Thanks for posting what Jill was responding to. I only had a synopsis that it was courting vs. dating.
Not to mention, Jill is all wrong. Shoshanna grew up with the courtship model, yet her marriage still failed (as did one of her brothers).
Bottom line: Jill is a nasty piece of work. And this is supposedly one of her (few) friends. Imagine what she has to say about people like us.