I can get John Elvis felt angry that Jared had done something to his friends but image can destroy a show before it gets off the ground and right now with all the stuff happening, you don't want to get negative fan backlash.
Had he just said something short and sweet and thought it out, he could have voiced his opinion but attacking Jared and using violence in his message got him fired. He doesn't have the clout to do this. As an actor, sorry but he should know better. You get jobs based on who you know. They still black list, even if they will never admit it.
Those involved can't talk about it. The more they do, the more people that will not be valid for a jury. I dealt with something not great this year and I had to keep my mouth shut and I wasn't even allowed to socialize with my work friends. So those involved staying silent basically have to especially if they are trying to work out a deal.
Jared has to get it under control though. Once he is off Supernatural he will lose some of his clout. If the show doesn't get the ratings or keep fans happy where they believe it is worth continuing his show, the show will be canceled. It is a business about profit. Remember Rodney Downey Junior, his drugs problem got him in jail and when he got out he had trouble getting work. He's also very talented. There are many very talented actors that never make it.
Those actors at the top, which by the way is a very small percent, make the money. The rest struggle or don't make a living at all.
Even as a teacher, although now I'm retired, I had to watch any online post. It could get me fired. Hence having names that don't really show my real name so I can post without having to worry about someone seeing it and it coming back to haunt me.
No one is perfect. Which is one reason I wondered if John had not been sober when he made his post. He played with fire and right or wrong it cost him. The field of performance is about clout, about who you can draw in to watch you.
Jared isn't a A list actor. He will need to make changes or it will cost him. We don't know all the details. But I will say this. What happened to me this year, makes me careful about throwing stones. Anytime something happens you there are two sides. Even in teaching I seen middle school best friends horse playing around and one gets mad. Then oops it's a real fight. The one that pushed it too far, usually always states, "I was just kidding or I didn't mean to fill in the blank." We may never find out the real story. Nor do we need to know IMO.
I just know how it feels when your accused of doing something you didn't. So hopefully they will come up with a solution that is a win/win. In the long run only the people involved need to know the details. Us knowing is because we are curious or nosy. lol.