My reactions to the Duggars' social media posts has mostly been eye-roll-y, which is how I react to most things about the Duggars anyway. The exceptions are Jill's longer post and Lauren. Jill's long post about Mary's "soul-winning" ways is upsetting for precisely the reasons Jill meant it to be upsetting. I lost my grandmother in December and, as an inconsistent attender of a very liberal main-line protestant church, we never talked about her "personal relationship with Jesus" but my Nan had more of a servant's heart than all thirty-odd Duggars put together. To have Jill come out on social media (although I know it's her belief and that a lot of folks believe the same) and say that my grandmother is in Hell because she was "just" a good person while hers is in Heaven makes me see red.
Lauren's just confirms that she is very much an all about meeeeeee type, as I have already suspected. Miscarriages are sad and awful and hard, sweetie, but so is losing a grandparent. You don't get to piggy-back on your in-laws' grief to make sure everyone knows just how much more tragic your story is.