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I don't think that's possible with Kim. She's too needy. She demands too much of her family/friends. She takes even the slightest thing as an insult, a sign of betrayal, "you hurt my feelings". There is no middle with Kim/Kyle. I get the idea that's what Kyle has been trying to do, distance herself, and Kim finds a sympathetic ear (Brandi), and bad mouths Kyle. No win. So, just completely remove yourself, until Kim either changes, or realizes you aren't playing that game.

Or how would she feel if one of the women slapped Kim, her BFF, and then said "it was a joke". Andy was very subtle, but there was a definite "the show's over, I'm done, you can go now". None of the usual joking around, and he had a certain look on his face. Everyone seems exhausted with her.

A rhetorical question, but what the hell has BG done to her mouth??? She speaks differently, and those lips have been so plumped that she no longer knows how to speak!!! Or have her cheeks just overtaken her face? On WWHL she seemed to be trying way to hard to be good, & not be seen drinking, and her usual bawdy comments were held to a minimum. I did watch the aftershow, and at the very end Andy seemed to be so over her. There was a definite chill in the air.

I am a completely recovered co-dependent. 10 years ago I completely cut ties with my brother. Sounds harsh, but his issues were draining, exhausting and finally, literally one day I said no more! I'm out! We used to do the same dance Kim & Kyle do - the estrangement, the reunion thinking things will be better, the estrangement, and so it goes. Once I made that decision I felt like a weight had been lifted. We haven't spoken, or communicated in any way since. What I came to realize is I have friends who give so much more to my life. Friends who I would go to the ends of the earth for, and they would do the same for me. I just didn't need to help him in his disfunction, his misery and have it impact my life for one more minute. People like Kim will find others to help them, they always do. Leave her to Kathy. And, if people say "you're a bad sister", let them. In her heart she has to know she's done all she can, and Kim will always be the victim - it's her title, it's her reason for being, it's who she is, so let her be the victim.

Apparently the finale filming took place on Oct.. 22 2014 and the tweets are from Oct 17 & 19, so dad was well enough for her to fly back for the finale. Here's an old article about the finale filming, and from the pics it shows Brandi with Johnathon Ruiz at the party. http://realhousewivesworld.com/2014/10/23/photos-rhobh-film-season-finale/

Brandi and LisaV get into it tomorrow night. http://www.bravotv.com/the-real-housewives-of-beverly-hills/season-5/episode-519/videos?clip=2853399 I'm sorry Brandi's father was sick, honestly for a child, especially one who is so estranged from her father, it's tough. BUT, if her father was truly dying, what was she doing at that party? I'm sure Bravo has an emergency clause to not have to attend if there is a family emergency. She also appears either high on Xanax, drunk or both. Again, why is she was in such a state, was she at a damn party????

I doubt that Mauricio is happy about Brandi's tweet that mentioned his business, and the backlash it got. Shows, once again, how stupid Brandi can be. Essentially, Mauricio is her BF's boss. So probably not a good move to trash talk his wife, not to mention allude that there was something fishy about the PS house deal. When his business is real estate, it's just like when she took that jab at Ken by saying he had filed for bankruptcy. It goes to their credibility and reputation. Not a good move on her part, and I'd bet there were a few words exchanged between Mauricio & JR.

Monty posted this today on his instagram. Sad. Seems like he's ready to call it quits. montybrinson 7 hours ago Another day has come and gone away, but i want to go home. Maybe surrounded by a million people i still feel all alone just want to go home. Another airplane another sunny place im lucky i know. Let me go home. I feel like im living someone else' life. Its like i just stepped outside when everything was going right. Ive had my run, it will all be alright. Much love to everyone. #Saying #quote #life #friends #family #love #heart #blessed #thankful

I suspect that when they decided to do the show, Kyle & Kim came to an agreement that certain things will remain secret. Now it seems the gloves are off - and good! I have, since the beginning, felt that Kyle has held back to keep the usual alcoholic secrets. Now that Kim has supposedly been sober for three years, and come out as her true self (an emotionally stunted, vengeful, bitter, unhappy, jealous,entitled, nasty woman) I think Kyle deserves to be let off the hook of her original agreement to keep family things within the family, and not be be on tape Sadly Kim offers nothing to anybody's life - not Kyle, nor Brandi. She is a taker. Kyle & Kim have been estranged for some time, and it would seem better for both of them to just do "family" things, and leave it at that. They will never be friends - so why keep up the pretense that they are any where near friends. If this happens, and for whatever reason Kim comes back next season, who will be her friend? What will be her story line? Her only contribution to the show was her questionable sobriety, and her new friendship with Brandi. And Brandi looks done. So,what's left for Kim? She's burned bridges, and nobody wants to film with her, even her sister.

Just read this. OMG I hope it's true. That will leave Brandi with Kim as her only ally. "Most of part one of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills season 5 reunion special will focus on Yolanda Foster. She will detail her ordeal with Lyme disease before Brandi Glanville jumps in, attacking Foster’s family. The argument between Yolanda and Brandi reaches a boiling point after Glanville makes accusations Foster’s daughter is an alcoholic. Reaching her breaking point, Yolanda Foster makes an early exit from the reunion."

I wonder how Yo felt with Brandi's mean imitation of Mo's relationship to Lisa. After all, that's the father to her children. Combined with Brandi's jab about Bella, I'm really surprised Yo has put up with all of her below the belt comebacks.

Big Kathy's obituary says she died in Arizona. And, somewhere I read that Kim, and her kids, moved to Arizona to take care of her mother. So, the PS house was a vacation home. I wonder if Kim got the Arizona house? That would explain why the PS house was left to all three girls.

I think it took a turn when her son turned 18 and she lost and additional 20K per month in addition to the 23K support for alimony she receives for life, or until she marries (which is NEVER going to happen). Who is stupid enough to sign a divorce agreement like that? Well, my brother was so anxious to get a divorce from his 1st wife, he made the same alimony agreement (not for that amount, but enough). That was over 30 years ago, and still every month he writes her a check.

You've go to add Bitch (it's a standard for Brandi)

I think whenever you have to be on any version of a "whatever happened to?" type of program, you know your career is shot KIM! When it showed her doing one of those "fan appreciation" shows, it was just sad. I think it just shows that she hasn't grown since her "glory" days. A B list, at best, child star. You don't see her, like some of the other women, doing charity causes, or anything unless it involves promo for RHOBH, or something her sister Kathy has going on. She's just a sad creature and unless she makes some serious changes, she will forever remain in the past.

That's the Lodi - not a bad place, but not Sonoma. She's obviously hooked up with a guy (Rippey) who is a wine hustler, and sells "large quantity, affordable" wines. Not the prestidge winery Brandi is trying to make people believe. In other words - it's Encino wine, NOT Beverly Hills wine.

Just checked on Brandi's wine. The grapes come from Lodi - NOT in Sonoma County, but because the crushing plant is in Sonoma it can legally be called a Sonoma Wine. Ironically the facility is located on County Dump Road. Not unlike when Vickie Guvalson kept saying her vodka was produced in Sonoma. No, it was Sonoma County, but the actual facility is in Petaluma - not a bad town, in fact rather nice, but a far cry from the prestige of Sonoma.

I'm really surprised that Kim's landlord hasn't kicked her out over her dog's attacks. If the landlord knowingly allows her to keep a "vicious" dog, he also becomes liable if anything happens. Court ruled a property owner cannot "sit idly by in the face of the known danger to others". So unless her landlord is hiding under a rock (or does a family member own her home???), everybody now knows that Kim's dog has at least twice bitten people, causing harm. Of course if she does get evicted, it will be Kyles fault.

My bet is Brandi says she out . Or in her words "Deuces Mother F&*cker"

You guys have me laughing so hard over Brandi's dress and spanx. She does look like she forgot to dress. I would love love love it if Kyle decided enough was enough and took the gloves off with Kim - and let out all the secrets she's been keeping.

Thx Breezy 424 for the clips. Sounds like Kim wanted to take money out of the house, but hadn't put any in towards mortgage and taxes. They bought her (and Kathy) out - giving Kim way more than $20K. Some time later and it seems like quite a bit of time - Kim wants to buy back in. She is right about one thing - they didn't want her as a partner. Kyle was right, Kim couldn't afford to help financially keep up her share - Kim wanted to be a partner but have Kyle pay for everything. No way did the sale of her mother's house pay for the new one. Oh, the proceeds went to the house, but the new one is worth far more than the old one. Whatever the original 20K was for, she most likely asked for it straight out - and when she was turned down, the idea of a loan against her share came up. I wouldn't blame any of the family for not wanting to pour more money down that rat hole. A bottomless pit.

Wow did anybody else see the preview clips of the reunion? Looks like it's going to be good. http://www.eonline.com/news/637409/yes-these-quotes-from-the-real-housewives-of-beverly-hills-reunion-are-real-oh-the-drama

Is the "Kathy has my back", "Kathy is a real sister" new? Seems to me when Kyle & Mauricio bought out BOTH sisters, if Kathy had any feeling that they were trying to steal Kim's portion, Kathy would have spoken up then. I'm just not getting it. Kyle redid the old house, and when it was time to put it up for sale, obviously there was a discussion about who would get the listing. It wasn't Kim's at the time to have any say in the sale. So, Kyle was right - it was well before it went into escrow. Kim stiffened up, got that angry look when Kyle explained that Kim was in no position to carry a portion of the mortgage. Oops, she sure didn't want her irresponsible financial state brought into that discussion. Brandi has heard one side of this story, and it's the side that's twisted and filled with delusion. Without questioning Kim, she just believed what she heard. Why not? She's also always felt cheated out of what she believed should have been hers. Two peas in a pod. They both seem to resent people who are stable - financially & emotionally. Somebody, and sorry for not remembering who, mentioned the decor. Most of the houses in PS area are second homes, and they are usually sold furnished. When not in use by the owner, they are rented as vacation homes.

I have a friend who married a guy who was 20 years older. When he died, unexpectedly, she slept with almost every man in sight. The guy, who was married, who had helped her husband in his last day. . . yep, she did the Brandi Glanville make-out session with him the night of the memorial. On and on it went. I never said a word, didn't pass judgement. Then, my last straw - she was staying with friends who have helped her over and above what should be expected. She stayed at their home. While staying there, she came on to their 22 year old son - who she had known for since he was in jr high - after everyone had gone to bed, she went in to his room. A LINE HAD BEEN CROSSED!!! I never let her stay in my home again. I have a son in his 20's and she certainly would not have considered him off limits. Usually, the next day, she blamed it on too much wine (the BG anything over three glass excuse). I don't think Lisa cared one way or the other if Brandi went out and picked up somebody - but I think it gave Brandi some perverse pleasure in knowing the guy in Amsterdam knows Max. Another slutty shot value drunk move. Brandi has no boundaries, with her personal life, her family life (outing her dad's pot growing in her book), any secrets from her friends. She is spiraling down fast. Saying there is a double standard is a joke. She just doesn't fit in - she can't fit in, financially or any other way.

You can't go back after 5 years, having blown through you proceeds from being bought out, then cry foul! And why is it, no matter what conversation, or with who(m), the moment the focus comes back to Kim, to straighten out some misunderstanding, Kim's comeback is always "why don't you worry about your own family". Well, last night when she and Kyle were discussing (or arguing) about the house, that's exactly what they were talking about - FAMILY! Kim doesn't need to clear things up with Kyle - Kim needs to be in intensive therapy, where a qualified therapist will tell her she cannot rewrite her history, and has to own whatever successes and FAILURES she's had. Stop the blaming. Man, if I were Kyle, after last night, I'd be out, done, over!