As cynical as it sounds, I wanted to get married and live with my husband before we hit our late 30s. But moving in together in our mid 30s was still a struggle because we had different expectations around housework (luckily we already knew we had the same values around money and saving).
And I see it with my still single friends in their late 30s. IMO It's difficult to compromise when you're older. Because you're comfortable and your way works. You know how you like your house set up, how much you like to save vs spend, and you've got your social life sorted.
If you get married whe