NotthebadVictoria
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1 hour ago, Westiepeach said:
Jessa also holds out on announcing the name right away because she thinks, you know, we care and all. The suspense is riveting. Apparently.
Now she’s going to hold out the gender as long as possible after birth for the attention. It’s all she has to one-up people. I can see her posting a baby was born but nothing else for a week or two.
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6 hours ago, riverblue22 said:
Carlin Bates, whose daughter has some sort of vision issue, said she had never had her eyes dilated. I suspect half of these fundie kids need glasses but nobody knows it because they don't look into it. When I was in public school there were vision checks but that's not happening with this crew.
Oh I missed this! Did she say what it was?
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3 minutes ago, doodlebug said:
If that's the case, then call her 'Abigail; be done with it. However, it is certainly possible that her name is actually Abbie.
In grade school, I had a friend named Liddie, an old family name. One of the nuns insisted that this could not possibly be her real name and insisted on referring to her as Lydia and would only accept work from her with that first name. I thought it was awful then and haven't changed my mind with time. If Carlin is such a 'sweet friend' of Abbie's, then she should get her name right.
I cannot imagine Carlin letting it slide if someone wrote her name as Karlin or her baby as Leila.
Oh for sure! I had family do this to me because my nickname was not my birth name, and they couldn’t be bothered to ask or pay attention. And you are right, Carlin wouldn’t like it!
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20 minutes ago, QuinnInND said:
Exactly. Even if it's an odd or ridiculous spelling, or a ridiculous name it's rude and disrespectful to misspell someone's name. And you should take extra care to make sure names are spelled correctly.
Is Abbie short for Abigail or is her name Abbie? I know a LOT of people who will not spell the names correctly and do not give a shit because it’s not the “legal name” so there is no “one way” it must be spelt.
not condoning it at all, I’ve dealt with it all my life, but besides the fact that Carlin is damn near Illiterate it wouldn’t surprise me if she was one of those.
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57 minutes ago, iwantcookies said:
Jessa’s sunny personality 😜😝
So they’ll be dead inside of a week? 😂
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Thank you all for your advice, I wanted to give a quick update. I’ve taken everyone’s advice, my pupp is staying in my room, no kennel and he loves it. I am taking him for daily walks (which we could not do with Picks, he had multiple back surgeries and could not do walks without pain) and he’s enjoying that. I’ve left him alone once for one hour and left him inside with free reign of the house (which has never happened) so he was not crying for me at the door and seemed to be ok. I also took him to the vet, talked about strategies to keep him entertained and did a full exam/blood work and he has a clean bill of health. I was warned he’s getting older so it can change at any time 😭😭.
It’s been tough but I think my little man is going to come out of this nothing short of spoiled rotten. I still can’t talk about him without crying BUT spoiling my boy has helped.
thank you all for your advice, condolences and hugs, I appreciate them all!
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2 hours ago, MunichNark said:
Please do listen to this, from about minute 8 and do not give up until minute 11 or so.
youre most welcome!
ps...philip thinks “hungry” is a country. And he didnt realise that hungAry is one. And he is the worst “preacher” ever
What in the bleeding ears was that? 😂
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3 hours ago, Zella said:
Um, I have never been able to afford a separate pair of prescription sunglasses and really don't know anyone who has that kind of money. I have transitions lenses, and if I still need sunglasses, I just buy oversized sunglasses off the rack and wear them over my regular glasses.
I lucked out with insurance where my vision insurance covered the sunglasses and the medical covered my regular glasses, so between that and my flex account they ended up not costing anything out of pocket. But I did add to my flex account knowing I would be doing the new glasses and my hearing aid this year.
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15 minutes ago, Scarlett45 said:
How was driving all these years? did you use the clip on things? Now that it is spring, I think "I should put my sunglasses on when I walk Cosmo", not having sunglasses to drive would be so uncomfortable for me. Maybe my eyes are sensitive? Or maybe its a midwest thing, because our land is so flat, the glare can be intense?
Or I am just a huge ass baby- this is very possible.
Ball caps! I have a weird thing about the weight of the clip ons, cannot stand it so I would wear a ball cap or if it was an all day outdoors thing contacts with regular sunglasses. I prefer glasses to contacts because I have to use rgp contacts, I don’t think I’ve worn them once since I got the rx sunglasses 😂.
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8 minutes ago, Scarlett45 said:
So this is a funny story of a time I had to “check my privilege”:
Did you guys know that I was over 30yrs old before I realized that there were adults who wore glasses that didn’t have prescription sunglasses? They were just SQUINTY and suffering because of cost??
Before I got bigger and became a contacts wearer, in August before school started it was eye appointment time, and after I had my exam I was to pick out two pairs of glasses (mom suggested one fashion, one neutral) and one pair of sunglasses to have my prescription glasses made. And my Mom would choose at least two pair for herself. Even my father who wasn’t into fashion like that always had at least one pair of prescription sunglasses for driving, a cheaper pair for sailing (in case they got damaged on the boat).
Yeah you can make fun of me- it’s okay. I was floored. I thought those little flip things were backups for travel/if your sunglasses broke!(it does take a while to make glasses)
I got my first pair of rx sunglasses this year after being in glasses for over 25yrs, I felt privileged 😂😂. I thought it was a special thing and did not realize it was normal for some people until just now!
i tell everyone now I will never go without again 😂.
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10 minutes ago, Jeeves said:
So, I'm laughing at myself. A fast food chain I'm not familiar with - Cane's - built a new restaurant right around the corner from where I live, that opened not long ago. They do chicken fingers. Often when I've driven past it, there have been lines (!) of cars at its double drive-through setup, with people standing out there apparently taking orders.
I've changed my eating habits for the better, but have slipped back into letting myself have "treats," which is one thing to do very occasionally and another to over-do. Ahem. The recent trend in that area has not been healthy. Another ahem.
Yesterday afternoon I thought, instead of making myself a meal, I'll try the new place. Oh Lord. I drove up, and the order taker was standing by a little sign that gave me just five combo options, all the same except the number of chicken fingers, and it didn't look exciting. But I got the smallest option. I hated the smell of the food when I took the bag from the person at the window. When I got home (literally a five minute drive) and opened the bag? It was a big styrofoam container. Oh great, I think. I'm not only doing a carbfest here, I'm an enemy of the environment too.
And, the food. AWFUL. To call it "lukewarm" would exaggerate its place on the scale of cold-to-piping-hot. Disappointing in all other ways as well. I've had better chicken fingers just about everywhere I've ever had chicken fingers. Tasteless, almost a nasty texture too. The french fries were - a mystery substance. No texture, no taste. The "Texas toast" was an insult to the Lone Star State, and the cole slaw was over-sugared.
I'm going to file this under "play stupid games, win stupid prizes." Maybe it was worth it in a way, because after sampling their food, that oh-so-nearby place is not any kind of temptation for me.
Sorry, planet, about the styrofoam thing.
It’s their sauce that’s addictive and keeps people coming back, pretty sure it’s got drugs in it because my chicken hating bestie is obsessed 🤣. And I agree, greasy, soggy crinkle fries are 🤮🤮.
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3 minutes ago, jcbrown said:
After my 19+ year-old kitty Hillary (who had been with us since she was three weeks old) died in 2019, I had a couple of good photos of her printed and framed them. I still greet her and say goodnight to her and blow her kisses. I love having the photos displayed.
I’ve thought about that, I think that’s a great idea. I will do that. Thank you.
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1 minute ago, whydoiwatch said:
@NOTTHEBADVICTORIA I am sorry for the loss of your pet. I had two pups from the same litter. One had several health problems early on and we battled through. I thought she would be the first to go. However, her sister developed a blood disorder at 10 years of age and was gone one week after diagnosis. We were devastated. I kept her blankets and other items and put some of them in her sister's crate. We spent a lot of extra time and tried to concentrate on fun activities and eventually we all adjusted to being a one dog household. Today, Sammie is 15 and declining. It is so hard losing a beloved pet. Take time to grieve.
Thank you for your advice. Picks has been through multiple surgeries for various things and managed to shock doctors and recover. I think this is why I thought he was just tough as nails invincible. Their breed usually has a longer life span thank 12 years (dachshund) so I hope I can keep Palo around a lot longer.
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8 hours ago, Jeeves said:
Oh gosh, it's so hard to say goodbye to a furkid. You have my condolences and sympathy for your loss.
Although I'd been through it a few times before? About 18 months ago, I was a freaking basket case when my 11 year old dog died. I experienced strong and sharp grief, and cried a LOT, although that phase didn't last forever. I still miss the little guy, and don't tell anybody else, but I still talk to him sometimes. I'm glad you have one of your pups and I'm sure you will comfort each other.
I will still talk to him to, I won’t be able to help myself. Thank you.
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1 minute ago, Marshmallow Mollie said:
@NotthebadVictoria I had a similar situation about two years ago. I am so sorry, because I know the grief is so much stronger. Mollie is the dog who is still with me, so I started doing new things with her (that I couldn’t do with two big dogs including one very arthritic one), and I started taking her for lots of rides and lots of walks. I think the novelty helped transition to the new normal. She’s actually camping with us now.
This is a great idea, there is a lot I couldn’t do with two that I can do with one. I will start this tomorrow!
@QuinnInND @jcbrown thank you, I dill fo that.
Just now, Olliesmom said:I am so sorry for your loss. I would move Picks blankets with his and move his kennel to your room. I think it will be a comfort to you both. Again, I am so sorry.
Thank you 😭😭. He’s the first pupp I’ve ever lost, this is worse than I could have imagined.
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55 minutes ago, jcbrown said:
In addition to lots of snuggles and attention, as recommended by others, I have read that it is good to keep items around that the pet who died was fond of (bed, toys, whatever), so that the scent of the one who is gone can fade slowly. I read that can help surviving fur-kids understand that their friend is gone, though it chokes me up to type it.
@rue721 I'm sorry your stupid standardized test did not recognize your obvious competence and skill. I agree, give yourself a bit of time to pout and then try try again.
Thank you for this! They slept in separate kennels in their room (side by side)and I was thinking about taking Picks blankets and putting them in his bed tonight. I am definitely going to do that. Do you think I should move his kennel to my room, or leave him in theirs?
54 minutes ago, ginger90 said:@NotthebadVictoria so sorry about your pup. 😔
Thank you 😭😭.
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1 minute ago, crazycatlady58 said:
Just give you fur baby lots of love and attention.
That I can do! He’s been trying to skulk off alone all day but I’m forcing cuddles on him.
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Hey Folks, new here and need advice.
one of my pupps passed today leaving his brother behind. It was a complete surprise, he passed in his sleep and we are all shocked and grieving hard. My question is, how do I help his brother? They were from the same litter and together their entire lives, they are 12. So -
11 minutes ago, MargeGunderson said:
@rue721, I’m sorry you didn’t pass. I know you studied really hard for it. You’ve had a lot going on between the tests, and law school, and looking for a house. Maybe take some time to relax and give yourself a break before jumping back in.
@NotthebadVictoria, I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s always heartbreaking to say goodbye to our beloved pets. I don’t have any experience with dogs, but you might check out the the pet board on the forums. (I hope I linked it right, but if not it’s in the Everything Else category). It’s a nice group and you’ll see some of the friendly folks here in that thread as well.
Thank you!
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Hey friends! I know I’m not one of the tell your life story kinds on here but I need advice. My sweet pupp died in his sleep last night and I’m absolutely broken. His brother (who was also in his same litter) is still with us and he knows 😭😭. What on earth do I do for my surviving pupp? They are 12, and have been together their entire lives (and with me).
I am a hot mess but I need to be able to help my boy 😭😭
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3 hours ago, BigBingerBro said:
I think I had my first cavity when I was 6 or 7. It wasn't such an event like Jill made it out to be. No special treats, foods or prayers.
From what I recall Jill had terrifying experiences at the dentist where she was in tears afraid and was forced to comply. So, I understand her making this special for him. It’s less about him and more about what she was forced to do as a kid.
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29 minutes ago, iwantcookies said:
Jed got a $365,000 house as a gift from daddy.
?? Records search?
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2 hours ago, emmawoodhouse said:
She's scraped Ivy's hair into a high pony.
https://www.instagram.com/p/CMxrd-zrXhE/?igshid=1pl8thrs8gjef
A. Who knew Jessa knew what a ponytail was (Lauren must have taught her)
B. That kid is huge and her head is even bigger than I realized
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Small Talk: The Prayer Closet
in Counting On
This made me think of this meme