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Right on. I teach my littles "we don't comment on people's bodies." Like, at all. Internet snark on TV strangers excepted I guess😂 But really, IRL? Just don't. ETA excepted not accepted

I think to "the kids these days" it's not that big of a deal to be trans or queer. I have a 23 year old stepdaughter and younger kids and they are all very blah about sexual orientation and gender identity. So it could be that it really isn't a big deal to Isabel, disclosed on IG or otherwise. What I find interesting is the discussion about telling her parents...why? Why on earth would parents need that info? I get it if they want to tell them, but it seemed like they felt they HAD to. To me it's like saying "hi mom, dad--this is my boyfriend Gabe. Just so you know, he had a vagina at one time."

I'm also kinda surprised at the attitude towards tattoos in 2023. Maybe it's because of where I live, but its a total nonissue professionally (I'm a lawyer, and I have several that aren't readily visible but not covered up either -think ankle and shoulder- no one has ever said a word) and I certainly didn't think to cover them at my wedding with makeup! My husband is basically fully inked, with full sleeves. They are expensive, tasteful, and I think beautiful! If you have them, you like them, so I'm having trouble imagining why you would cover them to avoid OTHER people seeing them? However, I'm TOTALLY not above snarking on what I think are bad or unflattering tattoos, like Nicole's forearm piece--whatever it is, the placement is yikes.

Can we talk about Clint's bizarre chest hair? Why on earth is this man shirtless on television? Bad wax job, or just a weird pattern? So many questions! I note that the other man wore tank tops in their talking heads like decent human beings. Clint just thinks he's way hotter than he is. Mac's mom is an uber BITCH. My god at least be polite. Shaq telling his wife that she WILL be going to Jackson, MS with him---that's a no from me dawg. Maybe profusely apologize for the conflict and ask her what she wants to do? And asking for a kiss when she's clearly not feeling it...This guy can't read a room.

This was really my main takeaway from the episode. Everything else was so boring I can't remember it.

OMG yeah. Like girl, yes, love yourself--but like, internally 😂 Not that Mitch wasn't an ass. He was. He's an idiot and will never get a date in this town again.

Not so sure about that...he seems pretty freaky lol. Could be bi or pan...I noticed he didn't outright deny anything (either being gay or hitting on him!) Either way, I liked how he took the high road there.

OMG I totally said this to my hubs...if he just treated her like garbage and acted like he didn't give a shit, she would be all over that. She's a mess and so is he!

Below 70 degrees here is beanie and sweatshirt weather :)

Most important question of the night!

I got the impression that his friends are well aware of how shitty he is at relationships😂 I think you're right on that he said ILY too fast when he was all horny, and he's regretting that now that he's realized he can't stand her and he's gonna look bad. And I forgot to mention the poems...my GOD. Talk about read the room Miguel. Your poems are terrible and no one wants to hear them especially on a date FFS! "Oh hey listen here's a poem I wrote about ME!" Get the fuck outta here, you ain't Emily Dickinson.

My take on Miguel and Lindy...he hates, absolutely HATES her. I can see it in his dead-eyed stare. But he doesn't want to be the "bad guy" so he's trying to play along until DD. He's cracking though, that's what we saw in this epi. I'm thinking the same with Krysten and Mitch, to a lesser degree....she's a no, but will be kind and play it out. Mitch is an absolute child, with zero emotional maturity and she's too good for him and knows it. Edited: Miguel and Lindy, not Mitch. They're both terrible 🤣

Ed in the Wild Sighting: So I live in San Diego and saw Ed out at a restaurant in North Park a couple of weeks ago. He was surrounded by dudes and just being loud and had an attitude like, "I'm a big deal"... I'm pretty sure no one even glanced at him except the hubs and me.😂

The name thing infuriates me! How is it in any way Miguel's decision? It's HER name. Sure, you can give your input but then STFU. Why would it even matter to Miguel, I don't get it. It is an antiquated custom, and if he just wants their names to be the same he can take hers.

It's a total joke in San Diego that we have a flip flop wardrobe for every occasion :) My Rainbows are for the beach, my birks are for "fancy", my worn-out Rainbows are for the backyard, etc. I'm a lawyer and I'm wearing birks at the office right now. I even have a shearling pair for "winter." 😂 None of this to excuse anything Mitch does, he's an ass.