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Becca admitted to gaslighting her previous partners, but you know she is 100% telling the truth now. She gets on Austin's case for lying about not cheating, but sits their mute when Emily cheats in front of her. If Becca's response is so bad that Austin cant be straight with her about innocent things, then that sounds like Becca's issue. Its very clear to me that Claire manipulated the other women to make the guys look worse than they are. She is supposed to be a shrink but gets into people's heads to manipulate them. But now we are supposed to trust what they say?

Maybe Becca is lying about not caring about the vaping?? She said she used to be the gaslighter in relationships. Why would Austin lie if Becca didnt care? That wouldnt make sense, would it? My ex wife cared that I smoked weed, so I didnt tell her about it. But she sure could drink. If she didnt care, I would have done it openly. Then Becca says he he vapes alot without defining what that means. She never mentioned her bestie Emily's drinking, and I thought it was excessive, yet she wants to throw her hubby under the bus for vaping.

He laid everything out and Becca had no comeback. She came at him saying something about having a few texts. He said he had ALL the texts with the full context, and then began divulging everything, including Emily's cheating. Whereas, Becca HID Emily's cheating. Becca had no comeback, and looked depressed and upset. He does look innocent. Meanwhile Becca inexplicably admitted that she used to be the gaslighter in relationships. So Becca's image took a huge hit. She looked like a trainwreck this season yet wants to blame Austin for not wanting to have sex with her. Becca said she didnt care about Austin's vaping, but then why did she make him lie to her about vaping? She is not making sense anymore. She says he vapes alot, but refuses to say what that means? Once a week? Once a day? Once an hour? Something is off about Becca.

She has two normal looking women who work for her. And she, herself looks normal, not scattered. She should have presented to Austin this way.

I think you are right about this. She's not on coke. Believe it or not, even if she does have a drinking problem and she is the one-night stand Qween, I dont think this makes her a bad person.

Emily did admit to liking one night stands and her favorite hobby is drinking? What did she expect? She did not have to admit it. Lauren never said she was a one-night stand Queen. She said she had sex before the experiment started. If you drink alot and can handle your alcohol, nobody would think you have a drinking problem. Drunk are drunks regardless of their gender. When Vincent was freaking with the strippers, he was called out. I disagree that Emily is being treated harshly or in a sexist way.

These people are called manwhores. Men get shit too for being one night stand junkies. No, she deserves the comments. Its not because she is a woman. She said she enjoys one-night stands and only get ghosted after the first date. We saw her act woo-hooo during the bachelorette party. She is contantly getting into accidents. She might have a drinking problem, although she didnt drop the glass at Michaels wedding. If a guy told a woman that he enjoyed one night stands and that women never called him back, the woman would demand the guy get tested for STDs. If a guy couldnt hold their alcohol every time they drank and got all woo-hoo, that would be an issue for the woman. This doesnt mean that I like Brennan at all in any way. But she gave him an easy out.

It was perfect because when Austin lied about the producer, the mean girls could provide the evidence. Becca was experiencing reality in real time. The producer really pushed her over the edge. I thought it was great that she was confronting him like that in front of people. He deserved it for saying yes, but then hanging out with a female at a bar drinking. Have you noticed that producers and experts sucking up to Emily and Keisha tolerating her asking questions on her show? My theory is after the accident, they gave her anything she wanted and always took her side. Because of the potential lawsuit. I noticed her boobs went up a size. Did MAFS pay for that as well as part of the settlement?

They deserve it thought. Its like cops. There are good cops. Some are my friends. But the cop system is very bad. They deserve the rep, though they seemed to have calmed down over the past few years. Read about the party the Duke frat threw. Maybe frats have changed. Why dont you think they deserve this rep after their atrocious behavior. And for a while frat boy, and date rape were synonymous. I dont think Austin is like this though. He's like a stoner who want everything to be chill. https://www.salon.com/2014/03/04/6_disturbingly_racist_and_sexist_frat_party_themes_—_from_just_this_past_year_partner/ She is overly emotional, and I am here for that. I liked that she was real and not acting for the camera. She wanted this to work so badly, but she had to know that if a guy is not having sex with you while sleeping in the same bed after a few weeks that maybe he was not attracted to her?

I dont think reality is stereotyping. Are there good frats? Yes. Are most frats good. I wouldn't say yes. And its not really the hazing that I am talking about. It how they treat others not in their fraternity or not part of the fraternity system. My family told me to always treat people with respect, no matter what walk of life they are from. Frat boys seem to be told the opposite. I do think they like to prey on the weak and unpopular. And some fraternities have been outright racist for throwing minority themed parties. Other fraternities will not allow people that are not White to join their frat. So I think they kinda deserve the rep, though not all.

This is a great way of stating this. They do like to prey on the weaker and unpopular, like the bullies in high school. Except most people move on from all of that after high school. But frats have a rep of continuing it. The one good thing about frats it that they hook you up with jobs that you might not necessarily be qualified for.

I've met some really cool frat/sorority boys/girls. But frat boys have a reputation as dicks because of the way they treat others. They have a reputations of looking down on others and acting dickish to outsiders. Especially the frats win no diversity and the wealthier frats. I was friends with frat people in college. They seemed to be more close minded and less accepting of others who are different than them. When I was dating I would not go out with or sleep with anybody who had dirty feet or smelled. If you are trying to impress someone new, thats not the way to go. I've seen so many people with dirty feet on MAFS (Bennet from Nawlins)- it just disgusts me. They also put their dirty shoes and luggage right on the bed. Nobody wears shoes in my house. People said Mindy smelled and was dirty. But again, how does anybody know that? Her clothes were a mess. But she was nice.

What is the fine if you are honest and drop out? You say it is about camera time, but what if its really about not paying a fine? I think the rule of thumb is that if a guy you are living with 24/7 doesn't have sex with you for 2 weeks, he is not into you sexually. I know there are exceptions. Why would Becca think Austin was into her after the first month.

1) There is a reason why he is acting this way towards Becca. But I wont spoil it for you. 2) Becca has to try harder. Most of the season she was a complete mess, with her roots, pink hair, ill fitting clothing choices, and makeup. You have to try to attract the man by putting your best foot forward. When I saw her on Keisha's last show, she looked amazing and well put together, and I was thinking, "why didnt she look like this for Austin the entire season"? She probably would have had a better shot at Austin than wearing the ill fitting tie-dye hoodie. Instead she was looking washed up the entire season, but great on Keisha's show after it was too late. Austin was trying to not be a dick, but when you are not attracted to the person, how do you navigate that without appearing like a dick. Its practically impossible. I think Clint was the only one who pulled it off. Even Jaime went into meltdown mode before she came around. There are only two choices: 1) admit you are not attracted to the person and leave the show and pay the penalty or, 2) take the, "I'm building the attraction" route- which normally doesnt work.

At this point I blame the experts and producers. Prison Brides have a better track record of success than they guys.

Its called weed.

I thought the same thing when she started aggressively questioning the other cast members on Keisha's show and Keisha just took it and didn't cut her off. I think MAFS has a lawsuit hanging over their heads so they are letting her do whatever she wants. I think they are trying to keep Emily happy.

Yes this is what I meant. My aunt is Black and she converted to Judaism before she got married. But that was like after 4 years years of dating. Converting is a serious thing. Please see my last post. I have a family member who converted after dating her husband for 4 years. She wasn't flippant about that and my Jewish uncle would not let her.

I actually meant I was beach bum for 3-4 months, not 34 months, lolz. Corporate America tends to burn you out and toss you aside. You have to ask yourself, Is this the way you want to live the rest of your life? After Covid nobody wants to even go back into the office. There is reason for that.

I live in Culver City, but go to MDR all the time. There are no more homeless. I agree that failed marriages should not be advising anybody.

Been away for a while here are my thought on the couples: Clare and Cameron - I like Cameron better now. Initially I thought he was an asshole. He has family trauma somehow. He's not in to Claire. I think I believe Cameron more than I believe Claire. Brennan and Emily - I think Emily has alcohol issues. Didnt she take 5 shots in a row at honeymoon? If I did that I would be out. Also the bachelorette party? She was wicked wasted. Her coochie was out. Good thing Brennan didnt see that. She said she would convert to Judaism- who does that? Totally deperado. Her weave issue probably turned Brennan off. It looked nasty. Her weird facial ticks, her uptalk, her bad hair. No es bueno. Yet, somehow I like her way better than Brennan (I dislike both). Brennan....where shall we start. He has obvious anger issues. He cant stand Emily and cant treat her with basic respect. The pool scene with them was cringe. He soooo didn't want to answer those stupid questions. He wont hold her hand, he wont hug her. He wont look at her. He snaps at her. I agree with the poster that said he is ghosting her even though he is with her- very deep observation. I cant imagine what Emily went through being treated this way. He might be an alcoholic, but she deserves basic dignity. Also, Brennan got pissed with his friend who told him to give it more of a chance. On the Afterparty Emily was mean to Keisha for asking a basic question, which made me start to doubt he version. Also, I agree with the posters saying Keisha was getting annoying explain what we just saw during the commercials. I like Rudy. Austin and Becca - He is soooo not into her. I dont think he is gay. I just think he is trapped. They wont last, even if they say yes. Men dont wait weeks to have sex. They try to pounce immediately, or at most a few dates. I have a close friend who has Endometriosis. She says that sex is painful sometimes and that her periods are excruciating. She had surgery and it made things worse. She has a wonderful, understanding husband. Also I dont know what is up with him wearing the backward cap all the time. He seems to have great hair. Orion and Lauren - Orion is a jerk. Lauren is NOT a racist. Orion brought up the R-word himself, so he should blame himself for things going sideways. He constantly kicked her in the teeth when she kept sincerely apologizing for nervously laughing. I thought he was Italian at first. I dont see how he suffered brutal racism if I mistook him for being White. He got called an Apple? Big deal. I got called an Oreo as a kid. Do you see me taking it out on White people? He needs to move on with that. Also he seems like misogynist. He is not down with the matriarchy. He doesn't want to be told what to do by a woman. He thinks women should serve him. Yet, he lives with his mom. I think he is bisexual, but maybe he is not. He kissed a guy and claims he wasnt into it. I like Lauren, but she needs to move on from this guy. Also, that bathing suit at the pool didnt work for her. The missing tooth make her look older. But I think she is a nice person. Michael and Chloe - Michael is very eccentric for where he lives. But in LA, where I live, nobody would even notice him, let alone care. I went through the same type of experience Michael is going though with my look in the Upper West Side. He has bad skin, thats not his fault. He will have to find someone who doesnt care about that and cares about who he is inside. I think he is a good man. Maybe he should move back to LA. I'm rooting for these guys. I want someone to work out. I dont want to see all failures. Chloe- should she win an Oscar for that performance? Or is it real? That was an amazing first kiss. Somehow Michael got more action than any other couple within the first 5 min of meeting his wife, how does that happen? Emily, Becca were probably all like, WTF?? Why cant I get kissed like that. She looks really conventional. I dont see how she vibes with Michael, but for now she does. I hope they make it. I am happy for Michael that the he didnt get dumped again. The Experts- They suck. All the matches are bad lately. They dont make sense. They offer help only after the marriage has died. Caster Pal, should stop pressuring people who are failing. Also, he did the right thing smoothing over the religion issue with Becca even thought he had to twist the scriptures a bit. He is not there to preach religion, and a Christian minister telling a Jew that she is going to hell is just not going to fly. He cant push religion. I am happy that he finally gave up on his only marrying Blacks with other Blacks fantasy. This is 2024, not 1980. Even the Prince of England is in an interracial marriage and the Obama is interracial. I see Dr Pepper had some work done! It looks amazing! But she, too is checked out. They should bring Dr. Vivian back on. I wished they would not have pushed her out. Maybe they will blame this whole crappy season on Pia and push her out. They need a refresh on this show. Make it more like MAFS UK or somewhere in between. My gf said they were very cheap. Had she gotten some expensive ones, they would look amazing. I also wonder why they dont get stylist, before they go on TV. Why not put your best foot forward. Also not feeling Becca's pink hair. It looks washed out.

I am an expert in this. I live in West LA. Nobody would bat an eye. Nobody would even notice Michael. I too have a nose ring, but a diamond one. I have hair similar to Fredrick Douglas. I have a big beard too. I wear eccentric clothes sometimes, mostly hoodies. I'm an executive. When I worked for eHarmony, my boss had a neck tattoo and one side of his head shaven, Like Michael. The CEO wore ripped jeans and faded t-shirts and toured in a band occasionally. When I was at VCA, the Director of Accounting was eccentric. He wore female yoga pants and a tanktop. The CFO wore shorts and a tea shirt. Some people had eccentric die jobs. Its normal in LA. But I learned the hard way that that my look doesn't fly elsewhere. I stayed in the the Upper West Side and people could not understand my look at all. I wore destroyed black jeans and sneakers that looked like paint threw up on them, and the bouncer in Chelsea told me this establishment is only for people with credit cards. My girlfriends told me they probably thought I was a painter, lolz.

There is nothing wrong with Gina having a nose-ring. The problem is her gauge is too big. If it was way thinner, it would look good on her.

Its Keisha's house. Doctor said she had to be close due to pregnancy.

Pastor Cal would annoy me when he first joined MAFS, and his mission was to match Black singles to each other, instead of picking the most compatible people. So we can just discount whatever he says about this. In case Pastor Cal hasnt noticed, there are tons of commercials with biracial kids, so society has moved beyond his agenda- like 15 years ago at least. He can join the new society, where people get to date whoever they want to date, regardless of race.