Lucygirl2

I can't even focus on the actual episodes anymore, Camryn's Diana Ross weave is far too distracting to me... way too much hair!

I think those lie detector tests were total fucken bunk... I might've believed Aubrey had cheated or at least pushed the boundaries a bit too far but I don't believe for a moment Lauren cheated on Mike, she seemed pretty pissed off. I also hate it when people say someone wouldn't be pissed if it weren't true... why wouldn't you be equally pissed if someone was saying something you knew was not true was? (I'm not sure that makes any sense after typing it...) I think they are feeding into Travis's insecurities about his relationship with Aubrey for drama purposes. There can be all sorts of reasons someone fails a lie detector test which is why they aren't admissible in a court of law. Jim & Elizabeth are hacks & this "therapy" is some bullshit. As far as I am concerned I don't know why Reggie's came up as deceptive when he didn't cheat... if you are broken up then that isn't cheating. Did Tami say "Okay, Reggie, we are breaking up right now but we could get back together so I expect you to conduct yourself as though we are together"? Because NO, you aren't breaking up with me but still thinking you have some control over my actions. Similar with Aubrey... evidently she isn't allowed to go out & dance with anyone without Travis thinking that is somehow cheating or disrespecting him (LOL) so how do we know that although Aubrey didn't cheat (I don't know or care if she did) but knowing he thinks it is got nervous during the test & so it registered deception. Now I have been married to my husband for almost 22 years & have never felt the need to go through his cell phone & I also don't want him going through mine, there is nothing on there to hide but I don't feel that just because we are married to each other we have given up all rights to privacy. My friend's will text me about problems they are having that are none of Mr. Lucy's business. I, also, don't go through his wallet & expect my purse to be off limits unless I give him permission to get in there. I noticed because Kendra's show premieres next week, we get no "WATCHit" episode.

My father is hardly a murderer or drug dealer but he was an abusive alcoholic who would be fine one minute & then the next would flip the fuck out. He also had no filter. Now, I don't know if he would've ever harmed my son but I wasn't taking that chance. And when my son was 14 he was joking with my dad about the Yankees (my dad's fav team) & my dad said to me that is why he couldn't stand my son because he had nerve to dog "his team". My son thought it was normal harmless ribbing that he does with other normal guys. It broke my heart that my father would say he couldn't stand my son for such a stupid thing that I just kept him away from my son. (My son doesn't know he said this & I will never tell him but I couldn't be sure my dad wouldn't just say something equally as hurtful to his face). someone else reading this might think it wasn't offensive enough for me to keep my son from his grandfather but that was my decision to make & I made it in my child's best interest as I trust Kim & Kroy to make decisions regarding their parents & children for themselves.

I have to admit I can fully understand why Kim cut her mom out of her life... her behavior was ridiculous up to & on the wedding day. And if I was in the public eye I would find it unacceptable if my mother was selling stories about me & my children (putting the girls paternity on blast was a big NO). I don't want to judge why Kroy would cut out his parents because I don't know enough about it but if they were unaccepting of his wife then I say good for him. I have my hubby's back 100% & wouldn't tolerate anyone, especially my family, dogging him in anyway. No one has to like him but they need to be cordial (not really an issue here since I am convinced my family likes Mr. Lucy more than they like me LOL) I expect the same loyalty from Mr. Lucy regarding me and his family.

I didn't get to the show until late last night & quite frankly Kendra is taking all the joy out of this trainwreck for me. I don't understand all of her talk on whether he is strong enough to handle it the next time. The story they are trying to sell us is Hank was sexually accosted by a transsexual while trying to procure weed in order to self medicate his depression. So....exactly when will the next time be, Kendra? Is this something that happens on the reg where they live? I fully believe Hank had sexual contact with a transsexual, willingly & all the rest of this is Kendra spinning it. When she said to Hank during their TH that he can't get angry or women won't like him, that was the final nail in the coffin for me that it is all about perception & how she wants it to play out. It isn't worth it, Hank... get away from the soul sucking vampire that is Kendra.

This episode made my stomach churn. I am fine with making peace with things within myself so I can move on. (more along the lines that I can't change the past so move past it by forgiving myself for being a victim) but that doesn't mean I have to forgive someone who made me the victim in the first place. I have crappy parents who made my childhood awful & as an adult I have an ok relationship with both I am more of "it is what it is" but forgiveness isn't something I have ever even considered since an apology would never come out of either of their mouths. I just made sure I was a better mother to my son. Kendra can just shut the fuck up. I'm so tired of hearing her talk for Hank. And Hank?? When you do talk... Asthma?? REALLY, Hank?? I would also like to know what the hell is Travis supposed to be known for besides that stupid hair do? I want to judge for myself if he is talented or not. I have to admit, ya'll, I teared up right along with Reggie... maybe it is because I have the biggest crush on him :)

There is a marathon on today & it does no favors for Neva... seeing so much of this classless heifer back to back just highlights what a delusional nasty piece of work she is! Neva keeps talking about respect she is deserved, respect is something you earn. Although I truly hope something wonderful happens for Kayla after graduation (travel, college, etc.) I like her & will miss her so I hope she has some kind of role after she is done dancing with the dolls. And I think her mom is a hoot. She won my heart when she snatched her own wig off to get in Selena's face

This is normally my Friday night before bed guilty pleasure for trainwreck TV & this was by far the least enjoyable episode to me... I am far from being a prude but I don't want or need to know what other couples are doing or not doing in their bedrooms. It was just uncomfortable to watch. I do want to say that Reggie just seems to get more attractive to me every episode... maybe it is because he is so laid back & reminds me of my own husband in that aspect. Mr. Lucy doesn't get too worked up about ANYTHING, whereas I am the more loud, yelling (kinda like Tami) one. He balances me out. Travis's insecurities are the least attractive quality to me. I wouldn't want to have to constantly reassure someone, especially after sex... way too tedious for me!

thanks for the clarification gimi like I said it isn't really anything I dealt with & all I know about I learn from TV LOL I don't think Sarah is 31 either, I thought was closer to pushing 40.

Please correct me if I am wrong because I have fortunately never been involved with domestic violence outside of my own parents 40 years ago (laws have changed) & I live in IL not CA but don't filing charges fall under the police responsibility & not the victim... if a husband is beating his wife it is no longer up to her whether she presses charges or not?? If the police are called & have probable cause then charges are filed?

princelina, I completely agree with you... I guess my horror at the "therapists" was if this is the story Hank & Kendra have been feeding them then the story is one of assault & not cheating & shame on them for victim blaming. one thing I do not buy & will never buy is this is the first Kendra is hearing of anything. She absolutely annoys me. I also feel bad for Hank's parents but to a greater degree, Hank & Kendra's children. If Hank & Kendra would've just gotten off the reality TV circuit when the story broke then they would be forgotten soon enough. No one would care by now. The damage they are doing to the children is unimaginable to me as a parent myself. Once you bring children into the world, your own selfish needs have to cease to exist since the children didn't ask to be a part of this train wreck. Hank must really love Kendra to allow himself continued humiliation... I guess I don't love Mr. Lucy enough because I would be out & I would take my son with me (LOL granted my son is 21 now so there is no "taking him" anywhere but if he was still a minor, we'd be gone)

I sat there with my jaw open thinking wow if, IF, Hank's story is true (& quite frankly, it seems just stupid enough to be true) then he was assaulted & these dumbasses called that cheating?? I also couldn't believe Hank didn't have a proper hook-up for weed. Personally I don't think there is anything wrong with weed (I partake) but dang, know who you are buying from... not to say even if you are doing something mildly sketchy, like buying weed you deserve to be assaulted. Kendra needs to STFU with all her selfish yelling of demands from Hank... no wonder he's depressed. On a side note: I read online that Tami is expecting

These women have to be the most ungrateful, entitled pack of bitches I have ever seen... I have a couple of these Aunts myself, had to block their whining asses on Facebook because my "scorekeeper" aunt started letting me know I "liked" my other aunts stuff more than hers. Girl, BYE! With that petty shit... Kandi needs to tell her Aunts, cousin & mama to kiss her wealthy ass!!

I'd have to go back & rewatch (& I really don't want to since Papa Smurf was even uglier than usual at that time) but I remember Kandi saying she had fibroids too when Cynthia was talking about hers & her symptoms. I don't remember her going indepth or anything but she could have & it was edited to just a snippet. I have the new show set to record but I am still on the fence about whether I will watch it or not, since I detest Don Juan & Joyce!

Not a fan of Dr. Phil but I can't wait for his interview with Kim... I am considering it an early birthday gift to me from baby Jesus ;) I can't stop thinking about poor Kingsley... You really suck as a person, Kim Richards!!!!

I don't know of any men in my actual life who like to be ass deep in other people's business, but Peter just seems to love inserting himself in everyone's private business. He works harder for Cynthia's peach than she does LOL

I really enjoyed this episode as well. I really enjoyed the Brandi-less-ness of it :) I will say I think the beginning of the season feels kinda slow when there is no drama, mostly because we know it is coming & this episode feels refreshing because we are all emotionally spent from the drama, especially the 3 part reunions. I really like the light-heartedness of it. With that said, Brandi & Kim can just go now...

I too can't stand the way Riley speaks... I will giggle my motha-fucken ass off when Peter leaves Cynthia completely bankrupt. I wish $1200 a month (the apparent rent of Peter's Brew) was some small amount of money I could just shrug off & not discuss with Mr. Lucy if I decided to open up a shop & not mention it because "it happened so fast"... Oh yeah, Cynthia, your marriage is in much better shape now that you've dislodged your head from Nene ass... ::snort!:: keep telling yourself that!!

The thing I don't like about Nat G is with all her "you're a rat" screaming at Karen & Renee (& since when do we get labels from other people's deeds? My dad is an abusive alcoholic, that doesn't make me one) it reminds me of the boyfriend who is constantly accusing his girlfriend of cheating only to find out he is the one doing so. Drita is gonna have to actually beat someone's ass (not that I condone violence) or STFU about it. I might just be out after this season... I haven't been happy with the show since they changed the theme song, quite frankly.

Didn't Dean make a Minecraft cake the day he came home from rehab season 1? Is Tori, party planner extraordinaire, recycling party themes already?

These people's obsession with modesty makes me shake my head. There is nothing wrong (or remotely immodest) with working out in a pair of track pants & a t-shirt long enough to cover your ass. They draw so much attention to the fact that they are trying to be modest that most of us wouldn't give it a second thought if they didn't point it out every few seconds. The fact that Jim Bob is even thinking about Ben & Jessa kissing & needing to teach them how was a real ewww moment for me. It makes me think JB was up all night after Jill's wedding wondering if "it" happened yet.

I totally agree that is when Todd's view of Kandi changed. He should have walked away after the numerous red flags before regarding Kandi shrugging her shoulder when Joyce became out of control with her mouth... I don't think Todd expects Kandi to not take care of her mom but she needs to come correct first. It looks like Kandi is rewarding Joyce's mistreatment of Todd (& Sharon). When you get married, priorities need to change, that is the family you need to be ride or die for. Kandi could easily set aside a monthly amount of money to "take care of" Joyce & have it dispensed to her, therefore ending the bottomless pit of giving. She kind of has a lot of nerve calling Todd an opportunist when we've seen her do nothing but ask for Kandi to buy her unrealistic (7 BR home? WTF?) shit! Joyce isn't worried about Todd making Kandi happy, she is worried about her gravy train ending. And don't get me started about Don Juan & Carmon... Sorry but that is enough to put a stop to the sex drive. Maybe he thought once they were married Kandi would stick up for him more & that just hasn't happened.

I thought it looked like Derick was pulling a chew out & tossing it. Mr Lucy chews (I know Yuck!) so the action looked familiar to me. Besides who normally takes gum out of their mouth with their fingers & throws it? Don't most guys spit gum?

I find it absolutely appalling that Claudia says that kind of shit about dark skinned men... I don't have the episodes to go back & refer to but didn't she say growing up she was mistreated by white & black people because she was mixed? (Or am I mixing her up with Mynique?) I find it shameful ::shakes head::

Shit I nearly threw my hubby out because he was near our closest CFA (30 minutes away) & forgot to stop & get me my lemonade I asked for... It's been a month & still whenever he says he'll do something I remind him of the CFA Lemonade fuck up. I really can't stand Cynthia this season. She seems to have removed herself from Nene's asshole & had herself inserted into Kenya's asshole. Guess what, Cynthia, you just traded one shitty spot for another. Since all the relationships between the women come off as fake anyways Cynthia should try faking a backbone. I really don't ever need to see Kordell's controlling ass ever again. I have several things I'd like to say about Riley but I won't because she is just 11 & they weren't going to be very nice. And because it can't be said enough... Phaedra's boys are adorable