I apologize in advance if this is a topic somewhere else, but I just HAD to mention this in case anyone else is as stunned as I am. First of all - when it is YOUR wedding you can do whatever you want and that is more than fair. But if you are on TV, people are free to voice their opinions. That said - UGH!!!! I am picturing these bride and groom pinatas as more than a bit ugly - and then it seems a bit weird to bash the hell out of your new spouse with a bat. Don't you get married because you are crazy in love? Ok ok, I get it - it's just for fun, and like one of the wives said (can't remember which one) - it's no different than shoving cake in each other's faces. (Which we didn't do at our wedding, but I've seen it done everywhere). Do they come up with these things for ratings/shock value? Or am I the weird person here because I just don't get it? Or am I just subconsciously jealous because I don't have a wedding invite and I won't be able to scramble on the grass for bits of candy in my nice clothes? :D