NotthebadVictoria
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3 hours ago, Marshmallow Mollie said:
Folks, I need some support, and I thought you since many of you are familiar with elder care issues.
My mother has been mentally ill for basically all of her life. Her specific issues made her a terrible mother. We have been basically estranged, friendly but nothing resembling close, knowing I would step in in the event of an emergency. I have to add she has not allowed me to take care of her. I moved here a year ago to take care of her, but she refuses.
Well, the emergency happened. She collapsed about a month ago. Blood sugar 1400z A1c 14. Pneumonia. UTI. Blood infection. Spent 10 days in the CCU, including some days on a ventilator. I got her moved to the nicest skilled nursing center. Visited daily. Called multiple times a day. Brought my children for window visits, which I have previously kept them away from her because of other issues.
Here’s the kicker. She collapsed at someone’s house who, a quick google search revealed, is a child sex predator. I thought she didn’t know. Today she says yes she knew and they are still dating.
I can’t stop crying. The lawyer is already drawing papers for POA and potential guardianship, and I just want to say FUCK HER and FUCK IT ALL. I had just written the lawyer today (trustee) to say I would rather her go to somewhere more expensive and have good care, and now I want to write her back and say I don’t give a fuck where she goes. How do I visit again? How do I call again? How do I bring my kids again? She is abusive to me, so I will not confront her.
Husband is being typical bonehead with, “oh you’re still upset about that?” reaction.
She has done so much shit to me, but now she is dating a sex offender and I have six year old twins?!?!
Fortunately I already have a therapy appt next week, short term anxiety meds to get me through her hospitalization, and an appt in Dec for long term meds, but now I have to figure out make it till then (make it in the practical sense, not suicidal sense).
You can look up exactly what he’s on the registry for, for some it’s consensual sex with a 17y/o depending on states, laws and rulings. Either way if it makes you uncomfortable you do not have to take them where he is, and there should never be a reason to leave your children unsupervised with him (or any adult male that is not the parent for that matter, that’s just how I was raised).
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50 minutes ago, ginger90 said:
10 pictures:https://www.instagram.com/p/CHoe448DpVl/?hl=en
4 pictures:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CHo0p2ZhrE1/?hl=en
Happy Birthday Bud....... no words
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32 minutes ago, Churchhoney said:
Of course, MBoob, Bill G and all his ilk, like MacArthur, see it as a huge success.
Emotion--both warm/fuzzy and miserable/scary--is what they count on to convince people the twisted "faiths" they promote are true and that they must stay faithful to them. It's all they've got, since a lot of what they say is obviously crap if you look at it through the eyes of reason. Luckily for them, we humans tend to be more convinced by emotion than we are by reason.
After Jingle spent years feeling terrified and guilty, she was fully primed to believe that the guilt and terror were a heavenly message about God's truth, no matter what. So even if one day her reason should lead her to question whether women are actually so much dumber than men that they shouldn't be allowed to teach in Jer's seminary (for example), the emotional memory of all that guilt and terror may well seem so much more convincing--so much more "spiritual"--that she'll reject any doubts out of hand.
You are exactly right, she said MOTY would listen to her fears and pray for her, but didn’t actually “do” anything to calm her daughters fears. She says it like she’s grateful MEshell would pray with her bc she was an evil sinner and lucky to have a mom pray for her.
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On that podcast she says from about 5-14 she’d have nightmares about what happened if she died before she had been truly saved and lived in constant fear of being a sinner unworthy of salvation who would face the wrath of God..... good job MBoob!
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48 minutes ago, emmawoodhouse said:
I think the Dillard boys will be well protected from porn for quite some time.
I personally don’t see a problem with this.
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1 hour ago, GeeGolly said:
I'm not making the connection between porn and the molestation.
I taught my kids about good touch/bad touch boundaries long before they ever knew what porn was. Long before they even knew what sex was.
The internet was in its infancy when my kids were around middle school age, so I realize things are different now, but teaching about porn at ages 3 & 5?
Good touch/Bad touch respecting your bodies and the bodies of others can all be in a group of lessons together. Pretty sure Jill’s porn isn’t porn hub hardcore porn but nudity and such, either way, she’s having a conversation about this and I’m not mad about it. One of the pictures from the Amazon review shows it saying if you accidentally see it you’re not a bad kid, that’s a complete 180 from her brainwashing that you’re evil and everything you do is evil. It’s a sensitive topic for sure but clearly this is important to her. I wonder how much her therapist had to do with this.
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23 minutes ago, GeeGolly said:
No matter the book, isn't 3 & 5 a little young to learn about porn?
How old was she when she was molested by her brother? At the end of the day it’s teaching them to talk about uncomfortable things so I could see why she is doing this.
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13 hours ago, Blue hues said:
Even I’m surprised to be saying this, but has anyone seen VKs bday post on her IG? She looks STUNNING! Such a sweet (and pink!) bday photo! Her dress and shoes [loubetin, red soles, sorry about the spelling) are on point! Which DCC celebrated with her? Seems that DCC do birthdays en masse
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41 minutes ago, Joan of Argh said:
Exactly... That wouldn't fit with the super, happy, FRUGAL, mommy, wifey, helper, incubator etc.
Paying someone to cut your kids hair when you can hack it off yourself is a waste of your
HUSBANDSdaddy’s money. 💵Fixed that for you, since daddy pays the husband for toilet scrubbing and tutoring 🤣
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I wonder if they will show Jed! moving back home now? Or just pretend the whole Bert and Ernie house never happened
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7 hours ago, Girl in a Cardigan said:
What is that thing on the couch next to the phone? I keep looking at it and can't make sense of it. Glasses?
It’s the hard shell waistband clip for the otter box phone case
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2 hours ago, Temperance said:
I'm still guessing Rosemary Charlotte as a name for the new baby. If you would like to guess too, people can start guessing names and dates. I'll keep track of the guesses and if anyone gets it, I'll announce the winner.
Jinger is due Nov. 19 so she's getting close.
(Part of this is intended to be a distraction from the world.)
Hope Diana or Diana hope
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6 minutes ago, BigBingerBro said:
At least he didn't try to pass it off as PublciTee's artwork. I really can't see how this isn't a slam.
I can’t draw a stick figure, my mother can doodle like this and I always genuinely compliment her skill. I don’t think it’s a dig, he may be impressed with her skill bc compared to my lack of talent those doodles are remarkable.
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4 minutes ago, 3 is enough said:
My guess is that something happened and there will be no more babies. I suppose that is sad news if they wanted more, but given that they have 4 healthy children it’s not exactly tragic.
If this is the case and she is feeling sorry for herself then I really hope she remembers that she has a sister who has NO children and probably give anything to have just one.
If you preach about accepting as many children as God will allow then you also have to accept the possibility that the number may be smaller than you imagined.
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3 minutes ago, wait.what said:
I love that Jill is featured in People! She looks great. I agree with the poster above that the family one should be framed.
stay strong Jill! Don’t let your family guilt you into doing anything you don’t want to do. Trust me, your silent siblings are cheering you on and wishing they had the strength to do what you are doing!!
She looks 1000% better than any TLC/People Promo for the rest of her fam, they put effort into making her look good!
After seeing the family photo no doubt Sam is the cutest Duggar grandbaby!
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6 hours ago, Sara 1 said:
Guess this means VK finally has a chance to get Abby Bear. I bet she expects it from Lisa.
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Sid the Sloth, that’s who Nuries face reminds me of.
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14 hours ago, emmawoodhouse said:
To her Seewald SILs on IG, she said BYE!
? What did I miss?
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13 hours ago, lemonbus230 said:
Why would it put her in the doghouse? Nothing she says was untrue. The question should be why have Judy and Kelli been able to get away with not being inclusive for so long?
Did I miss the part where Jacie wanted natural hair and Kelly/Judy told her no? This seemed like Jacies perception based on other black cheerleaders telling her to adapt. I don’t see where she said K&J told her no natural hair.
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5 minutes ago, Whyyouneedaname said:
I may be in the minority but Ivy is not a pretty kid....neither is Spurgeon. Ok there, I said it.
Yes!!!!! I thought I was the only one!!! 😂
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52 minutes ago, ginger90 said:
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Exactly Jill....... Truth...... feed your kids they are starving and malnourished
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2 minutes ago, iwantcookies said:
I bet $100 that Jill is reading these comments in her tuna can tin shack feeling SEVERELY persecuted.
But also, her constant need for attention is met by seeing people talk about her.
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1 hour ago, Ijustwantsomechips said:
It’s FaceApp. It takes 5 seconds and no I’m not sitting here spending all day photoshopping Duggars. I’ve FaceApped several of them because I can see lots of similarities in the siblings. They’re all full siblings so they have to either look like Michelle and her side or Jim Bob and his side. Switching the genders really highlights how much they favor to me. YMMV. And glitches or kinks you find in the system would have to be taken up with the fine folks who created this entertaining nugget of AI.
I would love to see all of them as males and all of them as females in a grid! That would really highlight it!
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I vote:
Claire and the Child Groom
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The Duggalos: Jinger and the Holy Goalie
in Counting On
Honestly I will be shocked if Hope is not her name!