I must admit, I have an addiction to reality t.v. It doesn't even have to be good, I guess my bar is set pretty low! Teen Mom, Teen Mum, or the tv gold that is DCC Making the Team, I'm in. But, what's ever better, is coming to these forums and reading really funny, snarky and gossipy comments. Most of the time, reading the forums is actually better than the shows themselves. Except, this one feels...off to me. I made a comment a few episodes back about this, but I'm wondering if I'm watching the same show as many of you.
First, I want to thank the moms who posted about their experiences with international adoption. It's been so fascinating to me and I really appreciate you sharing your stories. I also agree 100% that Bill and Jen could be better when it comes to discipline. I think Bill even realized this on the last episode. I think raising children (especially for Jen) has been more rewarding and also more challenging than they imagined and really are trying their best even though there have been missteps.
What I don't understand is this underlying hate and judgement. Comments about how the orphanages would be horrified about how they are growing up sincerely baffles me. Even with their issues, I see a home full of love and security. Those of you who take issue with their wealth would probably have judged my parents too -we had a lot of material things, went on trips, had a beautiful home, cars. But, I also grew up in an abusive environment-both physically and mentally. I literally feared for my life everyday. By the time I was Will's age I had my first full blown panic attack. I would have loved to have had a mom who wanted to do crafts with me and a dad who was silly and wanted to play with me. Yes, they are not perfect, but both Jen and Bill seem very kind hearted and genuine. My heart explodes when I see Zoey blossom into the spunky little soul she is today. I would hate to think of who else could have gotten those kids.