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I agree! That was their last chance to do actual sailing on a sailing vacation. Breakfast while sailing has been an issue before and I don’t understand why they can’t offer smoothies, a continental breakfast or handheld options like burritos/tacos.

Totally agree. One of my favorite couples was Keith and Kristine. Keith is a good guy who was single is because he was a bit of a homebody and lived with his grandma. They were both open to listening to each other and compromising. I enjoyed watching them meet, crushing on each other and navigating their relationship. So much better than the Mark & Lindsey and Olajuwon & Katina antics we are tortured with today.

This comment deserves a thousand likes. Will you marry me?

I noticed the same thing and wondered if there was a food allergy or dietary difference. I noticed before that Michael seems to eat a healthier option (which makes sense given his job) so maybe his had turkey and low fat cheese and Jasmina’s was Italian sausage and ricotta (so actually edible - ha!).

What I heard is that there was a problem with the laundry before so Mark suggested they have separate baskets that they could put their special care items in and that they weren’t supposed to touch items in those baskets. Then Mark goes and gets those items out of Lindseys basket, washes them and damages them. Mark and Lindsey are such a bad mis-match its crazy. If production asked her what her ideal day is she would say “traveling abroad and trying exotic foods”. If they asked Mark about it he would say “staying at home, but if I have to travel can I bring a suitcase of goldfish?”. They see things they like about each other, but are going to constantly bump heads because they are completely different and neither has any desire to change. Still hate Olajuwon. Katina saying she learned she needs to be patient when he has his temper tantrums and goes off on her is so disturbing. It’s only 4 weeks but she’s learned she needs to walk on eggshells around him. It’s very sad to watch her thinking it’s on her to put up with his toxic and abusive behavior. Kind of wish Steve was matched with Katina, they could go out to eat all the time like she prefers, he can do the groceries while she works, they would have calm conversations and make beautiful babies.

Gillian reminds me of Amy Poehler’s character in Mean Girls - a super intense combination of shallow and annoying. I wish they would edit her out of future episodes, along with Hania’s speedo.

I agree and it saddens me that so many people are judging and shaming him. My parents encouraged us to have big goals and as long as we earned enough to pay taxes and not be a drain on society then they considered us a success. There are LOTS of necessary and noble jobs that are not high paying and I am thankful for the people who do those jobs.

I’m not surprised the young couple have cheated on each other before as they have zero chemistry. He looks like a little troll who climbed out from under a bridge to do this show. She clearly doesn’t know the meaning of the word sexy. The guys this season are far more facially disadvantaged than any other season I can remember. It’s hard to watch. The 7 year couple is weird. It’s been 7 years and if you can’t figure out if you should get married or not then what do you expect to learn over 4 weeks of strangers grinding on you? I wonder if they are a couple who broke up awhile back and are doing this for IG followers.

He loved bombed her on the honeymoon, destroyed her self esteem last week, and is now building her up … so he can likely tear her down again. I don’t think he knows how to have an adult relationship. You can’t go from f*ck boy to husband material overnight. They never should have picked him.

Yeah, I thought it came up in the 1st ep too. Also when he was showing his home (but maybe to someone other than Cal) thought he talked about his wife cooking in his kitchen. I don’t fault him for wanting a partner that cooks. Some people’s love language is acts of service and cooking is an act of service. I DO fault him for saying that a wife that doesn’t make full on meals for their husband “isn’t woman enough”. It’s as disgusting as when Lindsey tore into Mark about his salary and appearance implying he wasn’t “man enough”.

On one of the follow up shows they said that Bao, Ryan and Zach became friends and hung out weekly. At the time I wondered if they really had stuff in common of if were bonding in response to Rachel, Myrla, and Johnny (and to a lesser extent Brett) becoming a friend group.

This is not getting enough attention: When talking to the men Olajuwon said about Katina “Do I need to break a chair to get her to understand?”. Olajuwon is threatening VIOLENCE to get his wife to understand him. He should immediately be pulled from this show and all of the spouses should get counseled. This is completely unacceptable. He loved bombed her two weeks prior and is now breaking her down (she’s not enough of a woman, is failing as an adult, etc.) and threatening violence - these are all hallmarks of domestic abuse. This needs to be addressed.

Someone on reddit posted they saw Steve and Noi together at a festival this past weekend.

From what I saw of Noodlegate: Had nothing to do with GF and non-GF. Noi offered to make dinner for both of them. Steve walks into kitchen and one pot has Noi’s noodles in them and the other pot is boiling and empty. Steve comments on this and puts his noodles in. Later Steve walks into the kitchen and his noodles are still cooking / overdone. Believe Noi had removed her noodles, but it wasn’t super clear.

I loved Michael’s sister. She was kind to both of them and gave some good advice.

Me too. I’m also bothered by her giving a pass to O’s wedding grinding, love-bombing, ordering her to get over her fear of horses, etc. Am wondering if she is socially stupid or something. She seems nice enough, but alarm bells should be going off about Alyssa and O for her. Plus, the way she is responding to Lyndsey. Lyndsey is annoying AF at times, but Katina’s response to Lyndsey is immature and escalating.

Has Alyssa posted anything about MAFS on SM?

IIRC she had lip fillers, fillers for under eye bags, Botox, teeth whitening, and something with cheeks and chin(s). There were multiple pics showing the before and after for all the different procedures.

But who decides who is an “outsider”? Rayna said that Wes wasn’t black so is he an outsider? Genuinely asking as I’ve heard this said for other groups as well. What if the outsider is offended by the word? Do their feelings matter? This is why I struggle with the ‘it’s OK for some’ because there is so much room for judgement and misunderstanding that often leads to anger instead of discourse.

No one should use that word, EVER. If saying that word is grounds for firing then everyone who says it should get fired. There is no gray area for “that word is OK in some situations” or “OK for some people to say it”.

From last week’s after party:

Olajawon kept shaking his head ‘no’ as he constantly love bombed Katina. Body language doesn’t lie and I worry Katina is in for a world of hurt. And, for someone who claims he is over his slutty ways he certainly likes to relive those days loudly, often, and with strangers who understandably cringe at his man whoring. What a douche.

@StatisticalOutlier In my experience, with technology products there is a sales team of 3 people: the relationship manager (manages overall customer experience), business development manager (handles pricing, contract, etc) and the sales engineer (has the best understanding of the product and can answer technical questions). According to linkedin he averages around 3-5yrs at a job. And, he’s pretty good at marketing himself: https://stephenmoy.com

She’s a 6 who goes to a 7, maybe 7.5 with a ton of makeup, hair extensions, false eyelashes, and according to Reddit lots of professional help and injectables.