Hi Zahdii,
Believe me I have thought of all of these issues you have mentioned....He is crazy about her! They have know each other since Middle School, but unfortunately because of friggin Face Book and started talking back and forth....when she came to town last year in Dec they met for dinner and he has been after her ever since. Don't get me wrong he is a nice guy and very polite I just don't like how he was planning their lives even before they started going together! And he just doesn't match up with her life style of Yoga, and spiritually.....she doesn't drink and he does! I just pray it wears it self out when she gets a taste of traveling for her degree w/ animals. He is a very good dad though, I will give him that and his girls like my daughter.