I'm not really saying that at all. She has flaws but I don't see them as being manipulative. I see it as someone who doesn't follow social cues well. Speaking from experience, I am someone that often asks a lot of questions to people I'm getting to know. I read people well enough to dip my toes in and I take cues from what people are willing to share. I start with a conservative boundary and depending on the reception of that person and what I feel is a mutual comfort between the two of us, those boundaries become wider (this is something that LVP lacks and I think is the basis for her misunderstandings with people). I don't ask questions to be nosy, I ask questions because I think it's one of the ways I truly get to know someone. I don't come from a place of bad intent in the least. On the other hand, I am not someone who willingly will talk about myself or my life or personal experiences (unless someone is confiding in me and I can use my own experience to provide advise, reassurance or lessons learned). I'm not that way because I want to know everything about everyone while remaining a mystery to people. I'm like that because I feel that if people really want to know, they will ask questions just as I ask them questions. I realize that not everyone thinks like that but when a question is asked to you, it is not a foreign concept that you are allowed to reciprocate with the same or similar question. If you forego your option to ask me questions, then I won't take offense to that, but I also wouldn't expect someone to throw that back in my face.
LVP has a self-deprecating humour about herself - if she's always referring to herself in a non-serious manner, why would anyone expect her to randomly and willingly offer the most intimate parts of her experiences and feelings without any prodding?
And there is absolutely nothing Lisa has said to any other woman that she hasn't said to their face. The only contrary incident I can think of is Brandi's claim that LVP told her to take the tabloid magazine about Maricio's affair with her on their trip yet the person that was with both of them couldn't support Brandi's story.