lucy711

I went to the club a few times before I got married. Everyone grinds up on everyone. No one every asked me. That's why I stopped going. The last time I went with my girlfriends to something like that I was engaged. Guys danced with me. I told my fiance. He didn't care because it was just dancing and that was it. If you are in a good relationship it isn't a big deal.

Get over it, Fernanda.

Yes. I live in NJ now and while it is certainly more diverse than that area of PA, there were people of all colors in the area. She's not far from Harrisburg which has a large black population.

I've been to Ashley's area of PA and lived out there for a while. There are black people, for goodness sake. They are probably staring because of the cameras.

I think I've been to the market where Ashley is with Jay

I'm over Larissa trying to spend someone else's money,

Poor Olga. I had a c-section too because I'm petite and my baby was large. It was an awful experience!

This is what I don't get. If Kalani was the breadwinner and she quit her job, they have no means of supporting themselves and their baby. I am a SAHM and love it, but it was a major decision to make, and we only did it after carefully considering our finances. It's totally fine to get some help from one's parents, but it would seem as if they would have to rely on her parents for literally everything.

Yes, I don't know why people keep mentioning the slot machine. It kinda makes sense being that she lives in Vegas. It reminds me of when people who have a beach house decorate with shells and sailboats. Embrace what makes your area unique!

Agreed. I can almost hear her saying "You know, Colt, all of this could have been avoided if you just picked a nice American girl who likes beef stew." But then, of course, Colt would have to choose someone who is on his level in the looks department. That can't happen!

I have no love for Debbie, but I feel bad for her because I don't think she expected the shitshow that has come into her house with Larissa's and Colt's relationship. I mean, she probably wants to live a quiet life but now she's in the middle of a ton of drama. I would be very uninterested!

I was thinking of Kalani quitting her job and was wondering if it is normal for a Mormon woman to stop working once she is married and has a kid. The few Mormon women I have known have been stay at home moms. That being said, they had husbands with good jobs, and not a fiance who can't legally work in the USA!

I agree that many of the foreigners speak English well. I do understand why more Americans don't speak more than one language (as opposed to Europeans), and it is really do to the size of the country. An American can never travel overseas but still see a lot of different things and diverse landscapes (America has deserts, beaches, mountains, forests, swamps),etc, while Europeans are much more likely to travel to another country when they go away. I mean, if a French person visits Germany (which is pretty close), they have to know another language. A person from New England could travel through many states all the way out to the west coast and still be fine just using English! I am from NJ, and I imagine if people in New York spoke primarily Portuguese (I'm picking a language at random here), I would probably have a working command of that language, too)!

Yes. Steven is young enough to not know that men weren't traditionally in the delivery room. I'm 33 and had a baby two years ago, and it was a given that my husband would be in there because that's all I've ever known. I'm glad things have changed. My mother passed away and my mother in law lives very far away. I have no sisters or first cousins. If my husband could not have been there, I would have been alone. That would have made me very sad as I waited through my 12 + hours of labor. He stood by my head the entire time, and that was good enough. He didn't need to see the whole show!

Leida and Eric might be my least favorite couple ever on this show. That is saying a lot. Everything that has been said here is true. He is disgusting, and it's terrible that he misled Leida. It's also atrocious that his kids are clearly a secondary priority for him. I find Leida really distasteful as well. For her to even *consider* this life, she must be extremely damaged goods in Indonesia. I think there is a lot of backstory regarding her life. I'd love to know more!

The problem is that Fernanda is 19. She shouldn't be getting married. I find it really sad because I think she is going to regret her decision one day.

I would love to hear Eric's ex-wife spill some tea. I want to know about their marriage, why it broke apart, how the co-parenting thing is going, and her take on the Leida situation. That woman must have some stories to tell!

To be fair, I would not be jealous of Ashley's situation AT ALL. I am her age age with one kid, and the idea of being with someone like Jay would have me running for the hills!

I actually think its really nice when multiple generations live together. I actually think it is great when grandparents help raise their grandkids, for instance, and when kids take care of their parents at home instead of putting them in nursing homes. I wish it were more common in America. That being said, I think Colt and his mother have an unhealthy relationship. It's one thing to live together, but another to not even have separate finances from one's mother. Also, it seems like neither Debbie nor Colt have cultivated relationships independent of each other. Debbie and Colt should have hobbies and friends outside of the house, too.

It's really hard for me to sympathize with any of these people, and at this point I don't know who is in the wrong here. But I really don't have a lot of respect for anyone who publicizes their conflicts like this on social media. When you are over 17, I think that has to stop.

I know, I'm insane! When I got married I was pressured by my mother-in-law to invite some relatives that I had never met (we dated for 6 years), and I did. I regret that a little because I have these people in my wedding album whose names I don't know. I got married ten years ago and I haven't seen them since. I'd hate for them to think I invited them for more gifts. So the airplane hanger wedding would have been nightmare for me!

Colt's relationship with his mother makes me sad. It's not healthy, but I kinda get why they are like that considering he is an only child and his father died. My mother passed when I was in college. I am an only child as well, and it killed me when I moved out shortly after (I went to live with my fiancee- now husband- and he couldn't afford the place on his own). I beat myself up over it and wondered if I did the right thing. In the end it was all fine, but I was very upset that my father "lost" (in a way) his daughter so soon after he lost his wife. If I hadn't been engaged, I might have stayed home longer than would be healthy, leading to the two of us becoming dependent. Happily, he remarried a few years ago! I think Colt's mother needs some therapy, and hopefully Larissa will have a softer touch than we have seen.

I know it's different strokes for different folks, but I'd MUCH rather have a small reception in an intimate area and feed a good meal rather than having it in an airplane hanger! That is just so impersonal. I also understand that I live in the Northeast and I've always been to very expensive and over the top weddings, but damn, I would be so disappointed if I was on the guest list to this party.

Many people are commenting on how Colt put no effort into greeting Larissa or making her feel welcome. I agree. But this is not a normal relationship. This is a transaction. It is sex for a green card. Nothing else. No normal gal would live with Colt and "mother" for more than 24 hours before taking the next flight home. But I have no doubt she will stay and marry him. And she'll leave him in a few years. And he'll go online to find his next wife!

Kalani intrigues me. She acts like she is 16, and her family treats her that way. Does this woman have a job and live on her own? She seems very dependent on her family. I'm not a fan of the decor in Colt's house either. Large snowmen and slot machines don't do it for me. But it was nothing short of rude and tacky for Larissa to say that a few minutes after walking in the door. She must really need a green card and Colt must really need sex. Leida is fast becoming one of my least favorite people to appear on this show. It seems like in Indonesia, Alessandro was raised by a nanny, Leida's sister, and Leida's parents...in other words, everyone but Leida. I vote to keep her in the states married to Mr. Eyebags and send Alessandro back to Jakarta with the family who loves him!