The thing about Jill and Derrick is their marriage (and lives) has peaked. They had fame, fortune, fans, fun, a TV show, magazine covers, an easy life all around, with no effort. That's a lot before the age of 25. Pretty much everything that happens from here on out will be going downhill. I can't imagine being married for a year and realizing that life will never be that good again. I'd rather have a modest little life that builds to something over decades than what the Dillards got.