MAFS Social Media, Spoilers & Speculation

[humbleopinion]

Can't be Lillian because I'd be distracted by her bald spot.

Nominate Heather...she would roll her eyes at the ridiculousness and is now dating a person she found on her own.

[qtpye]

On ‎5‎/‎6‎/‎2017 at 10:09 PM, humbleopinion said:

Cody has revealed in People Magazine the reason he wanted to wait for sex with Danielle was the other times (I question the plural...but whatever) he had sex too early in the relationship, he lost interest in them.

Let me get this straight, Cody...a woman has sex with you....and you lose interest in them?

Most men would put up with feeling bored if they had regular sexy time guaranteed.

Or did the woman lose interest in you?

Cody just got interesting...

It is a pretty typical attitude for some type of guys...I do agree that Cody is probably trying to increase his playa status a bit.  He is coming off as a wide eyed innocent on this show and he might be feeling a little annoyed about that.

[humbleopinion]

Hot from the press...UK press...

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4512658/Married-Sight-couple-argues-new-home.html

N8 wants to play house in a better place he will ever be able to afford since it is on M@FS money, knowing it is just for another month or 2...

Yes!...Anthony is as skeeved and grossed out as the audience about Ashley storing shoes in the kitchen cupboards...

*sarcasm*  No, Cody...not one wants you to lose your winning and sparkling personality just for the cameras. *sarcasm*

[Evil Queen]

2 hours ago, humbleopinion said:

Hot from the press...UK press...

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4512658/Married-Sight-couple-argues-new-home.html

N8 wants to play house in a better place he will ever be able to afford since it is on M@FS money, knowing it is just for another month or 2...

Yes!...Anthony is as skeeved and grossed out as the audience about Ashley storing shoes in the kitchen cupboards...

*sarcasm*  No, Cody...not one wants you to lose your winning and sparkling personality just for the cameras. *sarcasm*

Honestly it doesn't gross me out that she had her shoes there. I guess maybe because I have seen how spaces can be in some places in other areas of the world and I know I have had to live in smaller spaces as well....you sort of have to try to make do with what you do have and figure out where to store things. Its not always the most idea places but whatever. I know there are people that find it gross to have laundry in a kitchen but if its the only spot to have it what are you going to do? I am going to take it Ashley didn't have a big place she lived in and may have lots of shoes. 

Nate is just stupid. It figures he would want something that costs more than he would be able to afford and is to big for what they should be looking at right now. Can't tell me though that house wasn't set up to see if it would cause some issues with them either. Not even this but it says he says he "loves his wife". Sorry but he barely knows her still. I don't think there is love of any kind there at this point. Give me a break. 

Cody and Danielle....just SMG

[Alt1030]

Does anyone know their living arrangement after the show is taped? Do they still live together after the show or do they go back to live in their own houses, apartments, or whatever? Two days before this season premiered (April 18th) Ashley posted a picture from her own living room. I only noticed because of the move-in episode. I hope it no indication that they're no longer together. I really love this couple and I hope they do make it!

[humbleopinion]

Hard to tell when she took the picture so don't be fooled by the background.

M@FS probably doesn't pay for anymore rent after 8 weeks so the couples either split to their own places before the show or figure out where to live together.

Anthony is out on the street after the 8 week experiment if it doesn't work out with Ashley because his lease was up when he moved into "their place."

[Evil Queen]

12 hours ago, humbleopinion said:

Hard to tell when she took the picture so don't be fooled by the background.

M@FS probably doesn't pay for anymore rent after 8 weeks so the couples either split to their own places before the show or figure out where to live together.

Anthony is out on the street after the 8 week experiment if it doesn't work out with Ashley because his lease was up when he moved into "their place."

MAFS is not going to want you to know the outcome for sure so I agree its something they can fool you with. I would guess they are suppose to keep a low profile though on if they are or aren't together so it doesn't give the ending away before we see it. So they will post pics or say things to throw people off if they can. So I never take to much stock into what is posted on here about the things on SM. 

Now I am curious about Anthony though. I wonder if either way he just wanted out of that place anyway and having a roommate so he didn't mind the move out timing for the show. Will be interesting to see what happens with them. 

[Alt1030]

I'm so bad because I have been looking for any type of spoilers about this season, and it does seem very possible that they are trying to fool us and I only hope so! Thank you for the replies!

[humbleopinion]

Thinking it was a happy coincidence that Anthony was chosen for the show or he would have been looking for a new place or re-upped the lease with his room mate.

[gonecrackers]

I'm watching the Unfiltered for the Honeymoon Part 2, & at this point the topic is what they are learning. So I noticed that each one of them is speaking in the present tense, as in "I'm learning", whereas Danielle spoke in the past tense "I learned".  I just thought that was interesting.

Also, I'm starting to wonder if A&A knew each other previously & they set it up for them to have at least one success this season.

[Agnetha]

How do you know it's her boyfriend?

Honestly, she's so exhausting on Twitter and a hypocrite to boot. "I'll never speak about my marriage after this" - goes on to speak about it and shade the hell out of him. "I'm all love and everything" - yet every second tweet feels like a shade. She's a narcissist consistently seeking validation and praise from strangers who tell her how great and wonderful she is. When that season of MAFSs started I would have bet all my money on Nick being the reason for this marriage not working. But seeing what I see from her, I'm pretty sure both were at fault and while he was very slow to burn, I suspect he eventually got further than her. Also, how does a full-time employed woman with an active social life so much time on her hands to interact with strangers and on Social Media? She's 24/7 on her Twitter and a few weeks ago before she blocked him she was also all over Nick's social media.

And it's not going to be less Sonia. I'm pretty sure Derek and her will be on the next season MAFS2C seeing Heather and Lily are in happy relationships.

[Agnetha]

You're bang on the money, gonecrackers. My impression (and I'm almost 100% positive, which rarely happens) from following them on social media: Nate and Sheila together, A squared as well, Danielle and Cody on friendly terms but separated. She also liked a comment that was questioning whether the producers got their papers mixed up when they paired someone so adventorous with someone who was still living at home, and there are many more hints.

[humbleopinion]

I am rooting for Neil to be the next 2nd Chancer...he is the most deserving having put up with Sam's abuse/nonsense.

How about: Derek and Neil.. Dudes Looking for Love

They can wing man each other going through the process of whittling down the gaggle of women to 20 each...maybe have a couple of steal cards in case there are a few women that catch their eye and the other will donate from their harem.

Lifetime call me, I'll produce the show...

[Agnetha]

I love Neil, but I feel like he wouldn't do it. He wouldn't be able to keep a straight face and also he went through therapy after the first round, so I'm pretty sure he won't do it. I really think it will be Sonia and Derek. 

[humbleopinion]

You are right...Neil has been through enough.

[gonecrackers]

I loved Neil too but don't think he could pull it off.  From watching Second Chances though, I don't think anyone should do what they're doing.

[Jellybeans]

I understand now why Nick blurted out he did not like Sonia.   She is so self-centered.

I saw a comment somewhere (IG?) saying something along the lines of "maybe Nick slept with his dogs to keep sonia out of his bed" lol!

[gonecrackers]

Sonia's true self seems to be showing at this point. Nick was no prize but I'm starting to give him more credit. We only see what the show wants us to, & it presented Nick in a negative light - & then there was poor, tormented Sonia. But maybe behind the scenes she was this fake bitch & he was trying more than we knew.

I still don't believe either of them were quality mates though, or should've ever been chosen for the show.

Edited May 20, 2017 by gonecrackers

[humbleopinion]

Sonia was afraid of dogs so she slept in the guest room because the doggies slept with Nick.

She eventually overcame her dog fear plus a bumper and bolsters system was activated so Nick could have his dogs and wife in the same bed.

Nick and Sonia are both self centered and equally insufferable.

Sonia's true salty self is just now surfacing...wonder why?

[Agnetha]

53 minutes ago, humbleopinion said:

Sonia was afraid of dogs so she slept in the guest room because the doggies slept with Nick.

She eventually overcame her dog fear plus a bumper and bolsters system was activated so Nick could have his dogs and wife in the same bed.

Nick and Sonia are both self centered and equally insufferable.

Sonia's true salty self is just now surfacing...wonder why?

She was always salty, but she got a favorable edit, she's charismatic and with everyone victimizing her after "not attractive gate" people took sides and forgot that just because Nick was an asshole in that scene doesn't mean Sonia is a saint.

Nick had a baffling lack of emotional intelligence at the beginning but you know what, I still prefer that to the "I'm so great and so forgiving and so only about love" narcissim of Sonia. With Nick, you got what you saw, with her you got a hypocrite pretending to be a saint. When she took him back last year and the show was broadcast in September, she was regularly liking posts that were insulting him. Don't get me wrong, she should have never taken him back, but if you decide to do so, then at least try to actually forgive instead of pretending to do so just so that everyone treats you like a saint.

Then sometime after the divorce announcement he posted a general saying about how you should do things for the cause and not for the applause. She was immediately in his comments, defending herself and getting all enraged about his so called shade. Yet she is shading him on an almost daily basis and insinuating things and was also doing so (albeit in a more lowkey manner) when they were still together. 

He's by far not perfect, but I think it's clear why she's still single. And she seems to set the bar for what a man has to be pretty high and while she never told him she found him unattractive, she had other ways to make him feel inadequate. Her being on #MAFS2C will be a car crash but the experts and her social media following will be all fawning over her.

[Agnetha]

1 hour ago, Jellybeans said:

I understand now why Nick blurted out he did not like Sonia.   She is so self-centered.

I saw a comment somewhere (IG?) saying something along the lines of "maybe Nick slept with his dogs to keep sonia out of his bed" lol!

Yep. He should have never said that, but I always thought it came rather from a place of being annoyed and turned off by her demeanor rather than actually considering her aesthetically unpleasing. For someone so awkward/nervous he did seem content enough on the wedding day. 

[Gobears]

I totally understand why Sonia blocked Nick on IG after his "Work for a cause not applause" post. He has a crazed fan who made over 30 (!) comments attacking her and everyone who was trying to defend her in the comments, many of which Nick liked. I wouldn't want to read any comments about me like that either. Who has the time and obsession with Nick to make so many comments like the one below not to mention all the assumptions that this person made about their relationship?

desilucy2 "@soniagranados...all the while telling everyone it's none of their business, but going on radio and talking about the marriage and the divorce, which were also his marriage and his divorce too? You like to play the victim, when you have no idea what true victimization is, esp. what you have tried to do to his character? Then u complain that he won't answer you calls...really? Why should he answer your calls or talk to you when you shade his character, talk about being happy with you decision and moving on with you life? I'm sure he really cares whether you block him or not...since you like to block people that point out the truth...and speaking of the truth...let's be honest and say you did enough damage to the marriage your own self! Stop with the "we don't have the same love language," when there are plenty of people who don't, but are still married...what you didn't have was the level of commitment that Nick did...who you treated more like a boyfriend who you were keeping at arms length...than you ever treated him like a husband...you need to stop with all the attention seeking behavior...we know you've been an actress and you'really probably looking for your next reality show, but it's starting to be pathetic! Why are you seeking Nick's attention now...after the divorce....and why continue to talk about the divorce? Soundsort to me like you're trying to convince yourself that you made the right decision...having some regrets that you let the best thing that ever happened to you, go? Get a life and get over yourself! Now back to regularly scheduled quotes, golf pics, dog pics, and DIYing!"

[Agnetha]

Yes, that fan was scarily crazy and seemed to be obsessed with Nick,  but I think Sonia was all over his Instagram comments before that. Basically she was scolding him for something she herself does. Her double standards are part of what makes her so insufferable.

[Evil Queen]

5 hours ago, Agnetha said:

I love Neil, but I feel like he wouldn't do it. He wouldn't be able to keep a straight face and also he went through therapy after the first round, so I'm pretty sure he won't do it. I really think it will be Sonia and Derek. 

3 hours ago, gonecrackers said:

I loved Neil too but don't think he could pull it off.  From watching Second Chances though, I don't think anyone should do what they're doing.

Oh heck no to Neil doing that. As was said he had to go through therapy thanks to Sam and the idiot "experts". I would prefer not to see Derek on it or anything else ever. There are things we never saw there but the fact that he was high looking all the time and the ex he had talked to in the one brought up his having a temper are not good qualities for doing this kind of stuff. As it is I think the Second Chances show is so horrible it should be dropped. 

2 hours ago, gonecrackers said:

Sonia's true self seems to be showing at this point. Nick was no prize but I'm starting to give him more credit. We only see what the show wants us to, & it presented Nick in a negative light - & then there was poor, tormented Sonia. But maybe behind the scenes she was this fake bitch & he was trying more than we knew.

I still don't believe either of them were quality mates though, or should've ever been chosen for the show.

I don't think she is fake but she isn't what some probably thought. Yet I doubt she is as bad as some are saying either. I don't touch SM for the reasons of how negative it can be (and I have people I never want to find me) but we have seen it with many people where they get so much negative said to them they start reacting instead of ignoring it. Its not just this show that it has happened from. 

1 hour ago, Agnetha said:

With Nick, you got what you saw, with her you got a hypocrite pretending to be a saint. When she took him back last year and the show was broadcast in September, she was regularly liking posts that were insulting him. Don't get me wrong, she should have never taken him back, but if you decide to do so, then at least try to actually forgive instead of pretending to do so just so that everyone treats you like a saint.

I don't think we even saw what Nick really was aside from always drinking and having outbursts while drunk. I would never believe someone is a saint. Its silly if anyone ever does. I agree Sonia should never have taken him back. That was a given on the show IMO when her gut said not to. Yet sadly some of these people can be suckered by the "experts" into doing so. Heather is the only one that was strong enough to tell them where to take that "suggestion" of their's and not get bullied into going back. 

1 hour ago, Agnetha said:

Yep. He should have never said that, but I always thought it came rather from a place of being annoyed and turned off by her demeanor rather than actually considering her aesthetically unpleasing. For someone so awkward/nervous he did seem content enough on the wedding day. 

He was drunk like usual when he said it and was ranting and raving like a 2 yr old having a tantrum. Yet he should never have been picked for the show to begin with. She probably shouldn't have been either but more so he shouldn't have than her. 

No matter what these are 2 people that at the end of the day should get off the SM and move on from the show but won't because they are both getting attention (bad and good) and they are eating it up. 

[Gobears]

I would be more sympathetic toward Nick if he hadn't accused Sonia of cheating on him on Twitter and tagging the guy that she was supposedly cheating with. And this was after he had already aired their dirty laundry the day after Valentine's Day complaining that she didn't appreciate him, etc.

I don't know if the accusation was Nick's attempt at a joke, the truth or just an attempt to make Sonia look bad, but to me, it speaks to a complete disregard for her feelings and if I had to guess, the death blow for their already fragile marriage. And probably why Sonia is salty these days on SM...

1 hour ago, Evil Queen said:

I agree Sonia should never have taken him back. That was a given on the show IMO when her gut said not to. Yet sadly some of these people can be suckered by the "experts" into doing so. Heather is the only one that was strong enough to tell them where to take that "suggestion" of their's and not get bullied into going back. 

I agree, Evil Queen! She shouldn't have taken him back. But imagine how great the pressure was on her to stay, especially since Heather had already bailed on the show. How bad would it look on the new experts if 2 of the marriages had failed before the 6-week mark? Plus, they knew that Sonia was a "hopeless romantic" and a people pleaser, so they knew just what buttons to press.

[Agnetha]

7 hours ago, Evil Queen said:

Oh heck no to Neil doing that. As was said he had to go through therapy thanks to Sam and the idiot "experts". I would prefer not to see Derek on it or anything else ever. There are things we never saw there but the fact that he was high looking all the time and the ex he had talked to in the one brought up his having a temper are not good qualities for doing this kind of stuff. As it is I think the Second Chances show is so horrible it should be dropped. 

I don't think she is fake but she isn't what some probably thought. Yet I doubt she is as bad as some are saying either. I don't touch SM for the reasons of how negative it can be (and I have people I never want to find me) but we have seen it with many people where they get so much negative said to them they start reacting instead of ignoring it. Its not just this show that it has happened from. 

I don't think we even saw what Nick really was aside from always drinking and having outbursts while drunk. I would never believe someone is a saint. Its silly if anyone ever does. I agree Sonia should never have taken him back. That was a given on the show IMO when her gut said not to. Yet sadly some of these people can be suckered by the "experts" into doing so. Heather is the only one that was strong enough to tell them where to take that "suggestion" of their's and not get bullied into going back. 

He was drunk like usual when he said it and was ranting and raving like a 2 yr old having a tantrum. Yet he should never have been picked for the show to begin with. She probably shouldn't have been either but more so he shouldn't have than her. 

No matter what these are 2 people that at the end of the day should get off the SM and move on from the show but won't because they are both getting attention (bad and good) and they are eating it up. 

Not that that makes it better (it makes it in a way more worse), but in Sonia's words he wasn't drunk and barely ever drinks. She replied that to some of her fans.

I agree that they should move on. Having said that, Nick seems to have reduced his time on SM.

 

6 hours ago, Gobears said:

I would be more sympathetic toward Nick if he hadn't accused Sonia of cheating on him on Twitter and tagging the guy that she was supposedly cheating with. And this was after he had already aired their dirty laundry the day after Valentine's Day complaining that she didn't appreciate him, etc.

I don't know if the accusation was Nick's attempt at a joke, the truth or just an attempt to make Sonia look bad, but to me, it speaks to a complete disregard for her feelings and if I had to guess, the death blow for their already fragile marriage. And probably why Sonia is salty these days on SM...

I agree, Evil Queen! She shouldn't have taken him back. But imagine how great the pressure was on her to stay, especially since Heather had already bailed on the show. How bad would it look on the new experts if 2 of the marriages had failed before the 6-week mark? Plus, they knew that Sonia was a "hopeless romantic" and a people pleaser, so they knew just what buttons to press.

There is something seriously wrong with Nick (no Rachel DeAlto, empathy is not that difficult a concept to learn). Like in he lacks basic social skills - you don't come up with something like this and expect it not to impact your marriage.

Having said that, she is not innocent either. She's a grown woman and she took him back. Yet she resented him, and I don't mean after the divorce but while she was in her relationship. If you forgive your spouse and expect to move on from what happened, don't like posts that insult him and don't turn his introversion into a character flaw. Imagine Doug doing all this to Jamie?

I don't think she's a bad person and I do think she's serious about her work - you don't do that for ten years if you don't mean it. But she's more flawed than she likes people to think and she should just move on instead of letting us know how she would have been a better wife if she had a better husband, how someone cold in a relationship makes you feel alone, etc. She's exhausting in her quest of validation from strangers and I genuinely think the blame for the failure of this marriage is more equally balanced than she likes people to believe (though the idiot experts who matched them in the first place should take the lion's share). We'll see what comes with MAFS2C. I doubt she'll find her happily ever after there, you can take your partner out of the equation, but you cannot do that with yourself

Edited May 21, 2017 by Agnetha

[humbleopinion]

Sonia needs a spouse who will absorb some of her emotional  insecurities and help her find the confidence in herself emotionally.

Unfortunately, her worst personality aspects are magnified on TV and on SM.

And she was matched with Nick who was emotional Teflon.

What if she had been matched with someone more like this season's Anthony?

Hopefully, she will cut out the annoying voice inflections, vocal fry and word trails at the end of her sentences that makes them sound like questions.

I am stupid and would watch Sonia on 2nd Chances....

[gonecrackers]

5 hours ago, Agnetha said:

There is something seriously wrong with Nick (no Rachel DeAlto, empathy is not that difficult a concept to learn). Like in he lacks basic social skills - you don't come up with something like this and expect it not to impact your marriage.

They did show him once with a small group of friends & I thought he was much more animated & interactive with them then he ever was with Sonia. He might still lack empathy, which actually is a very difficult concept to learn if it's not already within. It can also be very painful to live with someone who lacks empathy, & for someone as insecure as Sonia that's the kiss of death.

However, she has to deal with her insecurity herself. It's her own problem that no one can help her with, least of all a husband.

[Agnetha]

1 hour ago, humbleopinion said:

Sonia needs a spouse who will absorb some of her emotional  insecurities and help her find the confidence in herself emotionally.

Unfortunately, her worst personality aspects are magnified on TV and on SM.

And she was matched with Nick who was emotional Teflon.

What if she had been matched with someone more like this season's Anthony?

Hopefully, she will cut out the annoying voice inflections, vocal fry and word trails at the end of her sentences that makes them sound like questions.

I am stupid and would watch Sonia on 2nd Chances....

Interesting thought. She does have high standards as to what a man should be (like her father, good earning power, gentleman). Anthony and her might have worked. But I'm not sure she would have liked his looks. And I think she might have been too exhausting for him. 

Although she denied it, I thought she was actually digging Nick's looks. Up until "the incident", she seemed to have a crush on him.

 

33 minutes ago, gonecrackers said:

They did show him once with a small group of friends & I thought he was much more animated & interactive with them then he ever was with Sonia. He might still lack empathy, which actually is a very difficult concept to learn if it's not already within. It can also be very painful to live with someone who lacks empathy, & for someone as insecure as Sonia that's the kiss of death.

However, she has to deal with her insecurity herself. It's her own problem that no one can help her with, least of all a husband.

Agreed, though I found them more interesting to watch, this was a really bad match. They should have picked for Nick someone who for the time being would have been content with committment and wouldn't have asked for much more until further down the road (for all his shortcomings, I never doubted that he would say 'yes' on decision day). And Sonia needed someone to cater to her ego to be able to overcome her insecurities. On SM, she painted herself as this person that knows her self-worth but TV screamed differently. I was surprised by how many times she brought up on the wedding day that he hadn't told her she was beautiful. He seemed a bit shy but happy enough so I don't know why she was so obsessed with this. Also, a lot of things she did were put down to being nervous/in an awkward situation (taking so long to say yes on the wedding day, mumbling nervously in her first few conversations with him, not allowing him to carry her over the threshold, running away in the middle of conversations) but she never cut him the same slack for being in the same awkward situation of marrying a stranger. I don't know, I feel like she wanted this confident fairytale gentleman, but never asked herself why a confident fairytale gentleman would need to apply for a show like this? The only men that would fit all her criteria would have probably been Jason and Neil (and even Neil would have probably been too quiet and not handsome enough for her).

 

 

Let me quote this Sonia gem for you:

"Being kind ALL the time sometimes is painful to my soul. Thankfully I have friends that I can unload on and then keep it moving!"

(insert eyeroll)

Edited May 21, 2017 by Agnetha

[humbleopinion]

Agreed, Sonia grooves the Nick-ish look.

People like what they like, no rhyme or reason needed.

Unfortunately, Nick was too caught up in his head to give Sonia a compliment, sincere or not.

Even when prompted by his mom to say something, his mumbled acknowledgement was lackluster and weak.

All Sonia wanted was a simple...you look pretty... from Nick.

  That would have been enough on that day to calm her anxiety...that she was acceptable to him.

Didn't help that it was a typical hot and humid day in Miami and everyone was sweating balls....

[Gobears]

20 hours ago, Agnetha said:

Honestly, she's so exhausting on Twitter and a hypocrite to boot. "I'll never speak about my marriage after this" - goes on to speak about it and shade the hell out of him. "I'm all love and everything" - yet every second tweet feels like a shade. She's a narcissist consistently seeking validation and praise from strangers who tell her how great and wonderful she is. When that season of MAFSs started I would have bet all my money on Nick being the reason for this marriage not working. But seeing what I see from her, I'm pretty sure both were at fault and while he was very slow to burn, I suspect he eventually got further than her. Also, how does a full-time employed woman with an active social life so much time on her hands to interact with strangers and on Social Media? She's 24/7 on her Twitter and a few weeks ago before she blocked him she was also all over Nick's social media.

If Sonia's social media behavior bothers you that much, you should just unfollow and ignore her.

I've seen other people tell her to spend less time on SM and she hasn't heeded their advice so I don't think she's going to change.

20 hours ago, Agnetha said:

How do you know it's her boyfriend?

I don't know for sure, but they seemed to be due to body language and they were visiting another state together (Arkansas) so maybe meeting his family? Plus, she captioned it with a heart.

[Jellybeans]

So Nick did not tell her she was beautiful...is she more about her outer beauty or inner?  

Not sure why it is Nick's job to fed Sonia compliments about her physical appearance.

Edited May 21, 2017 by Jellybeans

[humbleopinion]

Sonia's mom and Sonia were edited to make the audience think that it was a big deal that Nick was slow to compliment Sonia on her looks after the nuptials.

Supposedly that triggered this sequence of events...

 Sonia's mom dropped a hint to Nick's mom who passed it on to her son that it would be great if Nick could compliment Sonia.

Who knows how ham handed the editing was....

Edited May 21, 2017 by humbleopinion
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[Evil Queen]

17 hours ago, Gobears said:

I would be more sympathetic toward Nick if he hadn't accused Sonia of cheating on him on Twitter and tagging the guy that she was supposedly cheating with. And this was after he had already aired their dirty laundry the day after Valentine's Day complaining that she didn't appreciate him, etc.

I don't know if the accusation was Nick's attempt at a joke, the truth or just an attempt to make Sonia look bad, but to me, it speaks to a complete disregard for her feelings and if I had to guess, the death blow for their already fragile marriage. And probably why Sonia is salty these days on SM...

I agree, Evil Queen! She shouldn't have taken him back. But imagine how great the pressure was on her to stay, especially since Heather had already bailed on the show. How bad would it look on the new experts if 2 of the marriages had failed before the 6-week mark? Plus, they knew that Sonia was a "hopeless romantic" and a people pleaser, so they knew just what buttons to press.

Agree GOBEARS! I can imagine even after the 6 month reunion it was still being pushed on her to work things out by the "experts". She was perfect for them to sucker into going back and trying anytime she knew it wasn't going to work. Its disgusting that they do that too. Nick showed he was an ass from the get go on the show and from what I have seen after as well. I think she has acted out because she ended up burned by him and the "experts". 

5 hours ago, gonecrackers said:

They did show him once with a small group of friends & I thought he was much more animated & interactive with them then he ever was with Sonia. He might still lack empathy, which actually is a very difficult concept to learn if it's not already within. It can also be very painful to live with someone who lacks empathy, & for someone as insecure as Sonia that's the kiss of death.

However, she has to deal with her insecurity herself. It's her own problem that no one can help her with, least of all a husband.

I still don't believe he is really into women and if he is bi he is more into guys. I know many say otherwise but the way he interacted with the one guy at the ring store was saying a bit about him there and a few other things during the show just spoke volumes on him IMO. I have a feeling though as well that he was never taught taking responsibility for his actions as well with how he had/has been. The "experts" matching her with someone that lacked empathy was showing right there they were not matching them for the right reasons but hoping for drama to happen and was irresponsible. She had talked about having that issue with her mother (I think that was who) so why would you do that to her. I wouldn't have wanted to be married to someone like that either. It makes a person that has insecurities worse and ones that don't have them at times start having insecurities if they can't handle that type of person. 

4 hours ago, humbleopinion said:

Agreed, Sonia grooves the Nick-ish look.

People like what they like, no rhyme or reason needed.

Unfortunately, Nick was too caught up in his head to give Sonia a compliment, sincere or not.

Even when prompted by his mom to say something, his mumbled acknowledgement was lackluster and weak.

All Sonia wanted was a simple...you look pretty... from Nick.

  That would have been enough on that day to calm her anxiety...that she was acceptable to him.

Didn't help that it was a typical hot and humid day in Miami and everyone was sweating balls....

It doesn't come across as one means something if another person has to tell them to say something or ask if they said it. I agree that it might have calmed her down if he had said that from the get go. Yet I don't think he was into her ever during the show so it figured he wouldn't have. 

3 hours ago, Jellybeans said:

So Nick did not tell her she was beautiful...is she more about her outer beauty or inner?  

Not sure why it is Nick's job to fed Sonia compliments about her physical appearance.

Because it was their wedding day. Why shouldn't he have said it if he really thought it? It would have made sense to tell the bride that. What groom has never once said to his bride in the moment she looked pretty or beautiful? My husband doesn't always say things like that but he sure did on our wedding day. It might have made her feel like this could be the start of something if Nick had told her that. Instead of leaving her wondering what he was thinking. 

[Jellybeans]

I suppose I am different... I never liked being told I was pretty, etc. by strangers.  It is off-putting.

Then again I did not marry a stranger either.

[Evil Queen]

4 hours ago, Jellybeans said:

I suppose I am different... I never liked being told I was pretty, etc. by strangers.  It is off-putting.

Then again I did not marry a stranger either.

I get it. It could be a little off-putting depending on who and how it was said. For me I never heard things like that growing up or from a stranger so I have never really looked at myself in that way. With this situation of marrying a stranger I can see how feedback might work. If there is nothing said about the groom looking nice or handsome or the bride pretty, it could be taken and looked at as maybe the person isn't into them right off the bat. Most of the people that liked how the bride/groom looked said something to compliment them and let them know they liked who they were matched with so far.... I just know that IF I had been in this situation of marrying a stranger (which I wouldn't have ever done this and more so with how brutal people are) I would want to hear it or some sort of compliment to give me a hint that they could be attracted and ready to try to give the marriage a go, kwim? 

[gonecrackers]

A stranger calling someone 'pretty' is kind of creepy. But they are strangers who have married, so I think of that differently, given they have entered into what is supposed to be an intimate relationship.

[Jellybeans]

Reddit posted a spoiler on Ashley/Anthony.  Both of them posted the same Christmas tree on their respective IG's.  They tried to change a few things (gift arrangement, etc) but fans matched up the location of selected Christmas ornaments.  

So as of Christmas they were still together.

Any spoilers on the other two couples?

[discoprincess]

2 hours ago, Jellybeans said:

Reddit posted a spoiler on Ashley/Anthony.  Both of them posted the same Christmas tree on their respective IG's.  They tried to change a few things (gift arrangement, etc) but fans matched up the location of selected Christmas ornaments.  

So as of Christmas they were still together.

Any spoilers on the other two couples?

I read on another message board someone claiming that N8 (the stylization is hilarious btw) and Sheila were still together. Apparently, they attend the same church as someone whom the poster knows. 

I'd love to know whether Anthony and Ashley stayed together. I would be so disappointed if they were to split. 

On 5/11/2017 at 8:49 AM, Jellybeans said:

Well if she is pregnant or had the baby, it appears to be a girl.  

If she had a baby...seems it would be hard to hide the news from the general public.  A pregnancy is obvious!

...unless it's a "I Didn't Know I was Pregnant!" situation.

[Evil Queen]

4 hours ago, discoprincess said:

I read on another message board someone claiming that N8 (the stylization is hilarious btw) and Sheila were still together. Apparently, they attend the same church as someone whom the poster knows. 

One would think there as pictures...unless I missed it here before. Yet I remember with Atlanta many assuming Neil and Sam were together because supposedly they were spotted in a furniture or home improvement store. IMO it doesn't mean much at this point. Neil and Sam are on "friendly" terms at this point so who is to say it isn't the case for them too? As well as one has to take into account when were they seen in church together? Or maybe he likes her church or he likes her's. Another thing, what if they had always attended the same church before? If by chance they do stay together at the end, I can't see them lasting. There is to many issues on either side that make them such a terrible match and not long lasting. 

[humbleopinion]

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4537772/Married-Sight-star-fights-wife-s-FATHER.html

Preview of tomorrow's show.

Sheila's sister didn't come to the wedding because her bf was cut from the limited guest list.

Dad is still salty about the whole family not at the wedding, starts argument.

Codester continues friend zoning Danielle.

Ashley's sister, Lauren pushing the baby agenda.

Anthony and Lauren's husband look alike and may go to the same barber and shave shop.

[Gobears]

Does anyone else feel that almost every season there are 3 types of couples on the show?

1. The lovey-dovey couple with minimal drama (likely to stay together at the end) (Season 1-Jason/Courtney, Season 3-Vanessa/Tres, Season 4-Lilly/Tom, Season 5-Anthony/Ashley)

2. The awkward couple (50/50 chance of staying together at the end) (Season 1-Jamie/Doug, Season 3-Neil/Sam, Season 4-Sonia/Nick, Season 5-Cody/Danielle)

3. The shitshow couple with crazy drama (unlikely to stay together at the end) (Season 1-Monet/Vaughn, Season 3-David/Ashley, Season 4-Heather/Derek, Season 5-Sheila/Nate)

I exclude season 2 from this because it doesn't really fit this narrative.  It's almost like the show edits the couples a certain way each season to fit the three categories...

Edited May 25, 2017 by Gobears

[biakbiak]

I don't really get Vanessa/Trey being in that first group.

[humbleopinion]

  Making Season 2 fit into the Couple Categories...just a few tweaks with a sledgehammer and chainsaw

1. Lovey-Doveys-  Jaclyn, in her animal print and Tito's Vodka glory, waiting in vain for her husband with the huge veneers to come spend married time with her in their love apt, sadly didn't know Basement Ryan was doving his lovey into a old girlfriend.

2. The Awkwards- Living in Manhattan with Davina, Sean commuted to work in Joisey and kept bowling for the other side, if you know what I mean...

3. The Crazies- Hundy Ryan, named for stealing $100 from their wedding money...grandfather worshiper...connoisseur of clown portraiture...and his wife, Jessica did have sexual attraction and spent plenty time in the marital sack but eventually she had to get a restraining order against him because of the threat of violence and menacing behaviors.

The "experts" really outdid themselves with ineptitude Season 2 causing a shake up... Dr. Pepper, the only expert to continue with the show.

[JAndy]

10 hours ago, humbleopinion said:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4537772/Married-Sight-star-fights-wife-s-FATHER.html

Preview of tomorrow's show.

Sheila's sister didn't come to the wedding because her bf was cut from the limited guest list.

Dad is still salty about the whole family not at the wedding, starts argument.

Codester continues friend zoning Danielle.

Ashley's sister, Lauren pushing the baby agenda.

Anthony and Lauren's husband look alike and may go to the same barber and shave shop.

I can't watch Sheila anymore. Like someone else said (I think in here) I keep on looking at her mouth. She moves it so oddly. And FWIW, I do think she should have invited her sisters boyfriend. 

[humbleopinion]

Shelia's facial contortions are a result of her smiling and talking simultaneously...

She looks like a recovering stroke patient...and Popeye the Sailor Man...sans pipe

Hopefully, she sees how weird and awkward she looks in her TH when she talks...it is very off putting, disconcerting and unappealing to the viewers.

A M@FS producer should have told her to stop it and have a normal face in her THs.

 

Cutting your sister's bf off the wedding list is mean and spiteful... meaning there is deeper sh!t going on between the sisters.

Thinking Sheila rules her family with her tantrums, outbursts and histrionics... bullying them into submission.

Something about that girl ain't right...

[Evil Queen]

8 hours ago, biakbiak said:

I don't really get Vanessa/Trey being in that first group.

Or Neil/Sam in the awkward...more like the crazies/drama for these 2. 

 

4 hours ago, humbleopinion said:

The "experts" really outdid themselves with ineptitude Season 2 causing a shake up... Dr. Pepper, the only expert to continue with the show.

Sadly she is still with the show. IMO Pepper should have gone with the rest of the idiots. She is just as bad as the other ones...if not worse. 

4 hours ago, JAndy said:

I can't watch Sheila anymore. Like someone else said (I think in here) I keep on looking at her mouth. She moves it so oddly. And FWIW, I do think she should have invited her sisters boyfriend.

3 hours ago, humbleopinion said:

A M@FS producer should have told her to stop it and have a normal face in her THs.

Cutting your sister's bf off the wedding list is mean and spiteful... meaning there is deeper sh!t going on between the sisters.

That is probably her normal face though. 

As for her sister's boyfriend not being invited. Its her boyfriend. Its not like its her husband. To me its not mean or spiteful or something one HAS to do. Mean and spiteful is the sister not showing up because her boyfriend wasn't "allowed" to come. Its not her sister's dad or her "family's" day but Sheila's. I get sick of people that think and assume someone should be "allowed" or "invited" to something because they are dating someone. If I have a limit on who I can have there the boyfriend/girlfriend is going to be last on the list. I didn't see anything saying how long the sister/bf have been together either but I am guessing it might not have been long the way its sounding. If that is the case I would invite those I have known a heck of a lot longer than some boyfriend of the sister just because she has a tantrum over it. I don't think Sheila is the issue here but her family. More so the sister and daddy dearest there. Seems sister was rude by not showing up or even letting them know she wasn't and had a fit like a toddler over bf not invited. SMH

I will say this. My husband and I had decided on a very small wedding. He wanted to just go to the courthouse and do it. I said no. I wanted something nicer than that. I found a place for us a couple cities over that wasn't to costly for us since we were paying for everything. We had a limit of 10 people for the cost and that included us in the 10. I had my best friend up there with me as she is more my sister than my related by blood sister (who was NOT invited) and my husband had his sister up there for him. My parents, his mom, my son (who was almost 3), and sis in law's boyfriend (who she had been with for many years). We had room for 2 more and really if my friend had lived closer I would have had her husband and daughter there with us too. My grandma wouldn't have come and she is the only other one I would have had there. My sister is not a good person (not like my mom is either) so there was no way I wanted her nastiness there on my day. We were not going to pay for his big family to come. My husband did not want them all there. Nothing against them either at that time but we wanted small. They got over the disappointment and one aunt of his tried to tell us she would have helped but this was our day and how we wanted it. Its not about everyone else. I think those people forget that at times...some just don't care but are about drama so who wants that around. I'm just telling this to make the point that I don't believe Sheila did anything wrong and its her dad and selfish sister that are. 

3 hours ago, humbleopinion said:

Thinking Sheila rules her family with her tantrums, outbursts and histrionics... bullying them into submission.

I think this is more her sister and dad from how it sounds at this point. 

[humbleopinion]

Will Sheila and her dad be able resolve their differences in tonite's episode?...gotta tune in...

Hopefully, the sister in question will personally respond to the episode on FB or Twitter.

Maybe a bridesmaid situation like Lily and her sis?.....

Edited May 25, 2017 by humbleopinion
Fingers crossed

[gonecrackers]

Sheila had a limit, & it's not like her sister is engaged. Sheila said she's seen the guy maybe 10 times. So he gets cut for lack of space; understandable. The sister should've shut up & shown up.

Way to make great memories selfish sis.

[Gobears]

There was a lot of speculation last season that Nick might be gay, but what if he's bisexual instead? See photo below:

If he is bisexual and he hasn't dated a woman in a while, it might explain his discomfort toward Sonia (especially when he said "you're making me touch boob"in the infamous hammock scene). Also, it seems like his ex-boyfriend was the best man in his wedding and the guy who gave him the six-pack talk. BTW, Nick liked that first comment as well as another one that said "They've been together for a long time".  Of course, it's also possible that the couple comment was made in jest...

Edited May 25, 2017 by Gobears