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I find it amusing that newKary wasn’t happy Kam brought Cary and Leeanne to a girls night out. Anytime I’ve invited girls out or went to a girls night, it’s common for women to invite other mutual friends. It’s not a formal occasion. Inviting yourself to a formal event is different. I think newKary loves D’Andrea and her idea for a storyline was to not get along with Leeanne from the get go. Best way to aggravate Leeanne would be to try to ice her out. It’s telling that Kary lost her cool the minute they walked out onto the patio for girls night. Why would you not want everyone included Kary? Stephanie is a sweet girl. I’d like her more if she wasn’t always attached to Brandi’s hip.

Holy cow, wonder if they have audio? yup, she’s a piece of work.

Meh...how this show makes me feel now. For once, Kelly was the one who didn’t bug me. I agree with the earlier posters who said, she DOES make it real. A real friend would eventually tell you, once the euphoria wears off, that a horrid hair color/style doesn’t look good on you. If Gina’s goal is to move on, her best foot forward is not an over bleached hairstyle with sharp talons/press on nails. Yikes. Gina has been needing a make over from day one. The lady in red running the show was a psycho, again, Kelly was right. She lost her sh@t and she was being unprofessional towards everyone. She made it all about her, that’s a sign of a lack of control. Hope she’s realizes this when no one wants to hire her for a job. BW and her family, what a case study in crazy. Her mother needs to be locked up. BW is repeating a pattern, and is behaving just like her mother, it just presents itself in a different way. BW thinks a threesome or dressing half naked will ensure her husband stays in the picture. Did anyone notice how her hubby seemed to know more about Rowan’s designs than anyone else? “Where is Yale?” Is BW really that dumb? Good catch on the price tag on BW’s shoe. Her freak out in the car on the way home?! Ey! I will say I think they were just trying to help Rowan feel good about herself, so I’ll give them credit for being supportive parents. As far as Shannon being proud of Adeline, she wasn’t proud of her just because she was modeling, she was proud that Adeline was finally coming out of her shell and following through with executing on something that would make her feel happy. Shannon was just cringey with the “helping” her part. Sounds like Adeline may be less confident than her twin sister and this was her way to have fun. She will go to college and be fine. Sophie was a sweet, big sister and positive influence on her sibling. Good on her... No Icki episode, sweet!

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Stands for “What would Jesus do?” A gentle reminder to behave as God would want us to behave...along those lines... I say this to myself whenever I want to rip someone’s head off and it works!

I agree!! It was a sh*t show and you can bet Andy Cohen was smiling like a Cheshire Cat watching this episode. That is exactly why I prefer, dare I say it, a snob like RHOD Kameron Westcott. Yes, she can be judgy, byotchy, but I prefer snobbery to trashy behavior...this whole episode was nothing but trash. This is why I like the boring ladies, that just like to shop and make pink dog food. Kelly was being normal, Vicki wasn’t having it and Meghan did not get involved in the fray, and I can’t stand Vicki but she knew they were too obnoxious in public. Tamra and BW were so obnoxious and I would have been horrified to be with them or near them. Where is Heather Dubrow when you need her?!! I needed her there to declare her objection, to the low down dirty display. “Oh, my!!!” I miss annoyed Heather, confronting the girl who broke the bow on her cake.

Actually, I don’t blame her. Don’t get me wrong, two wrongs don’t make a right, but Emily was nothing but a shrew to Shannon last year. Emily was on repeat with her, “where’s fun Shannon?!” last year. She was not so nice to Shannon last year when Shannon was down. So far, this season, Emily has had a meltdown during Shannon’s turn to host in Los Angeles, Shannons trip to Miravel and now Shannons birthday party. So far, Emily has been over emotional and causing a scene when Shannon was either organizing the activity or was supposed to be the center of attention. Props to Kelly, surprisingly, for being one of the better behaved on this excursion. Just wanted to add, Gina was awful to Emily, so I blame Gina for this melt down.

Welp, maybe Kam will loosen up like the other more demure women have over the years. Look at Shannon, she’s the church lady season after season and now she’s sinking to Tamrat level with the televised O shot. I was hoping Kam might be the one housewife that can walk away with her dignity intact after the show is over. But...I have my doubts!😉 Maybe Joyce and Katherine from RHBH made it happen, unless I’m forgetting something they did on the show.

There’s nothing wrong with her stance of what she feels is freaky, that’s the whole point. Everyone has a right to like/dislike public exposure. Others should be able to accept her discomfort, or comfort if she wore something racy. Who cares what she wore? Everyone has a comfort level, I think she’s entitled to feel that way. She was invited, she wore a robe, big deal. If she wore lingerie, fine, if not, that’s fine too. I think Leeanne would have been disappointed if she didn’t show up, so she came and Leeanne was happy she could attend the party. Clearly, some of the ladies had fun with it. That’s cool too.

I would come dressed the same way as Kameron. My attitude is, what’s private is private, and that’s for me and my husband...I don’t believe being adverse to wearing lingerie outside of the home makes you a prude or a boring person. Kam has a fantastic body, she doesn’t feel comfortable in that setting. I have great breasts, but they are never put out on display! The only exposure I typically co-sign is wearing a tasteful bathing suit at the beach/pool. Don’t mistake modesty for how one behaves with their spouse/partner. In my book, some things are just best kept private. I would buy lingerie for a friend, but I don’t think it’s strange to not want to wear it, even at a private party. I have been happily married 30 years, and still feel sparks like I did when we were dating, 30 years and 3 children later. Modesty has nothing to do with ones sexual behavior at home. The ladies looked great, especially Cary Dueber. It’s just not everyone’s thing.

I find that hard to believe, I agree with your skepticism. Rich is/was a cop (trespassing/public indecency) and I can’t imagine him going that far. He’s too straight for that...Rich IS marrying Leeanne, and he knows what that means, but still think this is not real. Yuck! I think it was a tall tale or a carny story! Agree with all of your post! Miss the old Cary. I want a trade. Although, as to the party, to be fair...the party should be all about Leeanne. It’s one of her bridal/wedding parties! 😉

Thank you! He does look like a younger, fitter Frank Curtin. I knew he looked like someone else on one of these shows. He may even look creepier than good ole Frank! BW needs to cool it, I’m so not interested with Carlton part 2. On WWHL she sad her kids were used to “that kind of talk” between her and her husband. She’s passing down that no boundaries thing she had with her mom.

It’s almost as if, she did it for a storyline?!! Shocked. Not shocked.🙄 Honestly, that truly disappoints...I’m hoping at least Tamra had good intentions going into it. She must believe she would be too boring “transformed” to stay on Bravos good side and keep her orange. Apparently that motivates her more than repairing her relationship with Sidney.

Thanks for the correction on the flour, didn’t remember it was flour not powder. I guess I was drowning out the antics and not paying that much attention! Did they check to see if it was gluten free??!😂 I don't give anyone a pass to any lady on these shows. I like some better than others, but that doesn’t mean I am not aware of their flaws. They all are far from perfect, likely why they participated on these shows?!!😙 Overall, evaluating these ladies, it’s my opinion that some are just more annoying than others! Vicki G has to be one of the most annoying, for example. I just put Brandy in the category in the top group of the most irritating ladies over all the RH franchises. I just think I would tolerate Leeanne more only because I wouldn’t needle her and I would not tolerate Brandy for several reasons. We all react differently to their actions, and I’m just expressing that Brandy bugs me the most on this show. I understand you have a different take on Brandy.

I don’t think Kam knew it was a trigger for Stephanie, but she likely knows it’s a trigger Brandy. Isn’t Brandy the one who ridicules Leeanne, saying she is trying to justify her behavior by always claiming to be triggered?? Isn’t this the same behavior? I agreed with Kam’s use of the word, because, once again, Brandy was acting trashy in Kam’s mind. IMO I think she acts trashy and if she played those vulgar pranks on me, I would probably call her trashy too. It’s juvenile humor that most people outgrow by/before they are 30. Brandy’s antics are absolutely ridiculous...the baby powder is juvenile but not disgusting. Although, I don’t think they accounted for the fact the baby powder fumes might not be healthy to breathe in, since some powders can cause cancer. I don’t mind practical jokes, but again, IMO, Brandy always goes too far. She has an immature take on adulthood. You can have fun without wearing a hat with “poop” and chasing other ladies with a dildo. She brings this franchise down. Leeanne needs some major therapy, what’s she had so far has clearly not worked. She needs intensive therapy. To me, the difference is that Leeanne is somewhat crazy, but I think she fears being excluded from the group. Brandy seems to have tried to freeze her out several times since the beginning of this franchise. It’s written all over Brandy’s face. She did it with D’Andrea and now she’s trying with Kam. I have no use for Brandy.

This is exactly my point of view on the subject. They are conflating the expression trailer trash and white trash with someone claiming they are ACTING trashy. I think Kameron is correct in her assessment that Brandy acts trashy. She’s not saying she’s trailer trash. I bet Travis didn’t like Stephanie behaving that way season 1, and you’ll note that Stephanie has dumped that side of her being funny or cute. Brandy still embraces those activities. I think Kam does not get all upset about tacky behavior from Leeanne because, as an earlier poster stated, that behavior is not done to insult Kam. I think Brandy likes to rile up Kameron with juvenile and unseemly behavior to get her snobbish goat.

Sign on to your post 100%. Leeanne is similar to Kelly on the OC. You want them to get beyond their emotions but they can’t seem to move past their anger. Although Kelly’s anger presents in physical altercations and LeeAnne goes below the belt in a verbal manner. I agree that Leeanne is led by her fear of abandonment and if Kelly Dodd is right and being on these shows feels like the Survivor show, it would play to Leeanne’s feelings of being left alone. I think Brandy wants Leeanne to feel excluded. While Stephanie is kinder and gives Leeanne leeway on that behavior. Brandy is a mean girl in reaction to being treated poorly as well. Again, kameron wasn’t calling her trash, she was saying she behaves trashy. Stephanie, you are projecting Kameron’s trashy comment onto you. I don’t think Kam thinks Stephanie acts trashy. While both Brandy and Stephanie grew up in low income homes, they behave very different. Brandy does act that way but Stephanie acts very dignified and well behaved, very different behavior as adults in comparison to the way they felt as children. I think there’s truth to the rumor that Kary did not have good intentions towards Leeanne from the beginning, her actions have been very aggressive from the beginning for the new girl. She has been quick to form an opinion from the beginning as if she had an agenda. Leeanne reacted defensively, as she admits she is her own worst enemy. If that rumor was true, the smart thing to do would be to act super sweet to Kary to take her power away. Kary did seem to only disregard any of the other ladies discomfort...Kary is playing the Survivor game and Leeanne took the bait and lost the battle. Leeanne needs real, deep down therapy. What she has done so far is clearly not helping her deal with her life.

While I do think she has money, I think she is staying on the show to keep her presence out there to promote her Real for Real cuisine. Especially now that she’s back to her thinner jeans, that’s what she is likely thinking about... I do agree with you that she would come off better leaving, but that’s my theory on why she stays on the show. She probably can’t get one of her friends, like Kristina, or other USC football watching moms on with her. Bravo likely would think her friends are too boring. It is sad that Bravo changed the premise of these shows. Bravo prefers filthy behavior over vanilla, rich housewives that would be friends with Shannon. Wanted to add, I wish Heather stayed, her snobbishness can not be matched, and I wish she had one of her friends on the show, like that blonde Lindsey that was seen in the background of most of her functions.

Kelly commenting earlier on her massive American Express bill...then talks about why is lipstick so expensive...Kelly, you don’t HAVE to buy Tom Ford for $50 a pop! I endulge on the high end make up, but not every single lipstick has to be TF or Chanel. Lots of lower priced designer brands if she wants, Charlotte Tilbury, MAC, NARS, etc. She better have invested most of her divorce settlement, beyond the gluten free water product, or she will be bankrupt by the time she’s 55!

I dunno...Just a theory! Remember, BW was getting dirt from ex OC housewives before she came on the show? Tamra called her out on that during the Los Angeles shopping trip. She was doing her homework. Now, she’s trying to win away the MILF trophy, so called sexiest mom of the OC Tamra. I think she would like to steal the crown from Tamrat. (Tamrat self proclaimed title her first season) She’s definitely not the sweet stay at home mom she tried to portray herself as in the first few episodes.Ridiculing family pics with the matching white shirts, the traditional family thing as of late, then going all black and see thru, barely there bottoms? That reminded me of Carlton. Tamra will always be the divide and conquer Queen. Which leads me to express how disappointed I am in Kelly. If she could control her temper, she is the best candidate to take Tamrat out. She should never have ticked off Shannon, and kept her on her side. When she pushes Shannon away, it makes the tres amigas a stronger unit. Kelly, watch your mouth, chill your crazy and call Tamra out.

Every season has proven, that those on the wrong side of Tamrat have a short shelf life on the show. Ask Jeanna Keogh, Lynn, Alexis, Gretchen, Lizzie and other not ready for prime time women that were on that one season that were Lizzie’s friends. (The brunette “udder ones”) Heather wouldn’t stand for Tamrat’s tricks. Shannon was treated like dirt by Tamra her first season (the mental breakdown plot Tamra & Heather cooked up) and once Heather was gone, Shannon and Tamra started to have problems with Vicki. It is all about survival and hanging onto the orange. I think BW is trying to replace Tamra.

On another note...if Emily wants to be besties with Tamrat she made the wrong move... She thinks filming with Alexis will endear her with Tamrat?! She didn’t think this whole thing through. I was convinced last season that Emily (Maybe Gina too) was plotting to ice out the tres amigas since she is friends with Lizzie and Gretchen off camera. Now chatting with Alexis, Tamra’s number 1 enemy just seals that idea IMO.

OMG this was one crazy show/and preview. Why are they not editing the naked shots anymore? WTF with BW and her husband? Obsessed with Tamrat?!! The residual issues she has with her mom and during her childhood have really messed with her mind. So, we have now transitioned from real housewives to whatever works for you Bravo?!! Ugh, her poor kids have to watch this? I certainly don’t watch Bravo for its wholesome qualities but why do they always have to push the envelope too far?? I’m in my early 50s, and I’ve never once longed for the college days. Narcissism is what you call not being able to grow up and live a peaceful life. Something is seriously wrong with BW. Even Tamrat was shocked and we know how she loves to be the one to shock others. I liked Gina’s talking head about BW and her husband not being afraid of STDs!😳 Yuck!

Spot on. Brandi does exactly what she accuses Leeann of doing, playing the victim after stirring the pot. They both are pretty similar in ways. If you don’t want to be called trash, don’t act like trash, over and over again. First thought in my head when Brandi, season one, wore the poop hat? Trash. Then she cries and says it triggers her insecurities of growing up being treated that way. Again, isn’t that what you accuse Leeann of doing? It takes one to know one. I just have no use for Brandi and I think her presence holds Stephanie back with relationships with the other women. Why does Kary think that being the host, that she needs to take it upon herself to get in the middle of all of their personal issues? Providing the venue, new girl, doesn’t make you the all knowing arbiter of their relationships. At this point, you should just be observing and staying out of it. IMO Brandi and D’Andrea were the sh@t stirrers on this trip.