It took me a while to watch this episode and man, Debbie, reminded me of a lady I know that will argue and talk, talk, talk until I finally have to cut her off. Her family probably just says "FINE." to shut her up. I was particularly upset about all those brand new shoes that could be donated. It's bad enough she keeps the old shoes, but to deprive somebody who is needy of new shoes is really selfish.
Debbie was just so resentful of her father. Hey, the guy's dead, give it up for the family you have living now.
Sending Joshua healing vibes and positive thoughts.