Ugh. Yes. Several months ago, I went to dinner with a guy from OKC, and he made comments about me helping him decorate. Based on what? I’m a woman? He doesn’t have his own likes or style? I learned from my ex husband that some people view being in a relationship predominately means having someone to share chores with. If I am newly dating someone, I do not want most of our time being spent with me helping you organize, move, clean, grocery shop, run errands. And, yes, mentioning all that early on reads for me that it will be one-sided.
Hopefully, this man just was making comments to fill the air? Seem cute? I don’t know.
Sub girl? Submissive? Was that a copy and paste mistake or hoping you’d say, “yes! My lord and master!”