 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-2548488
auntjess September 8, 2016 Share September 8, 2016 (edited) So in going over who's most to blame, I go with Little Edie, because her mother said she had her come home from NYC (wasn't this 1952?), when she couldn't afford, or maybe didn't want, to keep sending Edie a care package of food so she could eat. I wonder if she even thought to get a job. Unless she tried and her father blocked it, I'd think a well-know deb could get something not too onerous, that would buy food. And I imagine she was taken out a lot. Jackie got a "roving photographer/reporter job at a DC paper, where she asked people, including JFK a question. Edited September 8, 2016 by auntjess 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-2548582
VCRTracking September 8, 2016 Share September 8, 2016 (edited) I've heard of the title "Grey Gardens" before but didn't really know what it was about until it was spoofed by IFC's "Documentary Now!" starring Bill Hader and Fred Armisen from SNL in the first episode called "Sandy Passages": Edited September 8, 2016 by VCRTracking 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-2550530
auntjess September 8, 2016 Share September 8, 2016 I was reminded of it when I saw this, and then TCM showed it. I saw it a long time ago, I thought on TV, but maybe at a movie. They were certainly strange people leading strange lives. 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-2550556
azshadowwalker September 12, 2016 Share September 12, 2016 (edited) I only saw the documentary after I saw the Drew Barrymore movie on HBO (?). I think there's some blame to go around, but I think Little Edie would have driven me nuts. Mostly, I think the father was an asshole who had a huge impact on how his wife and daughter ended up. I don't know how accurate the Barrymore movie was, but it suggested that she did have a job, but also had married "friends". The father was involved in bringing her back so she didn't "dishonor" the family with her flings. Edited September 12, 2016 by azshadowwalker 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-2558800
Enigma X September 12, 2016 Share September 12, 2016 I felt really bad for Little Edie and Big Edie. This was amazingly sad. Where were Big Edie's sons? 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-2558858
auntjess September 12, 2016 Share September 12, 2016 They seem to have opted out of responsibility. I can't imagine how the house was allowed to get to that state. It looked to me as if it would have taken years. I cant remember how long they were divorced, but it looks like she didn't get anything but the house itself, and no repairs were made. On the other hand, Little Edie, and maybe both of them, could have gotten off their asses and found a job somewhere, somehow. It could even have been something "socially acceptable," like French tutoring, or etiquette classes. So maybe the brothers were fed up. Here's Little Edie's obit from 2002. The family seens to have been in touch, but it was 5 days, I think, before anyone realized she had died.http://www.nytimes.com/2002/01/25/nyregion/edith-bouvier-beale-84-little-edie-dies.html 5 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-2559002
azshadowwalker September 12, 2016 Share September 12, 2016 (edited) Phelan, Jr and Bouvier both have Wiki pages. They apparently refused to pay the property taxes on the place until Jackie O stepped in. Phelan lived and died in Oklahoma, mostly working for the state of Oklahoma. Bouvier was just another rich NYC lawyer. Both died in the early 1990s. Eh. Not fans of either. They were given help by their dad to get rich. The only thing that the women had was the house. I have more respect for Phelan, Jr than Bouvier, though. Edited September 12, 2016 by azshadowwalker 3 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-2559008
auntjess September 12, 2016 Share September 12, 2016 Don't forget to watch Documentary Now! Sandy Passage, on IFC. It's on this Tuesday or Wed, at 8:30 AM ET. It's a spoof of Grey Gardens, and they have the ladies spot on. It's on a few more times too. 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-2559153
auntjess September 27, 2016 Share September 27, 2016 For me fellow watchers of strange shows, there's a mini-marathon of World's Worst Tenants, on Spike, tomorrow 9/28, from 9AM to noon, ET. The first one is my favorite. Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-2602874
auntjess February 9, 2017 Share February 9, 2017 Grey Gardens is for sale.http://www.townandcountrymag.com/leisure/real-estate/news/a9532/grey-gardens-house-for-sale/ Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-2974685
auntjess September 1, 2017 Share September 1, 2017 Sandy Passage is on 9/2/17.http://www.ifc.com/schedule?tz=&featured=documentary-now&mast=1000219627 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-3602502
auntjess May 18, 2018 Share May 18, 2018 (edited) Sandy Passage is on again tomorrow, Friday, 5/18/18. This is a parody of Grey Gardens. 10:00PM 9:30C DOCUMENTARY NOW! S1, E1 Sandy Passage TV14 (VL) The lives of two aging socialites, and their deteriorating estate. Edited May 18, 2018 by auntjess 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-4336376
HunterHunted May 18, 2018 Share May 18, 2018 That Summer, the footage that the Maysles shot before they went back to film Grey Gardens, is being released. https://www.newsday.com/entertainment/movies/that-summer-grey-gardens-1.18540282 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-4337420
Jeebus Cripes May 18, 2018 Share May 18, 2018 7 hours ago, auntjess said: Sandy Passage is on again tomorrow, Friday, 5/18/18. This is a parody of Grey Gardens. 10:00PM 9:30C DOCUMENTARY NOW! S1, E1 Sandy Passage TV14 (VL) The lives of two aging socialites, and their deteriorating estate. That's my absolute favorite episode! My mother and I are obsessed with Grey Gardens. Tragic yet so very entertaining. It's also endlessly quotable. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-4337666
auntjess May 18, 2018 Share May 18, 2018 On U-verse, Grey Gardens is free on demand on TCM, but just until 5/19. Luckily for me, both are on my DVR, saved until Uverse does some recalculation and wipes them out. Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-4338946
msrachelj July 15, 2018 Share July 15, 2018 On 9/11/2016 at 11:08 PM, auntjess said: They seem to have opted out of responsibility. I can't imagine how the house was allowed to get to that state. It looked to me as if it would have taken years. I cant remember how long they were divorced, but it looks like she didn't get anything but the house itself, and no repairs were made. On the other hand, Little Edie, and maybe both of them, could have gotten off their asses and found a job somewhere, somehow. It could even have been something "socially acceptable," like French tutoring, or etiquette classes. So maybe the brothers were fed up. Here's Little Edie's obit from 2002. The family seens to have been in touch, but it was 5 days, I think, before anyone realized she had died.http://www.nytimes.com/2002/01/25/nyregion/edith-bouvier-beale-84-little-edie-dies.html damn, have to pay to read it. On 5/18/2018 at 12:54 AM, HunterHunted said: That Summer, the footage that the Maysles shot before they went back to film Grey Gardens, is being released. https://www.newsday.com/entertainment/movies/that-summer-grey-gardens-1.18540282 does anyone know if this is going to be shown on ifc or anywhere on direct tv. it sure isn't playing near me and i have limited internet so can't watch online. i'm dying to see it!!!! Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-4491863
auntjess July 15, 2018 Share July 15, 2018 A movie version, with Drew Barrymore, is on HBO on demand, on U-verse. (I don't have HBO, and haven't seen it.) Bits of it are on youtube, and there's some that says it's available on youtube movies, from $2.99. 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-4492316
VCRTracking July 15, 2018 Share July 15, 2018 Last week, critic Amy Nicholson discussed the documentary in her podcast "The Canon" with guest, Vox film critic Alissa Wilkinson. One of the good points they make is you start the movie thinking "Big Edie" is the crazy one and "Little Edie" is the sane one but by the end you realize it's sort of the reverse. Also that the Mayles Brothers were definitely exploiting them, but the question is whether "Little Edie" knew but didn't care. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-4492589
Scarlett45 July 17, 2018 Share July 17, 2018 I was under the impression that the Beale brothers wanted their mom to move to a smaller property that wouldn’t eat up her entire trust funds (the nest egg she had from the inheritance from her father) and she refused to move, refused listen to their advice. Based on my own bit of life experience it’s hard dealing with someone who’s technically competent enough to make decisions for themselves but not mentally well enough to make GOOD decisions. After years of her not listening to reason the boys washed their hands....probably due in a large part to frustration. 4 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-4496043
Scarlett45 October 11, 2019 Share October 11, 2019 I was compelled to watch the 2009 Grey Gardens lately. Let’s just say I think my great aunt and my cousin are turning into a much more hygienic and sanitary version of Grey Gardens these days. I’m trying to not alienate anyone but offer help- however competent adults are allowed to make bad decisions. 1 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-5667210
rmontro October 12, 2019 Share October 12, 2019 I love how this old movie keeps getting bumped up onto the first page every now and then. It's such a unique film. 2 Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-5669994
auntjess April 18, 2020 Share April 18, 2020 (edited) TCM has it early am Saturday. Don't know why it says Friday AM, as it is on my list, scheduled to record.http://www.tcm.com/tcmdb/title/443200/Grey-Gardens/ Edited April 18, 2020 by auntjess Link to comment https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/47460-grey-gardens-1975/#findComment-6071727
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