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1. Why was Phaedra waving her ring in Demetria's face when she's planning on divorcing her husband? Old habits die hard, I guess. Poor thing. 2. Theory: Bravo is deliberately screwing with Cynthia's look to make Kenya look better. Cynthia gets the makeup artist who just got out of a 6-week program, Kenya gets the pro. Cynthia's wardrobe budget gets slashed to hell, Kenya gets the extra. Cynthia has to wear the same tired blond scraggly weave all season long, Kenya's going to the salon every week. I swear, there's a conspiracy afoot. It's seriously the only explanation. Lol

Ugh. "Exquisite." I'm getting grossed out all over again. That's an image that I don't need to have in my head. And yes, why the hell would you tell a room of strangers that? You don't know those women. Some may want to see for themselves. What a foolish woman.

Oh and why was Demetria all "the D is on point" or whatever when talking about Roger? So classless and desperate. I make it a point of never talking about sex with current partners for gossip purposes.

Nice... Lol One of the reasons (well the only reason) I like Cynthia is because of her impeccable style. I still remember her looks during the African trip - flawless. Well, times have changed and now I have zero use for her. What was that floral pantsuit she was wearing? The blue eyeshadow? #fixitjesus indeed. This happened in a previous episode, but I'm just going to put it here... I Was really annoyed when Phaedra made a comment that the natural wig Derek was working on looked like pubic hair. Bitch- that's what your hair looks like without all the fake ass weave you got up in there. What a stupid desperate shallow woman. I used to feel a little bit sorry for her and the Apollo situation, but no longer. Those chickens are coming home to roost. In your stringy ponytail.

The women are such the underdogs in terms of fundraising it's not even funny. Olympic athletes do not equal ex-nfl and mba players with regard to friends with deep pockets. And what's with the over representation of reality stars on the womens team? Who the hell is Kate plus eight going to call? Other moms in the pta? Is her charity her own damn family? But I digress. The men have a very diverse group of celebs that appeal to a wide cross section of people (sex, age, interests, etc)... The females, not so much. I'd be joining Shawn and would try to defect to Vortex.

I'm just glad Cassia already had a suitcase full of short tight dresses - the defacto uniform of Vegas. She finally found her people.

Oh yeah. Hot, sexy accent, looks good in a suit, funny as hell with beautiful deadpan... I want more. Lots more.

Yes, I will have to tell my S American husband that interracial marriages are verboten in America and I will need to marry a Black guy. Oh Danny boy, the pipes the pipes need to be slammed up against your damn head. I suppose this is what happens when someone who is CLUELESS and UTTERLY frightened about race decides to get into a relationship with a woman like Amy. His passivity enrages me. He is the worst. Re racist dad: does anyone even believe he could locate England, South Africa or the Netherlands on a map? Seriously, I would bet my entire life savings and non silver interracial marriage wedding rings. Now if you're Amy's mom or aunts, how the hell could you let her marry Danny? I was in the #runAmy camp, but now I am in the "get Amy back to S Africa by any means necessary" camp. Honestly, you wouldn't even have to stick her on a plane. Just hold her somewhere comfy until the 90 days runs out. I'd put her up in the Waldorf Astoria - she'd love it!

I don't like Riley. She's been disrespectful on numerous occasions and Kandi just laughs it off. Such a brat. She acts like she's going to be enrolling at MIT when she'll probably end up at a local commuter college for two semesters before dropping out and working as an "intern" making $80,000 for Kandi Enterprises. And Kandi, maybe you shouldn't have been so quick to make Todd sign a prenup if you wanted him to stay home all day and night to be your cuddle partner...

*sigh* it looks like my beloved Amy is going to go ahead with this sham of a wedding. I'm hoping that she ends up flying back home with her mom, but sadly, I don't think that's going to happen. She's not going to have much of a sex life with Danny, but at least she'll have a ton of new sisters in law to make scrapbooks with and crappy things from Pintrest... That should help pass the time for the next 40-50 years. Lord help her. Lol

I will say this about Chelsea's parents - I liked the way they both immediately embraced Yamir upon meeting him. I wished more families would have done that. But oh how I laughed and laughed at the meat packaging comment. Yes, Yamir do that. Practice your boy band dance moves while sliding on a factory floor slick with animal parts. Why on earth would Chelsea drag him to her crappy town? He needs to leave. Which brings me to Amy. That conversation with the pastor was illuminating, was it not? Danny whining about how he had to be her family and the friends and how it was such a burden made me want to punch him in the face. Amy should have begged to borrow airfare home from the pastor's wife. I'm still laughing at the daughters shrek comment when Danielle was in her wedding dress. So mean. So true, but so mean. Lol I'd be so pissed if she was my mom and she was spending $800 on a shitty wedding dress. There go your new school clothes girls... Mom had to look like a pretty princess on her Special Day. Next week is going to be goooooood.

I could probably fund a Kickstarter campaign to send Amy back to South Africa in about 45 seconds. With first class accommodations. I feel like Danny has no idea who Amy is. What did they talk about during their time together in S. Africa? Bible versus? Run far away Amy. Not only are the Americans stupid, it seems as though their families are stupid. Honestly, they should all get green cards just for sitting through those dinners. And Daya should get one for sleeping with a kid she just met. Gah! This show. Lol

Newcomer here and I am loving this show and all of your comments. People I feel most sorry for (in order) Danielle's kids - Mohamed is going to suck out what little money Danielle has, it's just a matter of time. And they kids are going to be the ones that suffer. My best friend's mom married this guy from Argentina. Large age difference and in 5 years they were done and so was her 401k and the house that my friend grew up in. Mom had to stay with her until she found a room for rent in someone else's house. Evelyn - Justin is an asshole. The way he kept pawing her in the limo and was in such a hurry to sleep with her totally rubbed me the wrong way. And the fact that he refuses to introduce her to his family which she clearly wants is a huge red flag. Amy - I thought about putting Amy first, but I think she could probably just catch a flight home if things go south. Danny just seems really naive and stupid. How come they didn't discuss living arrangements before? Amy couldn't google map that house and see that it was in BFE? Gah. Danny couldn't have given her some magazines, his high school yearbook, or a Coming to America DVD to pass the time? Poor girl. I can't wait until we meet the racists... I don't feel as sorry for the others.

I'm also trying to figure out why I'm meh on this show and here's what I've come up with: - Same choreographers, doing similar choreography across seasons. - While talented, the dancers seem so young and I just don't buy all the emotion that they're trying to manufacture. It doesn't seem genuine. - Overreliance on contemporary dancers. Can't we incorporate more dance styles so the ideal contestant isn't a flailing angsty lyrical dancer? - Crappy hip hop dancing - Female/male couples. I think the show would be more exciting if there could be same sex pairs as well. I'm sick of all the hetero based love story dances. - Sticking with the same partner every week

A lot of times prenups served in this manner are easily contested. I signed a prenup before my wedding. My husband owns his own business and wanted to protect it in case we divorced. I understood and was (relatively! lol) okay with it. He paid for a lawyer of my choosing and the lawyers went back and forth. But in the end, we had a document that looked after both of our interests. The person bringing the prenup typically pays for the lawyer for the other person. Or at least that's what my research found. I think if Kandi and Todd had sat down with a mediator, they could have come to terms that they both found agreeable. I just think Kandi handled the situation poorly and both of them weren't able to communicate with each other. Red flag. This shit that Kandi is trying to pull is bullshit.

The prenup discussion was interesting. First off, I think everyone would agree that Kandi should have a prenup to protect the money/assets she brought into the marriage as well as to ensure that Riley her daughter is taken care of. However, judging by what I heard from Todd, it appears as though Kandi's lawyer is taking no prisoners when it comes to the prenup. If Kandi wants a true partner, she's going to have to give a little. Be prepared to pay spousal support, pay for Todd's living expenses, put his name on the deed of the house... something. She's said herself that she's not goiing to get the baller that's making more money than her - that those guys don't want a 40+ year old woman. Well if that's the case, then she needs to get used to the idea of being the primary wage earner in the relationship and having a spouse that makes a fraction of what she does. Part of being the primary wager earner is providing for your spouse, even if he's a guy.