himela

Ok so you intrigued me and I watched 34 minutes of a 54 minutes video regarding Caleb and Amber's story, the last thing that I watched was the date they had and I got to say that till now I see no stalkerish behavior from Caleb towards her. In the contrary I find he is really polite with her, he had a problem with Cody guy asking him if he has any feelings for her, him denying it but still seeing them together all the time. Amber was the one who brought up the date "challenge" and I was shocked to see that coming from a girl who all this time was feeling uncomfortable around him and complaining and worrying etc. Even after the date she chose to ignore him. I mean, who is to blame now? Why can't she just tell him from the day he asked her on a date "listen, I am happy to be your friend and play the game with you, but there's no chance something romantic will ever go on between us"? I'm not sure about how other girls are, but I never, and I mean never, give "permission" with my behavior to a man I'm not interested in to hope that I like him. It's very easy for me. Maybe it's not that easy for other women, I don't know. But what I do know is that a woman should say no to something she doesn't want. Amber should do that, Jenn should do that. "I don't want to go on a date with you, period". "I don't want to hug you, I see you as a potential friend and nothing more and it's none of your business whether I do or I don't like Joe". So simple things to be said and put a period on everything. Regarding Vince, I insist that the editing had to do with most part of his showingly creepy behavior. And editing did what it was supposed to do, create drama and discussion and ultimately more money for the people involved in production.

I'm still thinking you are overreacting but we'll just wait and see. After all Jenn never told him to back off. He interrogated about her liking Joe, she replied to him seriously, without freaking out or telling him to mind his own business or something. He asked for a hug, she gave him a hug. She could have told him in his face "dude back off, I'll be your ally but that's it". The way I saw it she was OK with him while he was there and she was making fun of him and his behavior in her alone interviews. After all I'm sure the staff of the Survivor production would not have allowed to a dangerous person to even get close to Survivor cast. For now I will only speculate that the editing was made this way so that Vince (who is not totally sane, I'm not denying this) is shown off as a dangerous and over the top stalker and create drama. We shouldn't forget we are still watching reality tv, aren't we?

I realize his behavior is weird, but we shouldn't forget that a lot is based on editing in these reality shows. I mean, this conversation Vince and Jenn had could have been the result of another conversation that was not shown or it could have meant other things. I'm not supporting this behavior in general but only in this game cause relationships and alliances are everything. I mean, how many people in this game had to suck it and tolerate people they disliked? Remember Boston Rob with Phillip? One should be dreaming thinking that they will go to the end only with people they like. Social sacrifices should be made in this game. Vince is crazy and all over the place but at the moment he approached Jenn he was a valuable ally. We all know how dangerous couples can be. Jenn could have gone along with him, make him believe she trusts him and wants his friendship etc and she could secretly like Joe and behave more discreetly. That's all I'm saying.

First of all I have to say I LOVE both Survivor and Jeff so much and I'm so happy it has once again started! Yeah, I'm an enthusiast, no collar fan of Survivor :) I'm satisfied this time (unlikely last season) with the personalities they have chosen. If Joaquin and Son had played it right, I'm sure they'd conquer this game. I admired Carolyn who found the HII only by catching Joaquin's and So's lies and just following her, so brilliant. I like all people from the white collar tribe (except Joaquin who is a cut throat SOAB) and I'm surprised to say that cause it would seem they would be the most "bossy and bitchy" people of all. From no collar tribe I was mad at Jenn who was making fun of that poor feather hair guy, he seemed to be honest and humble and I didn't appreciate her lying to his face about her finding Joe attractive. In a show where having good connections regardless if you like someone or if you could be friends with someone in real life is the key to the million dollars I think Jenn behaved stupidly. She could take her chance and have a dedicated ally right then and there, but she prefered the good looking Don Juan. I hope this doesn't come back to bite her later. About blue collar tribe, I was mad at the women making fun of the older guy, it was inappropriate and it was purely an offense towards his real life self rather than his game self which I find disturbing and disrespectful. I realize that these people live together and some people can be annoying, but they signed up for this and showing disrespect is not the answer. I'm expecting a great season and I hope we see many many blindsides!

So am I the only one who feels that Chris wants to choose Becca cause he thinks she is more fitting to him but her indecisiveness will cause him choosing Whitney in the end? And thus Whitney will be the second choice for Chris?

Right, just finished watching this episode and I haven't yet read your comments. Firstly and mostly I'm really glad Kaitlyn finally left. In my eyes (and I'm sorry to say) Kaitlyn seems like a low low level quality porn star. She isn't serious enough to start a family with. Plus I think the editors did a lousy job at showing us the progression of Chris' and Kaitlyn's relationship cause I never realized it was that serious. Personally the only thing I remember of her was Jimmy Kimmel catcheng her and Chris kissing and then proposing to have a threesome. Everything else of Kaitlyn for me is a blur. I never took her seriously and I wonder what Chris saw in her. Regarding Chris' and Witney's date: I found Chris to be kind of sceptical while Witney was saying how she was feeling about him and explaining about her sister's refusion to give him her blessing, but afterwards it showed it was because of his being worried whether Witney could leave her job and live in his small town. I was happy he did ask this tough question, but to be honest her reply was not very clear in my eyes. First she says her mother taught her she should have a job and be independent, but then she says if leaving her job is what she needs to do to have a family then she'll do it. I mean, does this make sense? Regarding Chris's reaction to Becca telling him she is a virgin: priceless. I mean, I was laughing so much. I could almost see his thoughts in his head. He tried not to laugh, he tried to act surprised, he tried to be polite, and the result was funny faces. Honestly I expected Becca to support her belief a lot more than "I'm so sorry to say this, I wish I didn't have to inform you about this, I hope you forgive me, but I'm a virgin". I expected her to be proud of her choices rather than seem to regret and be scared of how she would be seen about them. It's obvious by now I guess that Chris' first choice would be Becca cause she totally fits his ideal wife: beautiful, smart, low profile, modest, not many experiences in life, open to learn and experience new things, she is like a piece of clay ready to take the shape Chris wants to give it. But unfortunately Becca is not ready to move to a small town and become a housewife and a mom. She is too young for this and she has yet so many things to experience. Witney will win by default in my opinion cause she is the only one really ready to fulfill Chris' wishes for a wife. But if Chris chooses Witney, how will she feel after watching herself being the second choice?

Actually Irene Skliva was 18 when she won Miss World in 1996. Come on, wasn't she gorgeous? http://www.timescontent.com/photos/preview/25385/Irene-Skliva.jpg

Yeah my boyfriend liked Britt also out of a bunch only from one photo...

Really? :o I find Kaitlyn one of the most unattractive people I know. There's definitely something wrong with her eyes. And I find Britt even more beautiful than Anjelina, and God only knows how much I adore her beauty. First time I saw Britt I was sure she reminded me of someone. Now I know who it is. She is a greek model who became miss world some years ago. http://www.star.gr/publishingimages/2014/12/011214134112_2888.JPG Regardless Britt's character and behavior, I consider her ridiculously beautiful.

That's so sad to hear :( I agree with everything you said.

But at the moment there were 3 more spots for hometown dates, Chris just gave one of the 4 available roses to Kaitlyn. Was this enough reason for Britt to explode on him and the girls that much? Even if she had received that group date rose, didn't she know that there were 3 more roses to be given to 3 more girls? It's really immature and stupid, in my opinion, to demand to be number one in this situation. I think Britt just used this incident to create drama and leave on her own before hometown dates. I would bet Britt had decided before the show that she would never be in a hometown date.

I normally am strict with women who pose nude but in Jade's case I have really seen regret from her part and I really like her. I don't think it's an act of the innocent, I think it's her getting more mature after this experience and wanting to start a new life. I mean, if she wanted to use this for her future modelling career she would have talked about it in the first day and she would not wait until week 8. I'm not sure if she really loved Chris (she was not excited to see where he lived) but I don't think she was using the show to promote her modelling career. Chris should have taken into account that his sisters chose Jade out of the how many were there to choose from? 10 or something? That means something. In my opinion the only one I hadn't expected seein in the final 3 was Kaitlyn. In fact I hadn't even noticed her until last episode when she received the rose. I guess editing made us miss something of Chris' and Kaitlyn's relationhip cause I was surprised when Chris told Jade that his relationship with the other 3 girls had progressed more than theirs. I swear I don't even remember a connection between Kaitlyn and Chris. The one date they had was spent with Jimmy so when did they have the time to connect alone? I'm really curious about what the deal is with Becca. I like shy and down to earth women, but it's one thing to choose to wait till you find the right person to have sex with them and it's a whole another thing to have never fallen in love in your mid twenties. Her mother was trying to say something to Chris that is deeper than "it's the first time I see my daughter holding hands with a guy". Could it be what another poster mentioned, that she doesn't like men? This would maybe explain some stuff. I found Witney's sister really mature and serious. Only people who really care for you don't mind making you sad in order to protect you from a mistake. She was really right with what she said to Chris "give me a call when you are sure my sister is the only one for you". I wish all women in this show had this mindset and would stop acting like little naive girls. At this point I really would like to see Jade as the bachelorette. Her story is great and it would show to the world that we shouldn't convict a person by one mistake they have already regretted. I think that Chris in this episode and for a while now knows that the only woman for him is Witney.

Comments about these two episodes: I want to comment on Andi and her interview. I think she is trying (or being promoted) to become the next bachelorette. We already had Brad who was twice the bachelor, why not Andi? Andi is social, communicative, she knows how to keep people intrigued, she shares all her life publicly with the bachelor nation. In my opinion Andi's season was a very successful season of the show, and not only cause of the drama with that guy (what was his name?). But I swear that I wouldn't want to see Andi beeing the next bachelorette cause in my opinion she blew her chance by choosing the athlete type of guy she so much insisted was not going to pick once more at the beginning. I don't know the reasons she and Josh broke up, but I was sick of listening to "I know better now than to choose the athlete type again" thoughout the season and then doing exactly that. So, please please, I prefer a total unknown girl to be the bachelorette than Andi once more. Kelsey was trying to do some damage control. Question: These two interviews with Kelsey and Chris were after episode six was aired or before the show began? It makes a difference. If Kelsey had known what the audience is thinking about her (a crazy sociopath etc) she would not dare make this interview or at least she'd try to be a lot more modest and regretful than she was. Regarding Arlington: I'm an introvert and I enjoy being alone at home, but I do this knowing that at any point I am able to walk or drive somewhere and do something fun, meet friends or go shopping. I like the country and I like the silence, but, for heaven's sake, Arlington has truly NOTHING someone can do or go to. I mean, I doubt that my grandparents would like to live in Chris's home, even though they are old and would love the clean air and the silence. I really doubt any woman in the world would be 100% happy to live where Chris lives and the only reason she would do it for some time would be if she truly loved him. I think Chris asks for a lot when he wants a woman (any woman) to bury herself in this middle of nowhere. I think he should reconsider if he truly wants to find a wife for life. Britt, Britt, Britt.... You fell inside your own trap I guess. I think that what she was trying to do with her monologue after Kaitlyn received the rose was to show that she has true feeling for Chris and that's why she is being jealous and insecure, like many many other bachelorettes have done, expecting him to feel sorry for her and reassure her that everything is alright and he wants her etc. But when you take big risks you know it will become a boomerang; Chris did not fall inside this trap (maybe cause Carly had warned him about Britt an hour ago?) and he reacted like a smart person for once. I was really happy when he saw through Britt's BS. Or maybe Britt has become too...dirty by now and he can't take the smell any longer? :P I was surprised that Chris picked Kaitlyn for one of the four hometown dates. I was really sure that the final four would be Whitney, Carly, Becca and Britt. I think that Carly knows herself that Chris sees her as a friend and maybe she is hoping that she can become the Bachelorette instead of chasing Chris and his boring life. I think Carly has already quit and she is waiting for her time to leave. After all I don't think she was ever into Chris, she seemed to enjoy this experience. I wondered why Chris chose Jade to take her to his house and hometown and then I remembered that his sisters had chosen Jade some time ago. It made sense, cause he also introduced her to his parents. I guess he wanted to take the OK from his parents as well about her. I'm not sure if Chris will mind about Jade having made nude photos in Playboy to be honest. He said himself he wanted to see Jade's wild self. After all Jade seems to have regretted it and I think she deserves a chance. regardless of her bad choice. I also believe that Whitney is the one for Chris. She seems like the traditional housewife and she doesn't mind living in the middle of nowhere. I think for a while now that she will be his final pick, they'll get married and have 5 kids before bachelor season 25. :P I don't believe Britt will go. She will try to save this.

Yep I noticed this the moment one girl said it and I found the editing really amusing. At the moment I thought that someone from the production had asked one of the girls to say this quote just for the fun of it, but I guess it was something Kelsey was saying a lot so the girls used it to mock her as you said. Hillarious :P

For some reason when I heard that Ashley I and Kelsey are on the two on one date I knew they would both be going home. They were the ones that Chris had no actual connection with and they were the most drama creators so it was obvious Chris wanted to boot them and the producers used this as a reason to create more drama. I can't even comment in Ashley's behavior, I mean, I used to be 26 once but God I was more mature than she'll ever be. She just saw this as her losing a competition and she thought she had done everything right and she acted like a victim wondering why she lost. Tragic. And speaking of tragic, I almost was proud of the way Kelsey handled the confrontation with Chris and Ashley and Chris asking her to leave, until she started saying that she is "unimaginably blessed" for what really? For her husband dying? I mean, it makes no sense. For me the death of a loved one is something I would never mention in public, let alone use it for a purpose so meaningless like winning a dating game. Thank God they left. They should be thankful Chris stopped their national embarrassment there. I admire Chris for at least asking both of these girls to leave. He may not be tactful or smart, but at least he seems serious about his quest to find a wife. My predictions for final four and how it will turn out: Whitney, Britt, Carly and Becca. Carly will leave first after the hometown dates with the excuse he doesn't feel something romantic about her. Becca will leave after her with the excuse that his relationship with the other girls have grown faster than the one with her. With Whitney and Britt in the final two, I think Britt will create some sort of drama to make Chris doubtful about her, so he'll decide to let her go and choose Whitney who is one of the most ready to get married and live with Chris in a farm. Lets wait and see if my predictions will be correct :P

I wanted to ask you, when you play sims do you let the sims have total free will and do whatever they like or do you completely control what they do? I want to completely control what they do cause once I let my sim do whatever she liked and she spent hours playing with the thing that waters the plants and sending messages on her mobile. I mean, it was useless and boring. Is sims 4 any different? I mean, are there various things happening or is it boring as well?

Just finished watching this episode and without having read your comments, I just want to say: Wow. This show becomes more and more directed by the producers. I'm starting to wonder if anything I've seen and heard at all is actually the truth. What shocked me most was Kelsey saying "Isn't my story great? I mean, tragic, but also great!". I was expecting her to reveal right then and there that her story was not even true. Only then would I be a bit of OK with her statement. But no, her story is true and the truth is she uses her husband's tragic death to continue being in a show. I mean, it's obvious you don't have self respect. Can't you show respect for the parents of this poor guy who lost their son in such a young age? Isn't there no shame in this world anymore? What can I say about Britt? I was the one who really adored her the first day and wanted to believe that she was not an actress, she was a real person who wanted to find love (the way we have ridiculed this word in this show is something infuriating but anyway). But if what the girls said is true, that she doesn't wash, she sleeps with her make up on and she is not interested in getting married or having kids, her lying about this to Chris, I will just be disappointed once more in this show. The only moments I enjoyed were when Chris had the date with Carly, after the weird yoga whatever thing that I didn't even watch cause it was at least uncomfortable, I liked Chris for some moments there and I started to wonder if he is really serious about this and I have misunderstood him. The only way he proves me wrong will be if he chooses one girl at the end who is not there for the show and who honestly wants to get married. But we'll have to wait and see.

Comments about this episode: Finally a date that is picked by someone who doesn't own a penis! I was so happy when Jade was selected by Chris's sisters to go to the princess date. It showed me that his sisters are serious about this opportunity he has to actually find a wife and not only a hook up. I was pleasantly surprised by the integrity and inner beauty of Jade and by the fact that Chris was able to recognize it as well. If Chris picks Jade in the end I'll be convinced that he did this to find a serious woman to get married to instead of to get into the bachelor family and get the chance to meet more girls or participate later in bachelor pad or bachelor in paradise. If he picks Jade, or Becca or Samantha for that matter, I will be happy and satisfied. But I'm afraid that he will follow the mistakes that previous bachelors made before him choosing the hottest girl with the slightest chance to actually become a wife. In fact I think that Sean was the most conscious on that matter and he picked a woman who was wife material. I hope Chris will be like this too. I was relieved to see that he showed Jillian the exit door since it was obvious she was in another phase in her life that he was. I was mad with all the drama caused by Ashley with her virginity or whatever. I was happily surprised with Britt's conversation with Chris cause it showed me that she actually is a serious person and she dislikes women who use their looks to win a man. I was happy that he let crazy Ashley go. In general I think this episode made me look at Chris as less superficial and shallow and I hope this goes on like this till the end.

Girls is honestly a series that sometimes I adore and other times makes me wonder why the hell I keep on watching. If art is supposed to create such an emotional roller coaster then I guess Lena and her team has successfully created art. Girls makes me wonder if real life young women are like this nowadays. I mean, we are used to all these glamorous women we watch in series and shows that watching actual "next door girls" surprises me, makes me sad and happy at the same time, gets me thinking etc. I watched all 3 episodes back to back and I admit I got bored and a little upset for wasting this time to watch these pathetic losers' lives. On the other hand I'm getting furious with myself cause I'm so used in people in series who are handsome and beautiful and have everything figured out that actually watching people with real problems makes me sick in the stomach. I don't know if you know what I'm saying. I really admire Lena for creating a whole series, she is a very talented and smart young woman plus she is a great actress, but watching Girls just makes me feel bad, leaves me with bad taste in my mouth. I hate that sex is shown that much emotionlessly, I hate that all people in this series are dumb or at least not smart (except from Hannah but she kind of doesn't use her intelligence for her benefit), I hate that every parent in Girls is negligent, indifferent or dumb, I hate that Girls leaves me hopeless about our future.

If she is a virgin then I'm the pope. Please.

What I find really weird in these two first episodes is the lack of any deep(er) conversations between Chris and the bachelorettes. I mean, I admired Andi for asking the right questions and making plans and trying to get to know the guys (up until she chose the athlete guy AGAIN), and this season I'd expect to hear the question "how would you like to be a farmer's wife, away from the city, etc?" a lot. On the contrary I just watch a lot of akward moments, a lot of kissing, no mental connection between Chris and any of the women. I like Britt a lot and I hope she is not fake after all (she reminds me of Emily to be honest). What I don't like about the Bachelor is that we rarely see a normal looking woman. Almost all of them are like models, perfect bodies, perfect hair, teeth, smile, make up etc. The most "normal" bachelorette was Ashley in my opinion who had the best luck after all. But I'm wondering, why does Britt for example need a show to find a husband? I mean, I know most of it is fake, but using the word love to make a reality show while it's obvious that almost everything is fake is starting to become old and not cool anymore.

I always wait till the whole season has ended and then I watch it altogether in like 5 days cause I can't take all the waiting. This season I was really excited and happy to watch Survivor Season 29, but to be honest my expectations were not met. This season was not that exciting, despite the few surprises and blindsides that took place. There were not memorable players, memorable strategies or scenes that I'm going to remember. The only good thing was that the player who won was worth the win cause she played a good social and strategic game. Generally I like Blood VS Water but this time I saw that the person who had no loved one after day 3 played the best game. I think that when loved ones play, the game becomes different than the usual game we know. Some comments about the players. Natalie as I said played a very good game and she deserved the money, but I think she was just lucky cause the players that were left after a certain point were not that smart or aware of the game strategy. She made smart moves, but she was just the best in a bad group. Regarding Missy and Baylor, I don't think neither of them deserved to be in the final 5. None did anything strategic, they just followed stronger people and they landed this way in the final 5. I liked Reed and Josh as a couple, I'm happy that homosexuality is able to be shown as normal in american houses and families. From the get go I thought that Jeremy would be the one who would win but he was just unlucky. Overall it was a boring season with just flashes of something interesting. I don't very much like the collar theme but I hope that people will be at least memorable this time. I want the reunion show to last a lot longer and I really don't understand why they don't make it last longer.

I have heard that people don't like Sims 4 so far and they suggest we should just play sims 3. What is your opinion from the ones who have it? Is it worth the money or not?

I disagree completely. Juan Pablo was very direspectful towards the production of the show, the show itself and the audience who watched the show. He liked it when the production was paying all of his expenses, his food, the hotels he was staying in, his trips etc but he declined to fulfill his obligations which were to have no private life during the show. The idea of the show is to watch people dating, falling in love, breaking up, having conversations, fights, relationships. This is what he signed up for and he refused to complete it. He was rude and he should be treated even worse by both the audience (which ultimately is the final judge) and the production. Juan Pablo fooled us all by pretending to be this loyal and loving father figure who is "ready to get married" while he wasonly a jerk wanting to hook up with the ladies he liked while insulting the rest. It's not being a Latino or anything, it's about his character. the comment towards Claire inside the helicopter ("I don't know much about you but I surely know I want to f%ck you" or something like this) revealed his true colors and he should be ashamed. I feel sorry for the example he gave to his daughter.

I'm not going to bet that Nick did honestly love Andi, after all it's reality TV. But I think that Andi lost all my respect after the way she handled the Nick situation. In my mind, if I'm in love with a man (as she claimed to be the day of the proposal with Josh) I can't see myself having sex with another man unless I have some feelings for that other man as well. Andi lied to us in our face contradicting herself by saying whatever she said to Nick was true at the time and then that she was not in love with him. I had high expectations from her only due to her profession and t o the fact that she was really cautious throughout the season asking tough questions to the bachelors and showing that she was really serious about finding a husband. But I found ridiculous the fact that she was saying the whole season that she always used to date the athletic kind of guys without any good results but now she knew better and she wouldn't fall for a good body but in the end she did just that. Nick took things too far and I guess he wanted to be seen as the victim and having revenge rather than getting closure from his relationship with Andi. In all honesty I think Andi is fake and she has no idea what she wants from her life. She seemed so serious and mature at the beginning but then choosing the athletic guy proved she is immature and superficial.