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Jesse is a narcissistic famewhore who literally nodded in approval when they showed a shot of his naked ass. And TLC was totally trolling him. Angela is an abusive bully and whether or not Tim or Avery were in the wrong shouldn't have mattered. She wanted a fight, and she'd have found one anywhere. Caesar, in the meantime, is trying to con the rest of us into believing that he's a naive, misled, lovesick fool who was bamboozled by the feisty Ukrainian. I'm not buying it. It took me 3 seconds of Googling to get the dirt on AnastasiaDate. I am totally on Maria's side and I think what she was trying to say, and was hindered by the language barrier, is that he's been lying about the amount of money he's sent and some of the other details. She's a high class escort and that seems obvious. I don't judge her for that. I DO judge Caesar for trying to play the part of some victim and attempting to throw her under the bus along the way. His social media crap has shown his real personality and it ain't what we've seen on TV... Speaking of "real" personality... Sharp and Tom have also been trying to pull the wool over our eyes in terms of Tom. All season we've seen the tomfoolery of Tom, the English gent. Bespeckled Tom who dresses like a grandpa in the 1940s, who trots his English bulldog around the park, who enjoys cricket and gives her a separate bedroom to be "respectful". Tom, the bumbling fool who's going to get steamrolled by the sexy, over-the-top Darcey. And yet...even if you eliminate all the fake stuff, his social media ALSO showed a completely different person-tattoos up both arms, slicked back hair, gym rat, working in Argentina...This "English gent" persona was created for the series, and while I don't believe Tom's the sexy world traveler that he likes to pretend he is online, I think the reality is something in the middle. I am more and more convinced that Tom simply wanted to be on TV (he certainly changed his Insta username pretty quickly to reflect his newfound celebrity) and he conned Darcey into pretending they were in a relationship because he knew the series wanted to film another season with her. As I said in the other thread, either Darcey is actually this delusional and crazy in real life or this is all mostly made up for the show. Either one sucks because her daughters have to deal with the aftermath. I hope Omar is safe. At this point, if Ben doesn't change his number and go dark online then he deserves whatever Bikini's family does to him. She is nearing 30 in a country where women marry young. For some reason, she's not considered a catch. I'd be asking a lot of questions. I actually like Rebecca. I consider her one of the best of the worst. I also kind of like Cookie Monster Zied. On any other season they'd be one of my least favorites and I'd be bitching about her lies and his hand on her neck, but in a season of crazies, the bar's set kind of low to begin with. Can we create a petition to keep Angela in Africa and bring Michael over? He's done his time, he deserves the green card. (I say this as someone whose husband actually has one.)

This is either 100% legit and Darcey really IS that delusional and crazy, in which case TLC and Sharp are taking advantage of a mentally ill woman, OR this is all faked for a storyline that benefits all 3 parties. Even a combination of the two is bad because she has kids that this is going to reflect upon. I am not amused.

I am totally #TeamMaria on this one. I think he is trying to play victim/lovesick fool as a way of getting sympathy and perhaps more television time. In reality, I do NOT believe he sent that much money to Maria, I don't think she stood him up all those times(maybe once), and I do think that he grossly exaggerated other things. He's not the wide-eyed, naive fool who's getting bamboozled. He wanted a hot chick on his arm. Whenever he'd talk about Maria, he was always putting words in her mouth: she'll walk into this beautiful room and say, "All of this for me?", she'll love these chocolate panties and say, "Oh Caesar, thank you!", etc. The dummy is literally sitting back, putting words in her mouth. He doesn't want a partner-he wants a wind-up sex doll who will do and say what he wants. Don't get me wrong, I think Maria is probably stringing a horde of guys around herself, but I don't think she's being as dishonest about it as Caesar makes it look...It was certainly clear to ME. I do think the language barrier was hindering her in the Tell All. I think what she was trying to say is that the public believes Caesar because he is playing victim and they see him on the show, but that her side of the story is much different. MAYBE one like this, minus the smiley...

These are things I do in our tiny town that has fewer than 1,000 people-NOT things I would expect out of a NYC detective who works special victims. I had a WTF moment, too.

As a proud redneck/hillbilly (though we prefer "white trash with money") I'd like to speak for all my people and say that we don't claim Grangela either. That kind of uncouth, loudmouthed bully belongs to a whole separate breed of people. She's not one of ours.

I totally believe that Caesar has been lying to us about how much money he sent, the number of times she backed out of meeting him, etc. She is a scammer, but so is he.

One of the reasons I moved to the UK is because I was being stalked. I can't fault Deaven for that. It wasn't just a physical matter of moving several states away, there were psychological things as well. The stalking (done by a woman I had never met) damn near ruined my life and turned me into an agoraphobe. I didn't feel "safe" until I was literally in another country.

Yeah, I gotta go with Aladin on this one. I think he speaks the truth.

Jesse may act all high and mighty, like he is above all this and not "fake" like Tom, yet his orange-colored happy ass is extending his time in the 90 day limelight just as much as the others.

We only have Corey's word that he gave her that much money and that, if he did, it was spent on those things. At this point Corey appears to be just as much of a famewhore as everyone else. I wouldn't be surpised if he wasn't pushing the "poor me victim" mentality and supplying us with information that backs that up just to cement his place in S2. In fact, while I first thought they might already be married, I am now thinking that they are only friends and she is going along with the facade because he wanted to be on TV. I keep going back to their argument and her interjecting "for real?" I am no fan of Evelin, but if she really is the big love of his life then he sure doesn't mind tossing her under the bus every chance he gets...

I was thinking something similar. After following him on SM and seeing some of his live videos and stuff, I think Jenifffer dodged a bullet with this one. His limpness is only the beginning of his issues.

Even if Aladin is somewhat of an ass, nothing he said or did is anywhere near as bad as Laura first accusing him of being gay (which could get him in trouble) and then of abusing her.

At this point if any male out there wanted a quick 15 minutes of fame, all he'd have to do is take some great photoshopped Instagram pix, send Darcey just romantic gibberish, and spend a little time putting forth minimum effort towards her and he's almost guaranteed a shot at a new 90 Day season.

Hell, I agreed with Liam's sentiments yet I STILL wanted to slap that smirk off his face.

That is my #1 pet peeve about this franchise. As you said, the 90 days are NOT to see if you are compatible-it's literally to give the couple time to plan the marriage and settle in. It assumes that, by then, the couple have already been together for quite a while and KNOW that they are compatible. The way this show portrays the K-1 visa is NOT how the majority of people use it, or how it was meant to be used. By the time we applied for our K-1 visa, we'd been dating and living together in England for a few years and had a child on the way. I've gotten to know hundreds of K-1 couples on VisaJourney (where I am now a mod) over the years. The people on this show who use that 90 days as a "getting to know you" period are, by far, the minority. The majority are just regular couples who met overseas and have already forged some kind of life together. Lauren/Alexei, Liz/Andei, and Kirlyam/Alan (even Roos and Pao) are MUCH closer to how the system actually works.

I am really confused because I didn't think we were allowed to discuss social media rumors or things that didn't happen on the show in the episode threads. When I talked about seeing Krine in the hospital, I tried really hard to share information like that only in the couples' thread. But now I am seeing lots of social media rumors here in the Tell Nothing thread. So was I wrong?

Those people had already applied for a visa and that visa had been approved, therefore setting the 90 day countdown clock. Married, engaged, whatever...all the foreigners still have to apply for visas. Unless they live in a visa waiver country (like most of Europe) they are not allowed to travel to the US until their visa has been approved. Ben went to Africa to get engaged. Now that he is engaged, he can return to the US and apply fot a visa for Bikini. From the time he applies until the time the visa has been approved, he is looking at 6-12 months. She will not be allowed to come here until then. The couples you are referencing had already gone through that process-we just didn't see it. This show is simply showing the process that occurs before the visa app has been filed, hence the "before the 90 days". If anyone could just go to another country, marry, and then bring that person back then there would be no need for visas and Avery could have brought Omar back with her.

Dude is fucking weird. After following him on SM I have come to the conclusion that he is an arrogant, slightly racist, narcissitic fame whore who is just in this for the publicity. He hs referred to himself as the "star" of the show and in live streaming stuff he has come across cocky and downright rude, often belittling women who call in or chat. I don't think he ever had any intentions of romancing Jenifferrrrr. I think it was for his 15 minutes of fame, but perhaps he had just enough principles to resist consummating their "relationship" since he knew it was fake. Him telling her that they would have hd sex if she'd stayed awake isn't any different than Tom telling Darcey he would have proposed if they had gone to the Canary Islands. At the very least it's rude and gaslighting. Maybe Jennifffer was in on the scam. Perhaps he paid her to play along. I don't think so, though. I don't think his principles stretch that far. Sharp may not pay well, but there are plenty of side perks like traveling, parties, Cameo accounts, big SM reaches, ets. Basically Avery, Laura, and Ben just paid for the most expensive booty calls ever. Laughing at the fact that Tom gave his house key to someone who has never been to his house and who lives in a foreign country. I wish Angela wasn't such an abusive bully. Seeing her appreciating the festivities and getting along with Myyyycul's mom would have veen nice if we hadn't seen the rest of her personality. Rebecca should have been honest upfront: hey, my ex and I signed the divorce papers but they're still processing and won't be final for another week or two... That would have been much better than waiting to the end to say, "BTW, I am still married." I don't belong a single word of Caesar's story. For one thing, I refuse to believe that dude had an extra grand or two lying around the house. Either he is recreating and embellishing stuff that happened a while ago or he's scamming and trolling production. You do 't have to be particulary bright to scam like this-you just have ro be good at lying. I have known some pretty stupid liars in my life-they couldn't find their way out of a bathtub but they could lie like a rug. Either way, his smug little smirk and innocent act literally make me rage.

Darcey is re-writing history. She may have been corresponding with Tom for 4 years, but I'd wager that he was one of many. She probably didn't even think twice about him until Jesse dumped her and she realized that she wouldn't be on the new season. IMO she threw out some feelers to her guy penpals and ultimately chose Tom for her new soulmate because he, thirsty famewhore that he is, looked good in photos and bit back the hardest.

Caesar is actually starting to look a little derranged. The aw shucks act is starting to appear to me like a facade. I think dude is capable of weird, freaky things.

Caesar is absolutely fucking with us at this point. Whatever is going on with Bikini, Ben is not in on it. He legit seems happy to marry her. Tom is fucking with Darcey to get his 15 minutes of fame. She doesn't realize this. Jenifffer will never see Tim again. Same goes for Avery and Omar.

Does this mean we all finally get a shot at having a real insider on the show?! Hot damn! ☺ I'm just joking. Seriously, though, that is very interesting.

So "Maria" broke up with Caesar long enough to excuse her not going to Mexico and then got back together with him in time for a new season? And in the past 2 weeks Caesar can't remember whether he sent her $2000 or more? A man who eats ramen because he can't afford more? This is all so much bullshit. Either Caesar is bullshitting TLC or they are doing it to us, but either way I am pissed. None of this is real. Next time a politician asks the Ukrainian govt to dig up some dirt, let's make it for something useful...like finding Maria.

I just found it! Whoo hoo.

And it doesn't make sense for them to bring him over on the 90 Day OG show since they're already married and therefore he is no fiance. Furthermore, why go through that much trouble over a boring storyline when there are plenty of other trainwrecks out there to showcase? Sometimes the rumors are true, sometimes they're not. I'll believe it when I see it.