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Lets do the math. Steve is almost 40. So if he is going to make a big move on his own, NOW is the time to make it. Wasting another three years in some short-term deal to appease Noi, will hurt this couple in the long run. When you are on a Hamster Wheel, it is impossible to think of the long term clearly and make good long term decisions. That's why Steve is taking time to figure things out. He doesn't want to make the same mistake twice. And being forced to take a job that you know you are better than just because someone wants 3 kids, that will be even a worse decision. What if Noi dumps Steve and then he starts a company or creates an app that kills it. She would be looking back at that decision for eternity.

It was basically 40-60 year old men convincing their wives to adopt a sister wife in their 20's with large breasts. My girlfriend made me stop watching it 30 min in, because thought it was so gross. I am not surprised that it did not make it. My Killer Body is way better than this, and I have never watched it.

You dont think Noi is to blame for insisting that they have 3 kids? Those are not normal plans. And then making him work at some bad job to support them? Maybe Noi should just back off on that a bit. Steve is not going to go back to a job that he hates and then get laid off again, just so Noi can have 3 kids. This is the American dream? Freedom is more like the American dream, and now Steve has that. Noi wants to harsh his buzz with massive obligations. Noi is telling Steve he better make $3M off the bat, if things are going to work. She doesnt say that directly, but you can do the math.

That is a very convenient excuse. Either there is loyalty or no loyalty. If Corporate America can toss you aside anytime they feel like it, regardless of performance, than why shouldn't workers be mercenaries any look out for themselves. I like what Steve is doing. He will be fine. But not if he is forced to go work at a place he hates so that he fulfills his 3 child duty. Right now he doesn't have to stress at all. Now this this new girl is giving him tons of stress just so she can have her 3 kids. She is so brainwashed about the Corporate America 9-5 gig (really more like 8-7), that she just cannot imagine a brighter future. Americans are quitting their jobs and getting like 40% raises. They are demanding more from work. Where does Steve want to be in 10 years? Did Noi even ask? Or is she so obsessed with the the 9-5 brainwashing that she is missing this? She just wants him to have a Corporate America job. Whether it is satisfying to him, or whether it makes sense in the long run, she doesnt care. She wants to be able to tell her friends, "my husband is the Senior Director of X.... and makes Y" even if that means Steve goes bald in a year from the stress, and makes less money than he could on his own. American workers are snapping out of this mentality, but apparently Noi is obsessed with it. What if Noi forces Steve back on the Corporate America Hamster Wheel, and he gets laid off again? How secure is that? She doesnt even think about that. Once you have 3 kids, that means you can never quit your job, no matter how bad or unhealthy things get, and you surrender your entire life to your employer. Don't think Steve will get ever get to see his kids or hang out with his wife, once he gets on the Hamster Wheel to support 3 kids. I get that she is insecure because of her upbringing, but she is being ridiculous at this point. What does she think will happen if Steve takes off another 3 months? That all of a sudden he will forget how to build apps? This seems like more of a status thing for her.

He isnt broke, he lives in Beverley Hills, but he would rather be broke than work in a job that he hates. Noi is totally unreasonable dropping the 3 kids thing on him and then expecting him to work in a job he doesnt like. Employees have all the leverage post-COVID. Noi expects Steve to throw all that leverage away so Noi can fulfill her 3 kid fantasy and Steve can become a corporate slave. That is bad long-term planning. Why does Noi think that 3 kids are reasonable? Maybe if she only had one kid, she would not be so freaked out and annoying about Steve's choices.

What about what Steve wants for his future? Does that count? Or does she want to force Steve to make $3M for the 3 kids she insists on? Steve just got off of the Hamster Wheel (or was forced off), and here is Noi demanding that he slave away at Corporate America so she can have 3 kids. Maybe Noi is the selfish one. What about Steve's needs? Is he just a sperm donor/$$ provider to her? What is in it for Steve besides the sex? Steve just got burned out and Noi wants him to repeat the same mistakes, just so she can have 3 kids. After my divorce and when I was dating in LA, nobody was sweating me like Noi is, even though I was an "unemployed" beach bum. Women saw the potential. Not once was I asked why I didn't have a job. And I was crashing with my female friend, so I guess I was "homeless". Noi is being completely unrealistic. If I met a woman who told me she needed me to give her three kids and get a job that I hated, I would be running the other way. Is Noi thinking things through?

America really seems brainwashed that you have to be a slave to a company in order to be a valued member of society. Doing things on your own is considered "bad" and "unsafe". You mean the Kat whos husband brags publicly about threesomes and banging mother/daughter teams? That Katrina? She is uncomfortable with sexual innuendos?

What makes you think this? Many people are very uncomfortable talking about their money, especially on national TV. Maybe he does have bank, but just doesn't want to tell everybody about it. NOI is a recruiter. She should know better about how Corporate America is insecure. Why does she assume if Steve gets a "job" with some corporation, that he wont again get laid off when the company needs its stock price to go up? Noi is in fantasy land.

O never said he prefers White women. He said White women seem attracted to him so that is who he dated/sexed. That's a huge difference. O doesnt seem like the type to put in the hard work, so he took the easy prey. More vulture than eagle.

Why does Noi think that Corporate America is secure? Didnt she just hear about Steve getting laid off? Noi wants to force Steve back on the Hamster Wheel but Steve has better plans that Noi is incapable of understanding. There is no such thing as concrete stability in Corporate America. Noi has been brainwashed and is unable to think bigger.

Thank you for saying this. Why does Noi believe that Corporate America is "safe"? Corporate America just laid off Steve. That's not safe. I know so many people who reevaluated their priorities during COVID. The "work yourself to death and then retire" model is dead. Since, as COVID has shown us, nobody know when they will die. Steve didn't want his last hour of his life to be filling out a TPS Report at 11PM, while his boss is scheming how to lay him off. No thanks, I'll pass. COVID has taught people that they dont have to do that anymore, and I am sure Steve has gone through the same epiphany. Noi want Steve to be a slave for Corporate America and Steve aint having that. I had a friend who quit his job tell me that he would rather be broke than work for his asshole boss. That's where Americans are at. That is where Steve is at. If Steve can work for himself why would he work for Corporate America? I hear he has savings and doesn't need to rush back to work. Why is Noi sweating him? Americans dont even want to go back to the office and prefer to work from home. Steve is taking it one step further. Not all of Corporate America is clueless. Some companies, like Oracle, get it and were doing it even before COVID. Steve can work anywhere he wants. He just needs good reception. Steve should probably communicate more effectively about his work situation. Noi is going to have to give up her dream of Steve being chained to his cubicle 8-7. That's just not going to happen.

I blame Michael Jackson for all of the crotch grabbing.

He said he he might have jumped in at the end, but we dont know what "jumped in" really means. Keisha dropped the ball on this one. We need a new host. Also The Shark was being cagey about what it meant, he might have just talked dirty to her. I think Keisha needs to schedule a follow up on this question.

It was on the Afterparty show last week. Lyndsay counted the self service as The Shark having sex.

Late 60's.

I am Ride or Die about Lyndsey. Why is everybody beating her up so badly. Doesn’t anybody else have faults? So what if she masturbated?

Nailed it!

Yeah I think I remember that. You can take the Bao too.

If she wants to smoke weed she should smoke weed. What is anyone gonna do about it? Especially if it is medicinal weed. Tobacco in an apartment is way different. Like if you smoke weed in a hotel room, the next day, the smell is completely gone. With tobacco, not at all.

Alyssa was obviously dropping the Defund slur to get half of America to hate him. She is like scum, but that would be insulting to scum. I'd buy him a beer too if he ever came to LA. She better find a guy fast before they hear about this show. She ....like is like....totally undatable.

Probably burning sage. I thought she did that in the 3rd episode.

That was me. I take the Bao.

Steve got really burnt out at his last gig and needs more time to figure out his plan. But I agree, having a wife who is demanding 3 kids is not conducive to his lifestyle. I was just dating random women when I was doing my Cali beach bum thing, and I have no kids.

Good for you! Companies are desperate for workers now because everybody is quitting. When I did decide to start working again after moving to Cali, I was totally a mercenary.

I totally relate to Steve. I've been used and abused by Corporate America when living in Houston, chained to my desk 90 hours a week, sacrificing my complete personal life. Then when they needed to make their stock price go up 5 pennies, they laid good workers off, and did it in a bad way. I was loyal; they were not. Office politics were far more important than your work product. Then I decided to pack up all my shit and move to California, where I literally was a beach bum for 5 months with no job. I found out that Black people could get sunburned badly. It all worked out for me. My stint in Houston scarred me and I was never going to do that again. Steve will be fine. He has marketable skills in high demand. He just doesnt want to go through the, layoff after giving your soul to a corporation thing again.