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ANYTIME Angela asks Michael a question, I scream “No! It’s a TRAP! Woah manipulative little Avery got her mom saying “I’ll do whatever it takes to get Omar to America”. Yeah. Exactly as planned. Teri, let them do them and be done. This is why kids don’t mature. Tim is Ricky 2.0. Change my mind. Florian photoshops his brow. He has caveman brow, but it’s smooth in his online photos. That’s what I couldn’t put my finger on why he looks so different. That and he’s skinny. Stacy is a shit stirrer extroidonaire. I would never flaunt my engagement in front of a new couple. Especially if I knew it was a sensitive issue. But they could be playing us with the drama. The twins dress horrible. It’s like they’re stuck in 2006 permanently.

Is it too much to ask that Florida host Tom and Darcy? If I were to fly to someone's country (after altering my vacay plans), I would at LEAST expect a warm welcome in their HOME. I mean... hello? I bet we never see Florida's home in Albania, cuz he is yet another fiancé without a pot to piss in. Bet the 3 years he has been "engaged" to Stacy, he has not managed to save a single dime. And if Stacy's engagement ring is real, then I'll operate on anal fissures. Would have loved to see an Albanian home cooked meal etc. Why do these middle aged women want men that literally can't afford McDonald's? I get that it is common in other countries to live at home, but I can not fathom at this stage in my life having to deal with that. Dudes that have wallet chains rarely have anything to steal INSIDE the actual wallet. Omar is using Avery. Or he never would have lied on the social app they met saying he was located in America. That says everything anyone needed to know. The end. I personally think Jennifer Is beautiful, but for whatever reason, I don't think Tim is really all that into her. These two are forcing chemistry because on paper (through texts rather) it seems as if SHOULD be there. But I sense Tim is another Icky Ricky.

Aaaaand another Stacy gripe- she told Darcy she was taking things slow with Florida (mistype and it stays) and she is “Still figuring things out”. Wrong! You don’t get engaged after a first trip meeting a man and THEN try to figure things out. If you’re already engaged to be married, then you should have things figured out! You have no business getting engaged otherwise. The only reason for engagement is to lead to marriage, which should be a lifelong commitment. Or at least you should enter into a marriage with both parties assuming it will be a lifelong commitment. If you’re still figuring things out, then just date! Stacy is full of shit. And I dislike her immensely. After an engagement the only things to figure out is to buy a house or rent, or things leading up to the marriage. After this long and STILL not living on the same continent? Stacy’s engagement is just for show. She’s mean to Darcy, and I hate her for making me defend freaking Darcy. Stacy’s a manipulative gaslighter.

For federal inmates, there is no parole. So they get halfway house time. The best way to think about it is that you’re still in prison, but with a wider fence. A lot of inmates don’t even want halfway house time and will refuse it if they can. Usually those are the ones that go right back to prison. Halfway houses are very very strict. They are to prepare the inmate for the real world. But they have curfews, they have to sign out everywhere they go. One of my relatives even had to sign up for meals and if he didn’t, then he didn’t eat. In some ways it’s worse than prison. Because if you have an addict in a halfway house, they do weekly piss tests. Where as the prison does not. Also, drugs are readily available in prison but you’ll get caught at the HH. If you don’t return at the scheduled time for the halfway house, or check back in by calling them when they want you to, or even forget to sign out, they can send you back to prison. It’s considered escape. You’ve left the bounds of their “fence”. The counselors always prepare the inmate by saying, “you’re STILL in prison. You belong to the BOP, the halfway house is just a bigger prison.” So Tony “escaped” when he didn’t return at his curfew. The Feds will get him for sure.

So I think it’s safe to say since Vince contacted Amber about the adoption scam, that he most likely contacted her to try to set up this little reality TV scam correct? They didn’t write loving words. These two don’t know one thing about each other it’s obvious. I’ve had pen pals before, and you can’t help me get to know one another through letters unless they’re just putting in zero effort. It’s actually harder to put in no effort than just write about your day. There’s absolutely nothing between Vince and Amber. They’re a scam. He wants money. And there’s no way we’re going to see Glorietta’s man. I doubt will ever see these two together. I’ll be surprised

WHAT the hell did we just watch y’all? This show officially jumped the shark with the Puppy adoption storyline! That I Am Sam dude adopted a HUMAN puppy? And the “after sex” interview with Lizzie and Mr Umbrella tattoo? Wtf WAS that? Are they angling for an amateur porn career? Fuck me if the only person I can almost route for on this shit show is the malicious wounder Shane!

Thank you! 40 is around the corner for me and I already own my home. I wouldn't even consider a man that still lived at home. Maybe if an invalid parent lived with them, but not living at home with zero work history, no savings, no education etc. I don't get what these middle aged women see in these men that bring nothing to the table? Not trying to be over the top materialistic, but I can't eat love. Love doesn't pay my utilities. Stacy's catfish Florian? Not that cute. Sorry, he does not look like his online pictures. He is scrawny and he has a bad smile and bad skin for a model. And dude has a chain wallet? Wtf? How OLD is he? I can't imagine being over the age of 25 and walking around with a guy with a wallet chain. Yes I'm judging. It seems to me that NONE of the foreign fiancé's have any sort of income or stable work history. Omar just graduated right? Not working right? What do the foreign fiancé's do besides "model"? And you know Stacy has been engaged so long because she can not afford the Visa. I wouldn't even consider paying for it! Let the guy pay for it! I thought it was rich when Stacy told Darcy to let her "enjoy her moment". Bitch, you done been engaged three years! That ain't no "moment", your engagement is getting near kindergarten age. I guess these people just want someone to boss around? That's why they pick these seemingly poor, uneducated foreigners? Tom is the only cast member I remotely like- colored me surprised. He was a catfish yes, but he is much more appealing to me than Florian. Is Florian on drugs or.....? Dude looks GAUNT, and bags under his eyes. Not attractive. And again, hardly any muscle tone. If dude was sporting the muscles like in his online photos, we'd see him filling out his clothes. He's no Jesse, and Jesse isn't even all that. I dunno, I just can not fathom meeting a man at my age who: lives at home, no education, no career OR job, and who can't even pay for a simple date. You KNOW these Americans are funding their overseas trips themselves. I guess I must be materialistic. And Zied is not attractive. He seems nice enough though, but at his age, he should not be so out of shape. Zero muscle tone. If I flew halfway around the world and my guy met me at the airport saying we need to rent a car, I'd hold out my hand for his credit card. Or I'd be on the next flight back to the states. Have no idea why a woman Rebecca's age doesn't allow herself to heal after divorce. So damaged (as are we all), and yet no desire to heal/learn from her past relationships. Another middle aged Disney princess syndrome. Oh and Stacy is an asshole. Gaslighting Darcy and dancing around the main topic. Kinda felt for Darcy, and I'm no Darcy fan. Zero responsibility in her behavior and instead put it off on Darcy "Well Tom just isn't into her and is finding things to pick at". May well be true, but he is also sick of your rude behavior!

You guys! I think Angela should find a foreign fiancé- ala "90 Days". Apparently all you need is long blonde hair to get a pretty decent looking (albeit jobless) Tunisian love rat. She could score a much cuter dude than Tony from Nigeria, Syria or Tunisia. Tony is scrawny and talked high pitched like his balls ain't dropped. She should really cross reality shows. She would probably make a great girlfriend to some lucky green card scammer! Mycull, if you're reading this- hit her up :)

But why, WHY does Stacy have gold makeup on the tip of her nose? WHY IS THIS A THING?

Their sister/daughter is expecting marriage from a foreigner she HAS NEVER MET before. Ben went online trolling for "hot chocolate" (HIS words), and Akinyi ALLOWED herself to be trolled. So obviously he IS the best she can do. He's not attractive. She isn't attractive either imo. Huge head, gapped teeth. Sorry, not sorry. She doesn't even act as if she LIKES him. Everyone knows this is an arrangement. So yeah, who are they to judge him? I'd say she is looking for a ticket out. He's it. Be grateful I guess. Or if she is so uncomfortable with his race, then say- don't lead him on. He's a socially awkward guy. If she didn't know this, then maybe spend time getting to know him. She should've introduced him to her mom. I've been invited places, where the hostess/host didn't introduce me to a soul, and as an introvert, this is a nightmare. It is beyond rude to expect a guest to introduce themselves. I get deer-in-headlights panic attacks, and have completely missed people around me lots of times due to my sheer anxiety. She is a bad hostess, and Ben obviously needs to be queued for manners when visiting. I think her family was harsh, and I think she is a rude young woman. She obviously doesn't want to carry water home anymore, so she should be a bit nicer. This is not a love match. She's about a 3 where I live in comparison to other young women her age. Be grateful or send him home.

In reference to private investigator Rebecca: I'm approaching 40. If ever I am snooping through my boyfriend's "room" at his parents house (while he is still living AT HOME), just shoot me in the head. Straight up embarrassing as HELL.

I’m confused, I thought Caesar sent Maria cash for a ticket? To prove he trusts her. So how did his card get declined? Did I miss something? Gosh I hate his storyline, so I half watch tbh

I was wondering if that’s what they are! I’m not British, but I’ve heard the word Chav before, and been DYING to ask without insulting the Brits

Is there a new gold/bruise colored blush trend? Blush is supposed to give a youthful glow. Literally that’s it’s purpose. All that gold highlighter does an older woman zero favors. ie Darcy and Tom’s ex. Looks like they got slapped in the cheeks too hard

I don't think Lacey is fashion conscious or has an ounce of decorum. She dresses like Brittany Spears circa 2001. Probably thought the neon panties would draw attention away from her cellulite? Not body shaming, but she was dimpled to hell snd back. No doubt this trashy trollop has been told she’s a goddess by the bottom feeders she undresses for on her WebCam. And she’s bought into it. I wouldn’t doubt she’s in the game or was at some point. Sorry, she looks AND behaves like a straight up street hooker.

All y’all criticizing Lacey’s non matching bra and panties must be a DD or under. Lacey looked enhanced. And in my experience with my friends that are enhanced, they have an even harder time finding regular bras because their implants sit higher up than a normal breast would fall into a bra cup. I’m a 36G. Not huge, but smaller band size for the cup. Unless I want to take out a small loan, it is very expensive to buy quality bras. I go on several websites including Soma. The bras themselves average around $75 to 125 for a decent bra. Sometimes more. And you can pretty much forget about the matching panties cause they’re around $20-$35 for the matching panties. I’m picky about my undies too and they don’t offer many choices. Sorry not sorry, I am not paying that much just to have matching drawers. It cost me enough to support these two hoss’s I have on my chest. What I normally end up doing is since underwire ends up digging into my ribs, most often than not I’ll just buy a sports bra. And there are hardly ever any options for matching panties with sports bras. During sexy times when I first met my now sweetheart, I would just do black on black yes. But it is very hard to fine larger cup sizes at a decent price that have matching panties at a decent price. I’m not paying $150 for a matching set. Maybe in my 20s, but now I’m concerned about price, support and comfort. And Lacey definitely had sex with Shane. Soon as the cameras were gone he crawled into her room, she crawled into his, or they went outside on their balcony and did the deed. That two room thing was just for show to start drama and interest in her storyline. A ho is gonna ho. And no way has that boy ever held down a job in his whole life. And now he will have a family to support if he ends up staying with this wreck of a woman. It’s obvious she wants someone to manipulate and he’s a perfect mark. Her alleged fiancé sounds like a tool, but at least he’s on to her game.

Am I the only one that stopped watching The Other Way ever since Before the 90 Days came out? I watched I think the first three or four episodes of this, but after Before the 90 Days came out, this became boring. Paul and Karine are HORRIBLE and everyone else are just bland. Which surprises me, because usually I love travel shows. I think they made a mistake putting this on the same season timeline as Before the 90 Days. I still come on this forum to follow the cast members journeys and read the snark because you guys are awesome, but the cast has bored me. Maybe if Before the 90 Days wasn’t on currently, I would continue to watch The Other Way. Also confession, I never watch any of the Happily Ever After shows. Or any of the follow up shows to the reality shows I watch. For instance, Love After Lock Up. I think they had a Life after Lock Up? But once I’ve seen the couples initially, I’m pretty much done with them and I get bored of them if their story drags out too far. With the exception of Darcy, but only because she has a new love interest. As much as I like Jesse, I find Tom highly entertaining and he brings a fresh outlook to her storyline. Anyway, I know we’re probably not supposed to post about other shows here, but I just think TLC shot themselves in the foot with running this show during the same time as “Before”. But I feel I don’t need to even watch this show anymore. I can come here and y’all’s comments are better than watching the show itself!

You know something else that really grinds my gears? Have NONE of these middle aged women read ANY self help books to begin to grow, heal or mature? It's just like they jump immediately into one relationship after another! ie Rebecca always whining about how her child groom ex husband was controlling, so now she can't trust Zied. Hey idiot, if you aren't over your last relationship, how about healing FIRST before jumping into YET ANOTHER relationship with another young man? Young men aren't exactly known for their patience and maturity. Old girl was all over Reddit and everyone kissing her dumb ass. Can't stand that, when people talk shit, then change up to kiss ass. On her thread she started, I asked her "Why did that jacket come off so fast?" and "Do you get off on manipulating young men?" But my questions got deleted somehow. I just don't get how we as a society don't learn from our past mistakes and give ourselves time to heal? Just rinse and repeat. Maybe when I was younger, I pulled this crap, but now that I am getting older, it's a no brainer to learn from past relationships and experiences and use that as an opportunity to grow. I'm almost 40, and after my last breakup it was well over a few years before I got involved with anyone. I was put through such gaslighting, my mind was so effed up. Did not want to put anyone new through my mental drama crap until I healed. You do not punish your new partner for someone else's mistakes. Grow up ffs. Looking at YOU too Darcy. It's just unsettling that I see this more and more with the older generations. Just repeating the same behaviors one relationship after the other. I'd be mortified if I acted the same now as I did at 21. But this cluelessness is the same with some of my friends. My good friend who is 40 and on her second marriage, was SHOCKED that her husband (they'd dated 5 years), left his whisker hair in the sink and his boxers on the floor. SHOCKED I tell you! Even though that SOB did that the whole time they dated as well as her ex husband. I remember hearing all about how her ex wouldn't pick up after himself. I reckon she thought that new guy would "magically" change when they signed a piece of paper? It's just frustrating to witness. When she told me "Can you believe he left dishes in the sink instead of loading them in the dishwasher?" I looked her dead in the eye and replied "We are middle aged and both been married before, nothing a man do would surprise me". Yes, it's generalizing, but true in my case. Rebecca- if you aren't healed from your last marriage (actually current marriage, right?), then you have no business trolling for new, foreign dick. New guy probably even exhibits the same behavior patterns as her ex. And she will continue to manipulate poor Zied and punish him for her husband's mistakes. Not a good foundation for a new relationship. She's told old for this crap. I actually think Zied is pretty harmless and a lot of what he is saying is lost in translation. He just seems dim and ripe for the picking for vulture Rebecca.

Y’all don’t hate me, but I would love to see Jesse on Pillow Talk. Would watch. I’m a Jesse apologist. I actually always thought he meant well, albeit in a self serving manner. I think Tom is trying with Darcy also, in his own way. But Darcy will mess it up. I’m not against her fame whoring, but I don't think her flair for the dramatics is completely phony. The drinking, crying, histrionics, I think are real. The marriage stuff is mostly an act imo, cuz the show IS 90 Day FIANCÉ. Not the bachelorette. So she has to reference marriage or people will start to catch on as to why she is EVEN APPEARING on this show. Yet again. But kinda missing Jesse and his Dutch personality. He takes himself so seriously, it’s hilarious to watch.

Avery is an idiot. Omar says “There is no power or water in Syria”. And she says “But not ALL the time right?” His face y’all. He had to back track and curtail his pervious statement to her liking. Calling her immature was polite compared to what he was probably thinking. Reminds me of when Azan said he wasn’t attracted to Nicole, and then she asks “But you are though, right?” I think that lead to the 55% gem of a line. These people got BLINDERS ON and I wanna know how I can avoid reality like this

I don’t think Akyni is all that attractive. Huge alien head, and her hair pulled back ain’t doing her any favors. Maybe Benjamin has a hard time finding “chocolate” in Phoenix, but a flight to Atlanta (or anywhere really) would be cheaper than Nairobi! And much more attractive American women imo. Also, I don’t think most of these women (or men) try all that hard to look like their filtered photos, except for Darcy. She tries, so I give her that. But she’s got the conversation skills of a preteen at a slumber party complete with that vomit inducing breathless Marilyn Monroe speak. I thank my stars at least it ain’t vocal fry. And it was vomit inducing when Darcy complimented Tom on his fashion labels he wears or whatever her exact words were. Shallow, superficial, histrionic Darcy. I remember being a teen and one of my circle of friends was a DuPont (by marriage). I asked why her mom didn’t wear a lot of “labels”. She literally laughed at me. Her mom said she most certainly owned Gucci, Hermès, Ferragamo and lots of Vuitton etc. But those “brand logo labels” on everything were tacky and for the nouveau riche. She was such a bitch about it, I immediately loved her. Before that, I never knew you could buy Vuitton without the LV all over it. She used to give me the best hand me downs. And I have a hard time believing NO ONE Darcy has been with ever treated her decent. I think she’s just playing “damsel in distress” as some sorta twisted fantasy to bring out the knight in shining armor with pudgy Tom.

Everybody on here calling Amber homely and greasy haired, but to mention that bony Iris is bony is too touchy a subject? Nah- I'm thin myself. Not about to tell anyone to "eat a sandwich". Still don't wanna cuddle up to bones, sorry not sorry. I don't find her all that attractive either. Huge overbite, gangly limbs moving awkwardly, immature, selfish personality. Much prefer Deonna looks-wise. Don't blame Keith for his disinterest. Though he is very polite about it, But the reason he isn't "cuddling" or cozying up to Iris is simple- he ain't into her, For whatever reason. Maybe all of the above. I have EXTREMELY, untamable, curly hair, but I don't cry into my Cheetos anytime someone mentions curly hair is from the devil ffs. Amber looks like a greasy haired Travolta, Jamie is a chubby Seinfeld, Beth a cartoon caricature drawing with inflated lips, Jamie Otis has crap extensions, and Iris looks gangly.

Sorry but don’t blame him. I don’t cozy up to bones. Girl like a praying mantis. And he obviously isn’t attracted to her. For whatever reason.

I think the secret is that Tim slept with his ex probably. No shocker there. And if Zied were a little older with more relationship experience, he could've used reverse psychology on Rebecca's sad manipulative tactics. When she took off her jacket KNOWING he would get jealous, and it would cause a lot of stares from men- he should've said "Fuck it, let 'em stare." And been totally blasé about it. She would've found a way to get pissed about that also, rest assured. She WANTED to start something. She knows he is jealous, she KNOWS the rules of Muslim countries. She just wants the attention/drama. When girls do this, it can be dangerous, and they risk putting their men in harm's way "defending their honor". Poor Ziggy. Dunno if I buy the story Rebecca is feeding us about her ex being controlling. She seems to purposely go after younger boys SHE can control. Something tells me she pulled an Avery and was all too willing to embrace covering up at first and immersed herself into the culture. He cheated, and now she is resentful. So she's spinning the control/jealousy angle. And I will say it again, even though his pics are blurred, her ex husband looks disturbingly young next to her. Like she was sleeping with one of her son's friends type young. I totally believed Jesse when he said Darcy had a drinking problem. Major duh there. She is the spitting image of my BPD/alcoholic Mom. I used to come home from school, find her passed out in lingerie, with some strange man in our house, while my Dad was out of town. Complete with the weird crying jags, then immediate anger when she wasn't comforted. Amazing how quickly the tears would dry up! Lush central. I couldn't believe all the people defending her when Jesse suggested her drinking problem. Knowing a few lushes in my lifetime, it was ALL too obvious to me. Bet she has wine breath 24/7, I can practically smell it from my tv screen.

Good relationship advice for Benjamin is, if you can’t pronounce your fiancé‘s name, then perhaps you don’t need to marry her. And I’ll just leave this here for Jennifer: