aphroditewitch

I think Amber will dump Dave after, if she hasn't already. I think she would have done it on the show, if she hadn't known that it would get turned around on her, the way the show does to any woman who knows she was matched with a dud. Without the cameras and the producers around poking at her constantly, Dave's attitude and immaturity are going to get old fast. Dave doesn't want to be married to anyone, it is not even about Amber. He only got married because he was being phased out by his group of bros as the others got married.

The producers are not showcasing it, they are manipulating it. They want a sad desperate woman narrative. I would bet she is not nearly as insecure as the show is making her seem.

Dave's issues aren't due to his age, he is just a jerk. He didn't want to be married for the purpose of having a partner. He wanted to be married because his group of bros is marrying and he was starting to feel left out. Women that he was meeting before the show likely figured out he was a tool pretty quickly and noped out of there.

Except it is because is primarily a complaint about women. And even when others point out as a thing men too, people double down on the false claim. And like I said, it is an unconscious action. What is normal female speech? Because women are attacked for their voices no matter what they do. Primarily because people are cowards and know that if they start actually listing the petty reasons that it is actually the woman and not the voice that is the complainer's issue, the complainer comes across as a jackass.

Define natural. A way of speaking that a person picks up from those around them or tv and movies is not necessarily unnatural unless it is forced. Many people are completely unaware that they are using vocal fry because it is an unconscious action.

They do it all the time. People rarely call it out. Vin Diesel 's way of speaking is actually vocal fry. But people just ignore that. And perhaps people shouldn't be attacking the way another person speaks and focus more on what the person is saying. It is rather annoying to be told your voice is too high, too low, too soft, and so on.

I think people need to stop policing women's voices, especially when men do the same thing.

Because she should only go natural for herself not a guy. While I think the hair color she chose is not a good fit for her, it is up to her to decide that. No one should change their appearance to please someone else.

I find it interesting that apparently the couples will stay in their actual homes this season versus other season where there was the whole house hunt. Unless that is coming next week. I wonder what prompted the change. Where they just unable to find places in the area that would allow them to film? Or did they just find this to be better for the budget of the show, which seems more likely.

Is she actually baby crazy? Or is the show making it seem that she is baby crazy?

A falsely arrested person's story would not change over and over again. That is the real issue.

Dr. Jessica is massively unprofessional. None of what she tells couples is helpful or constructive. And if the rumor about her and Jon is true, she should be facing an ethics probe.

Dave is a jerk with a million excuses. He was not married before because he had to find something wrong with every woman he dated. Even if Amber hadn't previously dated his friend, he would have found something else to complain about. There is something incredibly shady and immature about a 37 year old man who is still friends with guys who trash women they date. Another failing on the part of the so-called experts.

Because the experts don't care anymore, they just want their paycheck. The vast majority of matches over the various seasons had disaster written all over them.

It has no bearing on the potential for an annulment as it is not one of the grounds for annulment in Texas. Impotency is grounds however it has to be a permanent condition and I'm guessing a doctor would need to testify that it had been confirmed to be permanent. However I cannot imagine that any doctor would commit perjury for an annulment case. I think fraud would be the only grounds for annulment that has any chance in this case.

She doesn't need to defend herself. Her previous relationships don't have anything to do with Dave. It does reflect poorly on Dave that he thinks nothing is wrong about hanging out with a guy who trashes any woman he goes out with to his friends.

Sheila from the Chicago season said the honeymoons are not very relaxing because they give you a busy filming schedule. So while you get to take a trip, it is basically a working vacation because you have to film all the honeymoon activities the show makes them do and now they have added in filming conversations with other couples.

No, they would not care. They cast David for both season 3 and Second Chances despite knowing that he had been arrested for domestic violence. He also lied about it when people found out and then the police report directly contradicted him. And there was also the sketchy past of Ryan DeNino in season 2 who actually had a different last name. The show has proven repeatedly that the safety of participants is not something they are concerned about.

I doubt the producers would ever stop anyone from doing something if it means the show gets more press because of it. There is no doubt in mind that they had a long discussion with him and made sure he was going to keep going with Mia and the drama. It is a bit early to write Danielle off. Adventurous is not limited in meaning. And in her case she did continue down to the water after having a breather. With the cost of living increasing faster than salaries it is not realistic for most families to have a one income household. Based on what I've seen, Dave should take what his friends say about women with a canister of salt. So far Amber hasn't done much to deserve the criticism being aimed at her.

Dave seems like jerk. He is critical of Amber but not of the guy or guys she may have dated or slept with from the gym.

Annulments are difficult to get though. And if he reconciles with her on camera it becomes even more difficult because he would be shown as forgiving the fraud, although her continued lies may help his case. He might be able to sue the show but reality shows are known for getting people to practically sign their life away in the contracts. So not only would he need an excellent lawyer, he would need to have the money to fight this thing. He might have it depending on how successful his business is but it would come down to whether it is worth it.

It would not surprise me if producers talked him in at least pretending to forgive her. But based on what I was reading about Texas annulment law, if he continues to live with her after discovering anything that could be fraud, it basically ruins his chance for an annulment. If anyone is an attorney or paralegal in Texas, feel free to correct me.

It should be and it probably was but this show does not match for compatibility, they match in hopes of getting drama.

Not consummating the marriage doesn't appear to be grounds for an annulment in Texas. He might be able to claim fraud though.

I think this season demonstrates how the experts and producers played themselves with so many seasons of obviously disastrous matches. Now they are struggling with their casting/matchmaking process.