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Karla just sitting there with no emotions while Juan was crying was actually heartbreaking. And let's be honest, why would he want a homeless, jobless woman who can't be bothered to do any housework. And her manipulation of him "I know what he wants to see" so she makes a notebook of things she knows he wants to hear. He is no prize but Karla with her stupid looking outfits really isn't a prize. Michelle basically has told David since day one she is not interested in him, will never be interested in him and finds him lacking. I don't blame David for trying to find someone who makes him feel good. This has never been a marriage so there is no cheating. Michelle is just here to not pay a fine. And we watched David try for a month. I would have given up too. Madison doesn't want Allen. It is sad watching him try so hard but you can see it beginning to become clear to him too. I feel bad for him. Emem looks bad with her stank face as she pretends she wants to try with him. She needs to stop that We all know it was over with the idiot after he called her aggressive. That itchy needs to just be hung up on the wall of the worst men on this show with the rest of them. But Emem isn't looking like roses either at this point. Thomas is going to have his heart crushed. Camille is not into him. He is a good for sex partner but she thinks he is weak and not masculine which means he isn't good enough for her.

I don't care where David lived. There I said it. Where he lived is not where they would live as a married couple. All I found out from the visit was he is a bit of a slob and lived like a single man. She is still a bitch and isn't bothering to even give him a chance because she thinks she is better than him. The thing is he is honest. If she gave him a chance he would dote on her. When he said her apartment was simple I understood what he was saying. She did not have a over the top don't sit on the furniture type of home. She tried to make it a home. It was nice and it was simple. The fact that she took that as a negative is on her. She will be the end of this marriage. And really the producers/experts should have had this couple skip the home visits and maybe they might have tried. She was going to with the list of things to do but that home visit probably killed that. Karla needs to chill out. For someone who is a go with the flow type of person as she keeps saying she sure is not go with the flow. Imagine finding out the woman you married expects you to support her. Doesn't have another place to live but your house and wants to change your entire apartment to suit her. She basically just started saying things like this rug has to go. There is a nicer way to go about changing things in someone else's house. Ask. For all she knew that rug came from his great grandfather. Seriously. And she wants him to stop being so happy. What a weird thing to want. Juan is not going to fit her world and honestly I don't think he wants to. Camille needs to stop comparing him to her ex's. They are ex's for a reason. You may be attracted to your mythical swag you can't even describe but look where you were. Single and going on a reality show to find a husband. I felt like he entered this marriage for the wrong reasons. "because he felt like he had to" but I think that he is actually wanting to give it a chance. And Camille needs to dress better herself before telling someone else to dress better. Alan seems like a wonderful catch. But Madison is going to throw it all in the garbage because she is looking for a bad boy pretty man. And who the hell on their first night in their new apartment with their new spouse goes out and doesn't come home. She is a bit of a bitch for that as well. I think Alan will start to resent her. Emem and spouse are pretending. They have to be. They just pet each other with words they don't mean. And those eyelashes have got to go. When you can't even open your eyes you have gone too long with the lashes. I don't think he is into her at all.

Reading through these threads, I am a bit disappointed in how hard you guys are going at David's looks. He is not your conventional handsome but he sure isn't the troglodyte you seem to think he is. I have read ugly, scary, dirty, unkempt when talking about him. Guess what. Looks fade. Looks change. He came into this honestly looking for a wife to treat like a princess and instead they gave him a hag woman. She literally said he did not look like what she saw in her head and never gave him a chance. I know a lot of you are young here probably but let me tell you what can and has happened in the real world. You can meet someone you have zero physical attraction to and end up being together for more than 32 years because the inside is beautiful. And guess what, once you see how beautiful the inside is, that outside you didn't find attractive suddenly becomes attractive. And it was also a bit disgusting reading on here that someone should cover up a birthmark because you consider it ugly. It is a freaking birthmark. He was born with it. Maybe all of us could be a bit less judgmental about physical things. I hope to God they don't ever read this.

Thomas and Camille - He is not ready for this marriage. He is doing it out of FOMO and pressure. That doesn't bode well for him. Camille being so positive and ready only to freak out like that was out of character for her. Allen and Madison - He is in this for the right reasons and I feel like his heart is open. She is going to find him boring. She is a self proclaimed life of the party who wants to go out all the time and be the center of attention. He is not that. She is going to ruin this match in my mind. She won't accept him for him immediately.

I am one of the people who thought this started today. I watched the matchmaking show last night in a semi panic. I was fine with the first and second couple. Then they got to the really driven man and the hippy girl and my first thought was this is a really stupid match. I don't remember the names yet either. I really want this season to work but some accidentally seen spoilers (Hate spoilers) make me think it won't. I need some separation of couples and more expert meetings with the couples. I hope I see that. Happy watching everyone.

I get hammered every time I say it but I think the man truly loved her. Like real. Yes he has his issues and she has hers but I think they could have made it if the pack hadn't ruined it for them. I understand he didn't want to have sex while on tv. It doesn't mean he wasn't attracted to her. It could mean that he didn't want to have sex ON TV. He literally also said he takes a long time to be intimate. She didn't respect that and kept hounding and hounding him then crying to the pack. I think he is hurt and a bit broken because he thought everything was fine and she came out firing all cylinders because of the pack. She had told him she wanted to be alone. He wanted to party with everyone because filming was over. Obviously that was a mistake. Anywho. I feel bad for them both. I think they could have made it. Nobody is required to have sex with anyone. If it had been the other way around we would be roasting him for pushing sex constantly but because it is a man he gets a free pass. Yes, he looked bad for lying to a woman who came out screaming at him when he thought everything was fine. But I don't think that is why he was crying. He thought they were going to stay married and got blindsided.

I feel like this shows that they need to separate the couples from each other. Most of this could have been nipped in the bud if they didn't see each other every day. I do like that the host is calling out that they all scammed the system and ruined it for everyone. Because they did. Every single one of them is to blame. And Claire.. sit down. Just try to be quiet for one minute when another person is voicing their opinion. They don't need you to crawl in their lap and whisper things into their being. It was interesting how us against them this was. The women have become a pack. Pack mentality isn't always the best. Even if everything they say is 100% true it doesn't seem like it. The whole "go get em" attitude was just the wrong way to go. Case in point Emily walking with her middle fingers up made her look like a child instead of an adult strong woman which she is. I wish all of them would have just tried to make it work this season instead of playing pretend. Given this an actual fair shot. I hope next season isn't this stupidity.

I sincerely hope that optics dies after this season. The over use of that word is driving me nuts.

I almost understood the "lie" about the producer if it was one. it is one of two things. Let's say he went with Brennan and a producer was there already and joined up with them. (Everyone was going to the same bar) Did you go to the bar with a producer? No is not a lie. Two. Becca told him she needed some alone time. He goes to the bar with his friends. He thinks everything is fine like he said on the way into that get together. Then Becca walks in BLASTS him in front of all the other people. He is stunned, humiliated and pretty much wants to end the yelling. So when she yells at him if he was with a producer he lied. He just wants it to end. This second scenario has literally happened to me. I had one hell of a childhood with a lot of yelling and you learn tricks and tips on how to defuse the "monster" yelling at you. One of those tricks is lie. Now as an adult I understand that is not the way to get out of things anymore but man trigger that inner child by coming at me strong and sometimes your brain reverts right back to the defuse the monster in any way possible. Again totally not saying that is right but it is something that happens. Becca was in the wrong in that moment. This was something that should have been done in private. Not with a harpy cheerleading team behind her egging her on. Hell Emily even told her "Do you want to change your answer now" UGH

Last one. Becca was light and sunshine until she didn't get sex. Then everything became about her not having sex. It was honestly exhausting listening to her go on and on about it. I would have lost all sex drive as well. It is too bad because I really liked them for each other in the beginning.

One more thing as I am reading this thread. If your hands are dirty and you have your own coat why the hell are you picking up mine. If you are cold feel free to wear it but take 2 minutes to wash your hands. It is called respecting my belongings. Seriously if you have a jacket and someone wants to wear it but they have dirty hands wouldn't you think it would be a normal human thing to do. Wash your hands? I don't care if when it dries you can wipe it off. Wash your hands. It sounds like all of you would be fine with your partner putting your jacket on with filthy hands when they are in a room with a sink. Be honest. You wouldn't. Your idea and my idea of gross are different. I find it natural.

I feel like I am the only one who wasn't "grossed out" by Michael and Chloe getting frisky. My first thought was Good for them! Should it have been shown so blatantly not really but sex happens. And I for one was glad to see there is a real attraction between them.

I completely enjoyed the wedding. I got a little teary eyed. I hope it goes as well as it looks like it is going to. I do wish the other couples weren't there though.

Holy cow. This WAS mean. Just because you don't find him attractive doesn't mean other people wouldn't.

It is so weird. I feel like I am watching a different Becca and Austin then you guys are. I see them having fun together and being flirty. I don't think he was never into her. Truthfully I think he is into her. I keep wondering if I am the only one seeing that. Because from these threads it sure seems like it.