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Is there evidence that Becca was not lying about how she was cool with weed? Yes there is evidence that she is toxic and creates toxic and creates toxic environments. And it came out of her own mouth. She admitted that she has gaslighted previous partners. Gaslighters create toxic environments. Now all of a sudden she is an angel and not a gaslighter? Since when. Have you gaslighted people? I have not. She lied on Emily and hid her slip up, but is all over Austin, lolz. She lied about not caring about vaping or else there is no reason for Austin to hide it. Then she called Austin a pothead on national TV without any evidence. But somehow its not appropriate to call Emily an alcoholic despite us seeing her getting wasted and wasted time and time again. I see the double standards. Here is the science behind it if you want to geek out on it. https://www.leafly.com/news/science-tech/science-vaping-marijuana-oil-concentrates

You are passing judgement on cannabis users. How often do people ask whether they drink or whether they are a teetotaler? Like never. I never even asked this question when I was dating. You dont understand how destructive this fake propaganda has been to American families. The only reason why there was even a War on Weed in this country is because.....well I will just let you read why: https://www.cnn.com/2016/03/23/politics/john-ehrlichman-richard-nixon-drug-war-blacks-hippie/index.html

I'm just not stupid. If Becca really didnt care about vaping they wouldn't even need to talk about it, hence no lie. But she obviously does care about vaping so she would consider it "lying" every time he vaped but didnt inform her. Why would you ask if someone is vaping unless you wanted to vape yourself, or nag them about vaping. Becca is lying badly. She thinks we are stupid and dont understand logic. She is not cool with vaping despite what she told us.

Why does he have to ask Becca's permission to vape weed? Does she have to ask his permission every time she wants to do something? Every time I drink, I dont have to clear it with my gf. I dont know why Becca creates that type of environment where guys want to keep benign secrets from her. This seems like something Becca should work on. And she is easily manipulatable. The shrink got into her head and manipulated her into joining Team Mean Gurl. She was ok at the beginning of the season, but her bestie Claire was a bad influence and got her to see the worst in Austin. Maybe Austin was vaping to deal with the stress of the show. I do know one thing: every season I see people getting fucking WASTED on the daily and this type of judgement doesn't come their way. Its like its normal. Emily was fucking wicked wasted at that bachelorette party. When she was with Brennan, she downed all those shots that would have put me under the table. Then people on this forum kept insisting that she was not an alcoholic- saying she is just having a good time. Then Austin vapes and doesn't make an ass of himself, and all of a sudden he is the druggie bad guy? The people who think this way have an issue with weed, but just dont want to come out and say it, so they couch it in other issues. They are prejudiced against smoking weed. They think Austin is bad just because he smokes weed. And Emily is good because she drinks alcohol.

Sometimes when you are stoned and just trying to make it through, you just dont give a shit. The thing that really surprised me about Austin is that I assumed he was going bald, when in fact he had hair growing out of everywhere. He had neck hair. But he mostly covered it up. Why would a man with great hair cover it up? Was it a flex?

When my ex got wasted on alcohol, did I complain at all? No, because I didnt give a shit. What is worse alcohol or weed? More people died yesterday from alcohol poisoning than weed in the history of humankind. People who died from weed =0. Who gets into fights: people who are wasted on alcohol, or people who are stoned. Lets cut the the BS propaganda on all of this. Austin vaping > Emily drunk blackouts. I didn't LIE, I just didn't tell her. Did she tell me every time she had a drink? She lied by omission too, right? Becca is not right. Whatever she did, Austin doesnt feel like he can be straightforward with her. She needs to work on that. Maybe Becca is lying. She ratted out her hubby for vaping, even though there is nothing wrong with that, but didnt rat out her bestie for making out with the Australian, and possibly giving him a BJ. I dont even think he lied. I think he just didnt tell her. And Becca is considering that a lie.

In CA and CO, people openly smoke. There is no stigma. Everybody vapes too. There is no reason to hide something if your partner is cool with it. She outed him with the vaping anyways, so it kinda obviates your point. She probably doesnt like that he drinks too, but wont bring that up because she knows how stupid it would sound. I never saw him vape. The only reason why I know, is because she outed him out of spite. So that implies that she obviously had a big problem with it. Or else she would have never mentioned it, like Emily's cheating. Vaping is worse than cheating? No one I know would ever say that.

Becca admitted to gaslighting her previous partners, but you know she is 100% telling the truth now. She gets on Austin's case for lying about not cheating, but sits their mute when Emily cheats in front of her. If Becca's response is so bad that Austin cant be straight with her about innocent things, then that sounds like Becca's issue. Its very clear to me that Claire manipulated the other women to make the guys look worse than they are. She is supposed to be a shrink but gets into people's heads to manipulate them. But now we are supposed to trust what they say?

Maybe Becca is lying about not caring about the vaping?? She said she used to be the gaslighter in relationships. Why would Austin lie if Becca didnt care? That wouldnt make sense, would it? My ex wife cared that I smoked weed, so I didnt tell her about it. But she sure could drink. If she didnt care, I would have done it openly. Then Becca says he he vapes alot without defining what that means. She never mentioned her bestie Emily's drinking, and I thought it was excessive, yet she wants to throw her hubby under the bus for vaping.

He laid everything out and Becca had no comeback. She came at him saying something about having a few texts. He said he had ALL the texts with the full context, and then began divulging everything, including Emily's cheating. Whereas, Becca HID Emily's cheating. Becca had no comeback, and looked depressed and upset. He does look innocent. Meanwhile Becca inexplicably admitted that she used to be the gaslighter in relationships. So Becca's image took a huge hit. She looked like a trainwreck this season yet wants to blame Austin for not wanting to have sex with her. Becca said she didnt care about Austin's vaping, but then why did she make him lie to her about vaping? She is not making sense anymore. She says he vapes alot, but refuses to say what that means? Once a week? Once a day? Once an hour? Something is off about Becca.

She has two normal looking women who work for her. And she, herself looks normal, not scattered. She should have presented to Austin this way.

I think you are right about this. She's not on coke. Believe it or not, even if she does have a drinking problem and she is the one-night stand Qween, I dont think this makes her a bad person.

Emily did admit to liking one night stands and her favorite hobby is drinking? What did she expect? She did not have to admit it. Lauren never said she was a one-night stand Queen. She said she had sex before the experiment started. If you drink alot and can handle your alcohol, nobody would think you have a drinking problem. Drunk are drunks regardless of their gender. When Vincent was freaking with the strippers, he was called out. I disagree that Emily is being treated harshly or in a sexist way.

These people are called manwhores. Men get shit too for being one night stand junkies. No, she deserves the comments. Its not because she is a woman. She said she enjoys one-night stands and only get ghosted after the first date. We saw her act woo-hooo during the bachelorette party. She is contantly getting into accidents. She might have a drinking problem, although she didnt drop the glass at Michaels wedding. If a guy told a woman that he enjoyed one night stands and that women never called him back, the woman would demand the guy get tested for STDs. If a guy couldnt hold their alcohol every time they drank and got all woo-hoo, that would be an issue for the woman. This doesnt mean that I like Brennan at all in any way. But she gave him an easy out.

It was perfect because when Austin lied about the producer, the mean girls could provide the evidence. Becca was experiencing reality in real time. The producer really pushed her over the edge. I thought it was great that she was confronting him like that in front of people. He deserved it for saying yes, but then hanging out with a female at a bar drinking. Have you noticed that producers and experts sucking up to Emily and Keisha tolerating her asking questions on her show? My theory is after the accident, they gave her anything she wanted and always took her side. Because of the potential lawsuit. I noticed her boobs went up a size. Did MAFS pay for that as well as part of the settlement?

They deserve it thought. Its like cops. There are good cops. Some are my friends. But the cop system is very bad. They deserve the rep, though they seemed to have calmed down over the past few years. Read about the party the Duke frat threw. Maybe frats have changed. Why dont you think they deserve this rep after their atrocious behavior. And for a while frat boy, and date rape were synonymous. I dont think Austin is like this though. He's like a stoner who want everything to be chill. https://www.salon.com/2014/03/04/6_disturbingly_racist_and_sexist_frat_party_themes_—_from_just_this_past_year_partner/ She is overly emotional, and I am here for that. I liked that she was real and not acting for the camera. She wanted this to work so badly, but she had to know that if a guy is not having sex with you while sleeping in the same bed after a few weeks that maybe he was not attracted to her?

I dont think reality is stereotyping. Are there good frats? Yes. Are most frats good. I wouldn't say yes. And its not really the hazing that I am talking about. It how they treat others not in their fraternity or not part of the fraternity system. My family told me to always treat people with respect, no matter what walk of life they are from. Frat boys seem to be told the opposite. I do think they like to prey on the weak and unpopular. And some fraternities have been outright racist for throwing minority themed parties. Other fraternities will not allow people that are not White to join their frat. So I think they kinda deserve the rep, though not all.

This is a great way of stating this. They do like to prey on the weaker and unpopular, like the bullies in high school. Except most people move on from all of that after high school. But frats have a rep of continuing it. The one good thing about frats it that they hook you up with jobs that you might not necessarily be qualified for.

I've met some really cool frat/sorority boys/girls. But frat boys have a reputation as dicks because of the way they treat others. They have a reputations of looking down on others and acting dickish to outsiders. Especially the frats win no diversity and the wealthier frats. I was friends with frat people in college. They seemed to be more close minded and less accepting of others who are different than them. When I was dating I would not go out with or sleep with anybody who had dirty feet or smelled. If you are trying to impress someone new, thats not the way to go. I've seen so many people with dirty feet on MAFS (Bennet from Nawlins)- it just disgusts me. They also put their dirty shoes and luggage right on the bed. Nobody wears shoes in my house. People said Mindy smelled and was dirty. But again, how does anybody know that? Her clothes were a mess. But she was nice.

What is the fine if you are honest and drop out? You say it is about camera time, but what if its really about not paying a fine? I think the rule of thumb is that if a guy you are living with 24/7 doesn't have sex with you for 2 weeks, he is not into you sexually. I know there are exceptions. Why would Becca think Austin was into her after the first month.

1) There is a reason why he is acting this way towards Becca. But I wont spoil it for you. 2) Becca has to try harder. Most of the season she was a complete mess, with her roots, pink hair, ill fitting clothing choices, and makeup. You have to try to attract the man by putting your best foot forward. When I saw her on Keisha's last show, she looked amazing and well put together, and I was thinking, "why didnt she look like this for Austin the entire season"? She probably would have had a better shot at Austin than wearing the ill fitting tie-dye hoodie. Instead she was looking washed up the entire season, but great on Keisha's show after it was too late. Austin was trying to not be a dick, but when you are not attracted to the person, how do you navigate that without appearing like a dick. Its practically impossible. I think Clint was the only one who pulled it off. Even Jaime went into meltdown mode before she came around. There are only two choices: 1) admit you are not attracted to the person and leave the show and pay the penalty or, 2) take the, "I'm building the attraction" route- which normally doesnt work.

At this point I blame the experts and producers. Prison Brides have a better track record of success than they guys.

Its called weed.

I thought the same thing when she started aggressively questioning the other cast members on Keisha's show and Keisha just took it and didn't cut her off. I think MAFS has a lawsuit hanging over their heads so they are letting her do whatever she wants. I think they are trying to keep Emily happy.

Yes this is what I meant. My aunt is Black and she converted to Judaism before she got married. But that was like after 4 years years of dating. Converting is a serious thing. Please see my last post. I have a family member who converted after dating her husband for 4 years. She wasn't flippant about that and my Jewish uncle would not let her.